Hey! This Cartoon Looks Like Me

and also captures the way I feel.
cartoon by: Thierry Guitard 

Announcing Switch Vixy

Kinkstress Vixy is the latest addition to the staff at Command Performance.

Vixy has been in the scene for a few years and is looking to have some fun working as a switch at Command Performance!

Here's an abbreviated list of what she likes, on both sides of the paddle:

From the TOP
Pegging / Strap on, Violet Wand, Spitting, Trampling, Tickling, OTK Spanking, Paddling, Inflicting Pain, and more!

From the BOTTOM
Light Spanking, Bondage, Flogging and more!

Learn more about Kinkstress Vixy!

Three Holiday Parties Before You Know What

Yep. Perv out and party on before the Mayan calendar runs out and the zombies attack. here at CP this year we have three delectably demented Holiday events coming up:

OTC /Newbie Night Dec 9th - FetLife Link for more info
Serious play and lots of yummy food. Eating and beating and educating newcomers to this crazy scene of ours.

House of 1000 Santas Dec 14th - FetLife - more info
Work out that Some X-mas angst while pretending you are in a Rob Zombie Christmas Special.

TNG Sensation Stations & Potluck Dec 21 - FetLife - more info
Surround yourself with young flesh and await the end of the world, or not.

Happy Thanksgiving!

What a great turn out last night for Spanksgiving, thanks to everyone who was a part of the festivities! Congrats to Sir Joel for winning the spanking skit competition!

Hope you all have a Happy Turkey Day!

Spanksgiving 2012!

Wednesday, November 21, 2012 · 8:00 PM –11:59 PM

Cost: $10 (w/toy or canned goods) - $15 without
Dress: Festive and fun. As the Holidays approach, we connect with our heritage and celebrate old ways and time honored traditions that make this time of year so magical. And spankos and pervs are no exception to this rule! It just wouldn't be Thanksgiving if we didn't take some time the night before to warm up the bottoms of any and all who are willing so that we can amuse ourselves the next day watching them try to sit comfortably at the turkey dinner! This year Lady Regina is going to be collecting food/toy donations which Lady Regina will donate to charity for good holiday karma so bring something with you for a discount!

RVSP by e-mail or on FetLife: here.

Lady Regina - a Rockstar!

I saw this totally awesome picture of the lovely Lady Regina and I just had to pass it along! Too cool! Great pic bebe le stranger!

In other news, the official commandperformance.net website developed some technical issues recently, so we're working on a redesign. The offending pages have already been replaced - temporarily... but you should be able to see it without issues again, and hopefully it will be all pretty and new by the end of the week.

CP - Party Season Stepping into Full Swing!

As fall begins, so does party season at CP!

The first big event is the upcoming CFnm Halloween Party
If you're out of the loop, CFnm means "Clothed Female Naked Male
Date: October 26th Halloween Party!
8/10pm to 2am - (beginners @ 8)
Dress code: Men must be naked, ladies dress casual

The CFNM party at Command Performance have been a great success! If you want more information about what happens at our CFNM parties - read these blog entries about the past events: Entry 1 - Entry 2 - Entry 3

The next big event is our annual SPANKSGIVING Party.

For several years now, on the night before Thanksgiving, spanking and old fashioned discipline enthusiasts gather at Command Performance to kick off the holiday season in our own special way. There are games, refreshments and of course hairbrushes, wooden spoons, belts, slippers, paddles and canes galore. Needless to say some of the attendees are sitting down to Thanksgiving dinner a bit carefully and squirming a bit as they recall the night's festivities.

Door is $10 per person. Call (954) 782 1778 with any questions or e-mail ladyregina@commandperformance.net

Beyond those big two, we have several other exciting events. October 17th we have the "Night of Shame Humiliation Party" from 8PM to Midnight

Males get insulted, made fun of, put in ridiculous outfits, tied up in humiliating positions, sexually harassed, belittled and otherwise abused and disgraced.

Newcomer's Night:
October 14th & November 11th - Doors open at 8 PM

Ladies Only Group:
Tuesday October 16th, from 7 - 9 PM Hosted by Lady Regina and Maya Little

TNG - "The Next Generation":
November 17 - Doors Open @ 8 PM

Recovery in the Lifestyle
Meets next on Wednesday, October 10th @ 7 PM

If you want more information about these events and parties, visit our events webpage: ttp://commandperformance.net/events.html

A glimpse of My rarely seen and even more rarely discussed obssesive and geeky side

So just recently a friend and I were talking about the 1999 David Croenenberg film Existenz  and how trippy and omnious it looked and felt. It's definitely the creepy body-horror type Cronenberg and I need to see it again. Im obsessed with reading interpretations and discussions about it on the internet but most of all Im obsessed with the body ports and the controllers that look like a hybrid of  a living thing and a sex toy of some mysterious sort.

 I then randomly learned while scrolling thorugh my Tumblr of the Dragon Dildos which I guess are an internet meme but are also for-real awesome and insane looking dildos that I totally want and actually kind of remind me of Existenz and also of the only dream I had about having a penis of my own. But it gets better because the site where I found these bad-dragon.com is so awesomely fucking demented I can hardly stand it. As cool as the toys are the accompanying "product descriptions"(and I use the term loosely) are mind blowing. It's hilarious and totaly entertaining and is my latest obsession. I showed em to Lady Lotus and we are both on  a mission to aquire some of these amazing and fantastic things and then -what else! strap em on and tear someone up like angry dragons!

Run, my minions and gather these things for Me! Muahahaha

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How I Spent My Summer Vacation

Hanging out with Amazing Dominant Women like Lady Michelle in our underwear ( or fetishwear) of course. If you want to find out more about her check out the Club FEM website. Im co-holding the keys to aarkey's device (and hence his heart and mind) with this fantastic lady and that's been a fun summer project as well.

Plus with Shae Fatale on vacation til September, Lady Lotus and Ms. Leena and I have been extra extra busy dishing out the abuse. Lady Lotus is an one of a kind sadist, very creative and technically skilled but with the demeanor of a psychotic pixie or something. She'll totally half kill you and then giggle.

Plus Im so happy I have Ms. Leena on my staff now. That girl kicks ass and makes the boys beg for more! She has a great attitude and combines as warm, sensual personality with take-no-prisoners style in a corporal scene. janet long ago morphed into Taylor Dawn who is a total camera whore, so much so that he only cums on camera! Yep. Im telling it. So dont even think about TRYING it ladies or gents.

I had an awesome Wedding themed CFnm, a great and fun Spanking party, a couple of truly hilarious Humiliation Nights( well,I though they were funny, not sure how the guys felt..)Thankd so so much to Shae Fatale and Ms Leena for helping host. Riviting TNG demo by Miss Cami Newbie Night featured the VERY BEST STORY of 2012 so far over the summer months. Its so good I'm not telling it til the end of year round up of events but if you were there or Ive told you in person then you absolutly know how utterly and insanely unbelievable things can get around here. Hot and fucking crazy. Plus just got back from Orlando trip with lady Michelle and aarkey where Mistress Patti made us feel so welcome and showed us her formidable dungeon.

We went to the Orlando Fetish Ball which was awesome, (lots of fun with the lights out upstairs) where the fabulous Goddess Jude was a flawless hostess in pink leopard latex.

SOO much summer sexiness and adventures in pervery!

Is that enough? huh? you want more? greedy little bitches want more?? DENIED! Ha ha.

New Switch in, Dungeon Furniture, out...

First, the lovely Ms. Leena is now an official, full on, member of the Command Performance staff! Her CP webpage is now live. If you can't handle hotness, stay out of the dungeon!

In other news, we're making room in the dungeon for some new furniture, and are selling some of the older dungeon pieces.

Large Bench, made by Metalbound

Lovely Ironwork Bench

Substantial wooden chair with metal cleats

Got interest? Let me know - LadyRegina@CommandPerformance.net

Spanking Party - Sun, Aug. 5

Sunday, August 5th - 7:00 PM –11:00 PM
Its time for red cheeks!

Cost: Men $25, Women $15
Dress code: Spankable
Description: By popular demand it is time for another Spanking party! There will be games and a contest but mostly just lots of butts getting reddend as spankos do what they do best.

For more info: FetLife Event Link

Introducing Ms. Leena

Coming soon to the dungeon of South Florida's Command Performance, Ms. Leena Sky!

Ms. Leena is both a beautiful and powerful woman, as we're sure you can see.

Lucky for you, she has just recently decided to explore her growing interest in the BDSM & fetish scene as a professional.

She enjoys playing on both sides of the paddle, and will be training as switch - developing her interests both as a Mistress, but also enjoying sub roles.

Check back, there's lots more to come soon!

Hot Hot Hot in the summertime.

Well this year it's not just us Floridians feeling the summer heat. We hope you all can keep your cool this summer. The darkness and A/C of a dungeon is a great place to cool off.

Until the paddle starts hitting your behind, that is.

But with ladies this hot, what sub would even want to try to avoid that kind of attention!

If you're not ready for a beat down, perhaps you would still like to join us for one of our parties. Checkout the Command Performance Events for more info.

DDI here we come!

Checkout our new ad for an upcoming DDI issue. Yummy yummy yumm! Don't the Mistresses and oh so poor Taylor look like they're having fun in the rubber room?

Spanks A Lot this Sunday

An all out Spank-fest to be held for those that lust over being bent over! All spankers and spankees are welcome, be they M/F, top or bottom. The last fest left all the guests red, swollen and/or smiling from cheek to cheek. OTK, bound or simply instructed to stand there: you name it, it is there for the taking (or giving)! An ice breaker or two may be held to get the buns warmed up, but after that hold on...to something... because this party will take on a life of its own. Doors open at 8pm, admission $15 for women, 25 men, 35 couples. email LadyRegina@commandperformance.net or call (954) 782 1778.

Cuckolding: Ultimate Humiliation? Ultimate Submission? Both?

Recently, Lady Regina and i were discussing cuckholding, a subject of fascinating curiousity to Her and one which i find among the most powerful and erotic ways a Female can dominate Her submissive.
For those of you who are not familiar with the subject, cuckolding is a fetish/scenario whereby the dominant female has the luxury to have sex with whomever she would like and the submissive male does not. Often this can involve the male being kept in chastity. In some scenarios the male slave may be present for the act and even a participant as a fluffer or to clean his Mistress and Her lover.


Why is cuckolding so powerful? In the mainstream vanilla world, men are supposed to be tough and macho and the "studs" sleep with multiple partners. Cuckolding turns this convention on its head. In the cuckolding relationship, the Dominant Female has Her pick of lovers and the male slave, often chaste, has absolutely no say in the matter. Men, even men who are predisposed to to be submissive, still wrestle assuming a position of ultimate submission that is required of a cuckold. In effect, being a good cuckold requires the cuck to give himself completely to his Domme, Her needs not only matter the most, they are the only thing that matters. However, if the cuck is a true submissive who takes joy and pleasure from seeing his Domme happy, then this act of ultimate humiliation is also the pinnacle of servitude and thus eroticism. As with many things in life, this is a self reinforcing circle.


That, at least, is my theory. The limited amount of cuckolding scenes that i've been involved in have had several common themes: heavy humiliation (both verbal and physical), chastity, heavy sexual overtones that ultimately mature into the physical act itself and they've taken a relatively long period of time to play out (several days of lead in time).

Let's discuss how an episode of cuckolding might look. i'll write from the cuck's view because 1) it is the only view i've had and 2) it is the view that, while utterly humiliating, is totally exciting to me me as well.

The slave may be called to see the Mistress on a Monday. The Mistress has a long run plan in Her head, but the slave will only learn of this as it unfolds. It is the slave's duty to respond properly and enthusiastically to keep the sexual tension high and to make sure that Mistress enjoys Herself thoroughly. In this case, Mistress would start by locking the slave into a chastity belt. my experience indicates that the CB 6000 is a great tool for this as it is secure and can be locked with a number plastic lock that still allows for air travel and passage through metal detectors. She can then tease the slave about how his most prized possession, his cock (or clit) is no longer his. The goal is to get both parties in the mood. She is reveling in Her unbridled dominance. Before Her kneels a slave with his cock locked up while She tells him that She has met a real man who She is going to go on a date with. A real man that can pleasure Her in ways that the slave, with his tiny little cock, simply cannot. Though i have never been in Her role, i can imagine the rush of power and the lusty thoughts.


i have been in the slave's role and endured a scenario similar to what i am describing here. It is a combination of a complete feeling of loss of control, a healthy dose of fear as i've realized how vulnerable i am and a desire to submit even further. If Mistress is excited now, what else can i do to heighten Her feelings of power and sexuality. my thoughts solidify around a single goal: What can i do to please Her? (Full disclosure i want to serve Her on Her terms but i selfishly take great pleasure from the act of doing. i think that true submissives feel sexual pleasure when their Domme/Dom is turned on. Submission is, in effect, it's own reward.)


The week would then unfold in a heightened state of sexual awareness/tension. The slave/cuck remains in chastity. For him, the everything is now eroticized. If it is time to do the dishes for Mistress, this act is sexual because it is humbling and now release is impossible. The day job at the office becomes harder, as the cuck's thoughts continue to focus on the Mistress and the chastity belt permits an erection let alone an orgasm. The slave/cuck marches deeper and deeper into subspace on an hourly basis.


Mistress, for Her part, can foster the process and deepen Her control easily. During the week, She should use the slave as She sees fit. If She is feeling sadistic, then by all means, beatings should occur. If She feels like using Her strap-on, then the slave should be taken at Her whim. However, She must not let him cum. The slave is caught in Her trap, but an orgasm is the relief that will free him. It should be denied at all costs. Rather, the Mistress should constantly remind the slave that he will not be cumming this week at all. That the slave's orgasm is tied to how he behaves on Friday when Mistress has Her big date with a "real man". This is a not so subtle twist of the knife that reaffirms to the slave that he is a cuck, the lowest of the low, and that his sexual release is tied to Her pleasure in whatever form She decides to take it.


When the big night arrives, the build up of sexual tension should kick into higher gear. The cuck should be focused solely on his Mistress. He should bathe Her, shave Her legs, help Her pick out clothing and generally get Her ready for Her date. Mistress should remain a tease, telling him about Her stud and how hot She is for tonight. On the other hand, She should tell Her cuck how important he is as a slave/cuck. She should let the cuck know that this pleases Her and is the "correct" order of things. This will greatly arouse the cuck and frustrate him too. He will be so desperate to please at this point that he will be a putty in the Domme's hands.


Now we move into the actual date itself. It is entirely possible that the "real man" may not be kink friendly and so the slave must be kept out of sight and out of mind until "Mr. Wonderful" has gone home. However, let us, for the sake of this article, assume that the "real man" is scene friendly. The possibilities for the Mistress who truly wants to humiliate Her slave/cuck are much broader and the fantasy itself becomes even more intense.


The slave/cuck's focus now shifts slowly from a focus solely on Mistress to a focus on Mistress and Her date. This is the hard part, mentally, for the slave. he must now get over the stereotypical role that society has forced upon him. he is about to become the cuck in fact as well as in theory. This is the ultimate form of humiliation and submission. How can the cuck get there? The answer is simple: focus on and trust in Mistress. This is Her fantasy too, if She wants it, then it is the duty of the cuck to enthusiastically embrace it and do everything in his power to make it a hot, sexy night for Her.


Mistress may wish to accentuate the differences between Her cuck and Her stud. To this end, a maid's outfit is appropriate for the cuck to wear. Something slutty and humiliating to make the point that while the cuck may have thought himself to be a man at one point in time, that is clearly not the case now. The cuck should answer the door for Mistress's stud and graciously show him into Her home. The cuck must immediately fetch a drink for the stud and make sure that he is comfortable while Mistress finishes getting dressed. Once the "real man" is taken care of, the cuck can let Mistress know that Her guest has arrived and is waiting, comfortably, for Her.


Mistress's arrival should be a grand event with the cuck/maid attending to Her. If She and Her stud are already intimate, kissing and and a little play might be a nice way to get their juices flowing while reminding the cuck that he is there for their pleasure. As the happy couple is leaving for their date, Mistress can give the cuck a laundry lists of tasks to accomplish while they are gone. This reinforces the submissive nature of the cuck and makes clear the point that Mistress is having fun while Her slave toils for Her behalf. If Mistress is feeling generous, She may periodically call the cuck throughout the date to let him know how much fun She is having or how wet She is etc.


When the date ends and Mistress and Her stud come home, the week's worth of teasing and mental play come to a head. The cuck/maid must greet them at the door. Perhaps Mistress and Her stud want to play? In which case, a quick trip to the dungeon is a must. However, what may be more likely is that Mistress and Her stud are so turned on that they are ready to get to the bedroom. In which case the maid should lead them upstairs and make herself available to them. Mistress, if She likes a little show, may require Her maid to suck Her lover's cock to get him ready. The cuck/maid should fall to the task with a relish and get the stud hot, hard and ready for Mistress. If the cuck is lucky, Mistress might want him to worship Her pussy as well. If not, the cuck's role is that of a sex toy as Mistress and Her stud fuck. Perhaps an asshole or toe needs to be licked? The cuck must attend to it without a second thought. Does Mistress want the cuck to lick the bulls' balls while She is getting fucked? If so, then the cuck must attend to it. Perhaps She simply wants to degrade the cuck by making him watch in silence? So be it. (my favorite is being underneath while they fuck doggy style as this allows my tongue to be put to use on Mistress' clit or the bulls cock and balls.) The point is that the cuck is there to make a hot night even hotter. The cuck is a living, breathing sex toy that responds, instantly,obediently and enthusiastically to Mistress's will.


Finally, Mistress and Her stud will cum. The cuck is now at another important cross roads. One of the conventions in BDSM cuckoldry is the notion of the cuck as a clean-up maid. Mistress might direct the cuck to lick Her bulls' shaft and balls clean, She may tease him about being a cock sucker/ cum eater or ask him if he likes tasting Her pussy on another man's cock. The cuck must comply. Then the cuck may be directed to lick Mistress's pussy clean. The cuck should welcome this task as it pleases his Mistress and reaffirms his place as the lowest of the low. This is the point of ultimate submission and humiliation. The cuck, to please is Mistress and reaffirm his role, is throwing away the last vestiges of control and masculinity and giving himself, wholly, to his Mistress. It is powerful, beautiful and humiliating. (my favorite instance occurred when Mistress had me kneel beside the bed, after they had finished fucking, Her bull grabbed my hair and guided my head between Her legs to Her pussy and said, "your Mistress needs you for some cleaning maid", they both laughed a little as i fell to my appointed task.)


The evening can then unfold on any number of lines. Perhaps the bull is spending the night. If he is, the cuck's services may or may not be needed. If he is leaving, the cuck should make sure that Mistress and Her lover have as much space as they need to say goodnight and the cuck should remain respectful and submissive to the bull until the moment he leaves. The Mistress might then favor the cuck by removing the chastity device and allowing an orgasm. If the cuck is that lucky, he should be ready to clean up his mess with his tongue, an act that might already be second nature!


Well, i don't know if i answered the question is cuckolding the ultimate form of humiliation, submission of both? i have tried, however imperfectly, to give some access to mind of the cuck as i see it. i hope this serves to brings this exciting and, i think, important area of the Fem Domme culture to life in a real way that fosters, discussion, experimentation and a lot of hot sexy evenings for You/you readers!
Fondly,
babbette

Hot Shots!

Dozens of new pictures of 5 members of the dungeon staff have been added to our site, by webservant Aarkey. Head on over to our website, and check us out!

READ THIS NOW!!

This Control Tower is officially required reading for anyone who wants to talk to me.

All about Pegging

The lovely Shae Fatale
So this Sunday at 5pm Diane from Cold Canada, as she refers to herself, is presenting a educational lecture on the subject of Female on Male strap-on play, a subject near and dear to her heart. It would be difficult to find a more enthusiastic presenter and it is sure to be a stimulating evening for all who attend. She will discuss safety and hygiene as well as all the In and Outs of this type of play. So if you are a strap on fantatic or just curious about what all the excitement is about call (954) 782 1778 or email Lady Regina for this event.

When- Sunday 5-7pm with open playtime to follow
Where- Command Performance
Cost- $25/men, $15/women, $35/ couples
Attire- Fetish welcome but not mandatory
YOU MUST RSVP FOR THIS EVENT

A lovely review of the last CFNM party on Feb 10th

by the one and only Silent G aka kevin:

I will say it once again..Command Performance is the place were fantasies come to life!! I had an amazing time last night at the CFNM ( that's clothed female naked male) party! From the moment I walked through the red curtains I was ordered to strip naked and remain that way for for the entire night. Oh the humiliation!! I was in heaven, if this is what heaven is like then I never want to leave. GatoradeGirl you are an amazing Domme, or Domi or Mistress as you like to be called. I loved the way you made all the guys line up and when you wrote everyone's name on them. You were a natural and I'm so glad you were there to take good care of me. I'm really honored to be your sub and love to massage your butt. floats to happy land ;).

Anyway..back the the party...

Next the women decorated the men in ribbons and stickers and bows and everything Valentines day themed. GatoradeGirl did some really nice rope work on me and wrote Aishitemas on my chest again. This time a lot brighter. I will have to upload a picture. You wrote on my butt too!! Another picture.

Next there was a singing contest in which the losers got spanked, which seemed kinda strange because I didn't see how the that was a bad thing. I had to sing "You are my sunshine" while most of the men did as groups, I was the odd one out so I did it solo. . Though I didn't win the popular vote I do have to thank DomLady for voting for me. :) Then there was a sing off because there was a tie for first the winners had to sing "Girls just wanna have fun" by Cyndi Lauper. :D
Yeah so I ended up in the losers bracket, in which all of the men that lost the singing contest had to stand on that pink box (see my picture from Spankings Galore) and do some kind of talent. I got to dance and everyone loved it! Yay! The men with no talent were punished and humiliated by Lady Regina..again not sure how that's a bad thing. I wanted to be spanked too.

So once again I have to thank MayaLittle for spanking me oh so nice. I love the way you spank me... more please.

Next came the auction. I'm already GatoradeGirl's sub so I did not participate in the auction but this was fun to watch. Lady Regina did a great job selling the men and my Domme ended up with 2 more subs to massage her feet and take care of her while I got to go play some more. Hehe!! Naughty me..

I met D for the first time tonight. She told me she was at the Woodshed the night before and has met my friends and told me she heard kuriousnewworld's speech at the toastmasters. What are the odds of that? So yes, D played with me in a way that was almost orgasmic, she has such an amazing touch, I was really turned on. My mind was blown and I didn't want it to stop. I traveled to sub space again. Thank you D and GatoradeGirl for driving after while I floated away.

Thank you LadyRegina, MayaLittle and Command Performance dungeon for being there and bringing my dreams to life! See you on Sunday for OTC and more fun I hope!

Triple Threat of February Events

Isn't this cartoon amazing? Eric Stanton rocks!
So we are starting the month off with a bang. OK, more like the meaty slap of buttocks getting tanned: It's Spankings Galore! It's this Saturday. It starts early (6pm!) so you will have all night to savor the red buns of your mate or yourself.

Then it's Ladies Only Kink and Cake, as the conversation gets steamy, smart and surprising and the estrogen meter hits 11! Plus let us not downgrade the importance of CAKE! I had a great time at this event last month and am anticipating the sequel with great eagerness.

Perhaps the jewel in the crown of CP events this month is the Lover's Day CFNM (Clothed Females and Naked Males) Party :

This is always a scintillating evening of males on display and women asserting their right to rule. Im dying to see how the Ladies do decking out the guys in Valentine's Day decor and also looking forward to emceeing the Bachelor Auction. BTW- gents, if there are any salient selling points you need me to mention, go ahead and message me, call me (954) 782 1778 or whisper them in my ear at the party. You definitely want to make your best impression!

So any questions? As usual you can message me on Fet, email LadyRegina@commandperformance.net or call me.

Now go register for as many of these awesome nights as your # of Y chromosomes allows!

Sole Mates- yummy feet in your face! Thursday night

Shae Fatale and I host The Sole Mates Foot Party at Command Performance this Thursday at 8pm. Come and show some love and devotion to our gorgeous Goddess tootsies!
Doors open at 7.
Call for more details.
(954)782 1778

Craft Night at the Dungeon

I got so punchy from all the Holiday whirlwind..This is what happened. (Kudos to Lady Michelle who designed the reigndeer themed ones)