BBWs, not so BBWs, Balloons, Beyond Leather and a Birthday

The Voluptous Vixens party on Thursday was an interesting assortment of lovely Domme women of all shapes and sizes. I would say only about half were BBWs but the guys who came out for this event seemed equally enchanted by all and I dont think there was any guest who didnt get up to some sort of mischief. Lots of balloon popping went on and many of those balloons were placed on a male and then balloon and lucky man were squashed by one of the ladies.

Queen Michelle and Mistress Brittany( pictured) were superstarlets of the evening breaking hearts and balls in equal measure.

Mistress Bella and Shae Fatale disappered for quite some time with a certain voracious bottom/pain slut who shall remain nameless (but I suspect will read this - HI THERE!!)

Saturday I had a crazy day of juggling Beyond Leather and Commmand Performance stuff. I must've done 5 costume changes! BL was a well-oiled machine as always and I saw a great CBT presentation which gave me a couple new ideas to put on my shopping list and then apply to the naughtiest parts of the male sub physiology. I watched the ponyplay contest which was visually awesome. I'm not sure it'll ever be my personal kink but I sure have a new respect for it and Master Oakman and slave diamond were superhot. I finally dragged janet from his sickbed and got him out to the BL Dungeons just in time to meet up with Aarkey and Gritty Kitty for the interrogation theater (the super effects packed visceral thrill ride Summer Blockbuster of interrogation scenes!!). The evening ended with janet and I beating up julie (a fascinating creature with a seemingly endless tolerance for... well just about everything) then slipping off to catch a bit of Deiter's single tail scene.

I'm sure there was much much more but it all was wonderful.

Then Sunday I was back at CP with Miss Claudia for Newbie Night. Rafael (OpenandCurious on Fetlife gave a MOST interesting demo on electro-play. He's into the estim boxes rather than Violet Wand so it focused on pulse-y throbbing sensations that can drive a person crazy in all sorts of ways. Plus it was Kristine's birthday and that lovely pervette seemed to be having an extremely happy birthday in the red room with her sexy vampiric companion.

I can't imagine how next weekend can hold a candle to all this but keep an eye out for the next chapter..

CFNM- Miss Gwen Stefani said it Best when She said:

(I couldnt resist starting my review of a naked male party with a banana reference!)

Truly mayhem and madness with a fem-dom flair but in a fun, crazy, sexy way.

Mistress Bella had this to say: "I came on into the dungeon that night and found a veritable candy store of nekid, eager, vulnerable men! The biggest problem? The darned place was SO busy, I hardly had any time to play in the first half of the night. Then, as the night got going, it seemed I was really honestly struggling with self-control."

There were more than a few scenes of powerful Dommes serving up some serious corporal scenes. A little bit of teasing and tickling was going on here and there to keep things interesting and keep the NMs in a state of aroused discomfort.

Maya Little, Ms. Bella and Miss Claudia ,who were fantastic making everyone feel welcome seemed to have no shortage of eager naked playpartners.

As for Me, the party was already well underway when I arrived from the lovely ClubFEM dinner and at first the high energy hit me like a tidal wave but in a short while I got into the spirit of things and found myself a couple of willing victims.

I hadnt been to a partyparty that was strictly Fem-Dom, male sub and it did remind me that I really do prefer the company of sub males - so many cute interesting (and naked, which helps!) guys and all of them happy to massage a lady's tired feet or run and get a drink and many willing to do much more with just a bit of feminine direction.

All of the Ladies were awesome too. Next time hope we can entice more of You strong take-charge Dommes to come out to play.

Voluptous Vixens This Thursday!

Mistress Bella and I are getting our last minute preparations done for the Voluptous Vixens party on Thursday. Curvy pervy girls a go go!

We have Mistress Michelle the shoe Queen and Goddess Shawna (pictured) a professional hypnotist who will be offering hypnotism mini sessions.

Plus we will have balloon popping, trampling, smothering, foot worship, spanking and who knows what else on the menu.

The party starts on Thursday 4/7 at 8pm. call 954-782-1778 with any questions.

CFNM Party at Command Performance This Saturday April 2ND!!

We are all really excited for this party. Big Thank You to Ms. Heather who will be holding this awesome event at CP!

You can see all necessary info HERE These are some general facts and FAQs about CFNM that Ms. Heather was kind enough to send over:

CFNM stands for "clothed female, naked male". It's a woman's party where all women are fully clothed and the male (usually just one, sometimes more) is completely naked. His job is to do whatever "any" woman at the party tells him to do. His primary role is to bring them drinks and wait on them, although it's guaranteed the women will be requesting him to perform other "duties" throughout the night. Although there is not much sexual contact between the man and the women, this is not a G-string party, the man will have no clothes at all. The women may sometimes grope or fondle him, but usually that is to make him hard or keep him hard in front of all the women. Often that is accomplished by rubbing his stomach and thighs but women can do whatever they want. It's "reversing the tables" where the women are usually viewed as sex objects, whether its strip clubs, dancing women, women in magazines, etc.... where the woman is always wearing little or no clothing and the men are all viewing. The CFNM parties give the women a sense of power, and a sense of domination over the male, as the male is completely naked while all women remain clothed the entire party. The male usually feels very embarassed and humiliated, some more then others depending upon the male. Don't be surprised if you make him blush a lot, it's all part of the party and the women love this. The men know the rules and know they will be naked, humiliated, embarrassed, and any other possible emotion you can think of, many men want to be able to say they experienced this at least once in their lifetime, as nothing in their life will ever allow them to know what this really feels like unless they are put in this situation with many clothed women. Being clothed when the opposite sex is naked helps to ensure a feeling of superiority and safeness.

Rules of CFNM party


1) All men must be totally naked.
2) All women must be clothed.
3) All men must be absolutely polite to all women.
4) Men may not touch the women, but women may touch the men.
5) Drunkenness is not allowed.
6) Women must be smartly dressed and men must be clean.
Here are some typical FAQ and answers
Isn’t it just a load of horny naked guys?
No. Men are only allowed to a CFNM party when it’s fully established that they are to adhere to the above rules.
Is it compulsory for all men to be entirely naked.
Yes.
As a woman I feel I might be uncomfortable amongst naked men.
Only for the first few minutes and then you’ll realize it’s just a normal party.
Can a woman be hassled by the guys?
Absolutely not in fact the whole point of CFNM parties is for women to be un-hassled and comfortable.
Are CFNM parties singles or couples?
Both
As a man I feel that men being naked when women are clothed is unfair.
Yes it is unfair. If you want things fair or male dominant there are other areas that cater for that but CFNM is not meant to be fair.
I’m a woman who likes the idea of fun and giggles at CFNM but not interested in dominance so can I still go to a CFNM party?
Yes.

I’m not a beautiful woman. Does it matter?
Not at all. Most women who attend CFNM are not models and many are over age 50.
What if a man gets an erection?
If it offends any women he will be asked to leave the room but this is rare as most women are unbothered by this so long as he remains acting casual.
Are all the men attractive?
Some are and some are not. Same ratio as a normal party.
Can a woman insult a man?
Yes but a man cannot insult a woman, not even in retaliation.
Can a woman touch a man?
Yes, she can touch or squeeze him wherever she wants as long as it isn’t total sex. A man though cannot touch a woman in any un-polite way.
Can a man object to being touched?
No. Any woman can touch any man anywhere she wants unless his female partner forbids it if he came with one, but a man cannot do this to a woman even if she wants it as it would be deemed disrespectful to women and also because one thing could lead to another.
Can I pop in and quickly view a CFNM party before fully attending one?
Women can but men cannot. Many women like to have a 2 minute look before turning up to attend a party fully.

Call (954) 782 1778 or email me ladyregina@commandperformance.net with any questions.

Canes, feet, BBWS.. so much to tell!

It's a maelstrom of fetish and BDSM events! Hang on to your hats. Here we go:

First of all Thanks to Ms. Rae for Her caning demo this past Sunday at the OTC/Newbie Night at the Dungeon. I have seen this Dominant Woman wield a cane before as well as being given one of the canes She makes, and She knows Her stuff. Plus She's a warm and dynamic presenter so if you ever have the opportunity to see Her demo, don't miss it.

Thanks also to Master Matt, Pup and zilah(pronounced like Sheila with a Z) for promoting and organizing this group, consistanly offering quailty educational demos and keeping this thing going. Newbie Night is the 2nd Sunday of each month, and it's only $10! So mark your calendars.

Thursday we have the Foot and Fetish party. This is a great chance for guys out there who are curious about getting into exploring their fetishes but arent ready for anything extreme. It's lots of fun, friendly, fetish oriented girls doing short mini sessions so you can try a few different ladies and expirence different people's style. Spanking, tickling, light smothering, smoking are all on offer as well as foot, shoe and boot worship.

April 7, Command Performance will debut "Voluptous Vixens", a party for BBWs and thier admirers. We are very excited about this event and already have some awesome Curvy and Controlling guest Dommes who have RSVPed for this party! Go to the events page at CommandPerformance.net for more details.

In non CP event news: Had a great time at the FF medical Fetish party last saturday. The new venue is gorgeous and Lady Lotus and janet looked AMAZING. Mistress Bella was twisted and fantastic as well.

As they say in fabulous WM, I am TOTALLY HARD for this "CFNM party on April 8th. It's up on Fetlife. I love to stay in my Domme-chic while the men around me parade naked.

The next day it' s off to "Beyond Leather" where I will be immersed from the early morning (I think 1st workshop is at 9am!) till late at night.

I will be blogging more about those of these events still to come (which are PLENTY) so pay attention!

Happy Birthday to Lady Lotus!

It's not too late to stop by and offer Birthday Wishes (or gifts) to this smart, sexy sadist or just let her give you a special Birthday Weekend Beating. She's up at CP Friday night.

Guest Dominants

This is a busy month for new guests dominants at Command Performance.

First, we have Mistress Beatrice. An athletic and beautiful dominatrix from Montreal, visiting until early April. She speaks French and English, as well as paddle and cane!

She's also into:
Humiliation
CBT
Spanking
bondage
tease and denial
feet, legs, boots and shoes fetish
strap-on
fantasy wrestling
trampling
ball busting
Corporal punishment - from light to heavy
and more!

Next, we have Master Tony. A male leather dominant who very much enjoys taking a boy to his inner core by breaking through his physical, mental and emotional limitations and connecting with him.

Master Tony is very real and serious, a Master at:
Flogging/Spanking
Waxplay
Fireplay
Iceplay
CBT
TT
Bondage of course - restraints & simple rope bondage
Sounds
Some Electro
Some Sensory Deprivation
Anal play
and more...

Visit our website to find out more information about them and the other dominants - CommandPerformance.net