Who's been naughty?!?

More Xmas Parties than a Gal can shake a riding crop at

I'm just now catching my breath and finding the time to share the Holiday Madness that has had us in its spell all through the month of December.

I kicked off the festivites with the http://clubfemsoutheastflorida.com/">Club FEM Holiday party hostessed by the lovely Ladies CK and Michelle. I had volunteered to be Spanky Claus and had the pleasure of having one naughty boy after another positioned over my lap for Holiday punishment.

On Wednesday we christened the Rubber Room with a small private but fun-filled fete. The very next night was CFNM. It proved to be an interesting affair as we took this party on the road and experimented with an anything-goes type venue. I entertained myself decking out the nms with festive bells in the most embarrassing and attention getting area of their anatomy.

The following week saw the Newbie Night Holiday party with some human Christmas trees on display and a visit by Santa himself and the TNG holiday get-together featuring a restraint & bondage demo by Frank Albergo. Mistress Sarina was a lovely hostess and decorated some lovley female subbies in a very festive X-mas bondage complete with candy-cane gags and bows and bells on the nipple clamps.

Am I going to need a Fetish detox after all this kinky fun or will I make a resolution to be host even more deviant gatherings in 2012?

We've Got Company!

Check out who's visitng CP for a short time only this week:

Lady Sahara

From Berlin comes your Black GERMAN Dominatrix!
I am excited to visit POMPANO BEACH’S COMMAND PERFORMANCE! Here, the discreet and mature gentleman may enjoy my presence while I indulge in my predilictions. By Appointment only.
December 15th and 16th

LIKES:

• Ball Busting
• Bastinado
• Belting
• Blindfolds
• Boot/Foot/Stocking Worship
• Candle Wax
• Caning
• Clothespins
• CBB/CBT
• Cross-dressing
• Electric Play
• Face Sitting
• Face Slapping
• GS & BS
• Humiliation
• Nipple Torment
• OTK
• Puppy Training
• Role Play
• Sensory Deprivation
• Smothering
• Spanking
• Spitting
• Strap On Training
• Tickling
• Trampling

No animals, no blood, no children, no needles, no sex, no vomit and no bull sh*t at all - so do NOT waste my time by requesting such!

LADY SAHARA

Email: theladysahara@gmail.com

Events A Go-Go at Cp this week!

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Wham-bam Reunion Blog

I need to catch everybody up on what's been happening at Command Performance and with me and all of us at CP while I have been MIA for a month and all the exciting things that are coming up. There's a lot to tell and no time for foreplay so this is gonna possibly make your head spin a bit. Pay attention because it's all huge.
Here we go:
*So as of August I have been back in school full-time as a nursing student. Nobody Panic! I'm keeping CP and plan to for the foreseeable future. It's a both/and NOT either/or. Though I wont be using tricks I picked up as a proDomme on my patients, I can surely put my new medical skills to good use up at the Dungeon.
*Meanwhile, on the days I'm playing nursey-nurse; Lady Lotus will be holding the phones and cracking the whip here at Command Performance. Dont piss her off!
*Shae Fatale is taking over the Foot and Fetish Night, it's coming up on the 20th and it's going to be AMAZING!!
* The rubber room is coming along. Shiny,skintight and slippery latex everywhere you look. Can't wait.
* CFNM on the 22nd-HALLOWEEN PARTY. Ladies encouraged to dress in costume or Gothic finery and the males, though still required to be naked, will be wearing Halloween masks, hats, makeup ect.
* If you were at the party on 9/30: thanks for making it a night of debauchery I wont soon forget! If you weren't there, you need to hang out here more so we will invite you next time.

So now you have some idea of what's been going on and what's coming up.
We are getting more beautiful and more deadly than ever this fall.
Come in and fall to your knees before Our magnificence!

Hammer? Check. Nails? Check. Table Saw? Check!

Scared? Well, good news... we're not talking about a scene, you silly cowards! The dungeon of Command Performance is getting an upgrade! Coming very soon, a full bathroom and a full rubber room. I can already hear the latex squeak!

7 days makes 1 weak

Well, it makes me weak. In the knees that is.

I guess I haven't formally introduced myself to the blog readers, but I'm Aarkey. I have been the webservant for Command Performance for a few years now, and as of last October, and with my wife's support, I have been a submissive under a contract to Headmistress Lady Regina. Last April that dynamic changed a bit, and in the last month, we updated the contract again. One of the facets of the new contract, Lady Regina is the keyholder to my chastity belt. And to put it simply, I think she likes it. At least she seems to really like how absolutely messed in the head I get by it.

I have played with and studied various male chastity devices for the better part of 8 years now, and I have learned that experiences can vary dramatically. If anyone has ever experienced chastity that goes on for more than a day, the physical challenges are part of what's tough to over come, but once you find the right chastity device fit, lube, underwear, lifestyle, way to clean it, etc... the psychological challenges are a beautiful thing, beautiful in a BDSM kinda way.

The control, the discipline, the denial, the teasing, the symoblism... it's a wild ride. And for me, after 7 full days in chastity I'm sitting on the edge of a sort of sub-space pretty much all day. This particular ride started last week, when I told Lady Regina I was going to be out of town for a conference from Friday AM to Sunday late, I was instructed to report to Command Performance last Thursday night, to be locked up. The feeling I had putting the anklet and key on Mistress, was exciting. It's new for us. Before this last contract revision, my wife had held my key. And, though she gave it a noble effort, she was just a very sympathetic domme, if you get my drift.

And so far, Lady Regina simply is enjoying my suffering too much to give in because I've whined a bit... actually I think the whining encourages her enjoyment of it. I just hope that she doesn't decide that I should stay in it for too much longer. She said I should "ask for when to get out" and I asked for Saturday. Knowing her, she might prostate milk me and then leave me in. I think I would hate that almost as much as the briar patch! *dreamy sigh*

Ahhh, the wicked webs we jump into ;)

Who knows where it all goes...

A Patron Saint for My Profession

So, a few years ago I was in this Dollar Store in Hollywood and saw these green candles for Santa Marta La Dominadora. As a Catholic girl gone bad, I was intrigued and, though I never found anything officially saying that she is the Patron Saint of Dominatrices,I did find lots testimony on blogs about santeria and the like which testify to her power at bringing wayward lovers and boyfriends to their knees.
This is her (totally ass-kicking) prayer:

Holy Virgin Saint Martha,
Who entered the mountain and tied
Up the beast with your ribbons,
I beg you to tie up and dominate [insert name of target].

Saint Martha,
Let him/her not sit in a chair,
Nor lie in a bed until he/she is at my feet.
Holy Martha, hear me,
Help Me for the love of God.

Holy Virgin Martha,
For the oil which you will consume today,
For the oil which nourishes this lamp,
For the wick which burns away all impurities,
I dedicate this Lamp to you,
So that you may relieve me
Of all my Miseries
And Help Me to Overcome all Difficulties.
As You dominated the beast at your feet,
Give me Health and Work
So that I may provide for my needs.

My Mother,
Grant me that [insert target's name]
May not live in Peace,
Until he/she comes to stand at my feet.
In this way my Mother,
For the Love of God
Grant my Petition and Eliminate My Misery.
Amen.

The feast day of Santa Marta Dominadora is July 29th. Celebrate by tying that special someone in your life up with ribbons not letting him "sit in a chair nor lie in a bed until he is at your feet" as suggested.

A summer schedule of events that grabs you by the balls and wont let go

Ahem! Now that I have everyone's attention let's discuss what's new for July 2011 at CP:

We will be open Sunday nights until September. Anyone who has lamented the lack of options for Sunday night play can rejoice. And when they have finished rejoicing they can pack their toy bags and head for the Dungeon. Lady Monica (pictured) will be holding court and taking private sessions. If any single sub males have been curious about meeting her, this is the perfect time.

CFNM (clothed female naked male) on JULY 8th - This is a celebration of Female Dominance and the objectification of males. These parties have been a big hit and third time should be the best yet!
Check out the fetlife page or e-mail ladyregina@commandperformance.net for more details.

Newcomer's Night on July 10th - Ms. Claudia helps host this demo and play party with Master Matt and Pup from Off the Cuff bringing in amazing presenters who demo their specialty and answer questions and then its open playtime.

July 21st is Foot and Fetish party - a great time to sample short sessions from a variety of Dommes

Plus we are still offering a special deal on Double Domme sessions through the summer.

As for Open House schedule of Mistresses on Duty it is as follows:

Wednesday - Lady Lotus (and janet!)
Thursday - Mistress Bella
Friday - Lady Lotus
Saturday - Ms. Shae Fatale
Sunday - Lady Monica

and of course I, Lady Regina, am there overseeing all the madness and instigating and inciting people to new levels of depravity.

Looking lovely laced up!

New pictures are coming soon for the indomitable, Mistress Bella!Check back soon, I'm sure with enough lube we'll be able to fit that update in soon :)

The CP Staff are the Baddest Bitches!

Look at this picture that Carter Spade took of us at the Fetish Factory Anniversary Fetish Ball last Saturday. (left to right- Ms.Shae Fatale, Lady Monica, Lady Lotus, Lady Regina, Taylor Dawn aka janet, and Mistress Bella) See how brain meltingly hot we all are? You know you want us.

I have the most glamorous, gorgeous and interesting people in all the land working here and I love them!!!

CFNM II- Fait acompli. Some musings in the afterglow

So much fun at CFNM II!
I can't believe almost a week has gone by since we had our second Clothed Female Naked Male Party here at Command Performance. I spent most of the night getting men out of their clothes, which is pretty entertaining in itself. Lots of great Dommes came out and scenes of powerful women having their way with various naked males were going on almost constantly throughout the night. Ms. V lead the cupcake licking contest again with great results from many of the slaves competing to show off their skills. Once again Ms. Maya Little was a superb co-hostess. Taylor Dawn( that's his porn-star name, he'll always be janet to me!) and boy micheal were terrific helper monkeys but it didn't stop either one of them from making themselves both attractive and useful to certain certain lovely kinkstresses who were attending a Fem Dom party at CP for the first time.
You can read more about this party on the Fetlife page

I'm really liking the CFNM parties. When I've spoken to other female friends about these parties they are always impressed at how many guys are excited about attending these parties (some visibly so- initials SB!) and how much cuter the men who come out for CFNM events tend to be vs. the other BDSM playparties. It obviously fills a need for more than a few men out there in our local scene. I have been thinking about what exactly explains the popularity of the CFNM fetish and particularly the CFNM FemDom party. Is it a need for exhibtionism? Is it just wanting some validation for all those hours spent in the gym or perhaps a more vulgar wish to get women to look at and admire the member that brings so much pride and pleasure to the male to which it is attached?
Dare I hope it is a true craving to be put in vulnerable and perhaps semi humiliating situations or to serve Superior Females before a roomful of people?
Could it be the much talked about but rarely seen " alpha male's deep seated craving to submit completely to a strong Domme Female" in search of a safe place to come out and play as it were?
I have a theory that lots of males in this culture at this time crave sexual objectification for a number of reasons. One is that after generations of using sex to sell- well, everything I believe that there is a natural tendency to equate sex appeal with units of worth in this culture. Hence ALL CITZENS are fascinated to some degree with becoming that sexy thing that = the value of anything worth having. Women(or anyone presenting as femme) have many more chances to try on this identity and bask in glow of acting out this pop culture persona and recieving all the attention that doing so brings- which is nothing to sneeze at. Men rarely have an opporuntiy and so have a reserviour of desrie to play this part which the CFNM taps into.
However, I think that this is the primary reason:
After a number of years chasing after girls and expending all of the effort involved in courtship and sexual congress as the active partner (the one who chases, who desires, who by implication, is missing something that only the object of his persuit can provide) a man must regard the other side of that equation with curiousity and a bit of envy. What must it be like to have someone want you, to lust after you and due to these lustful stirrings to be so motivated to chase you, to make you feel like a piece of meast, a piece of candy, a piece of ass, something to be hunted, taken..?

I originally arrived at this theory in mulling over the psychology of crossdressers who are not transgender but that's another entry for another time.
The CFNM fetish offers another paradigm of the sexually objectified male- one in which he does not give up his male identity or appearance or cover them with femme trappings in order to become a sex object.

It's interesting and, whatever the deep-seated or more shallowly seated yearning that make this fetish so popular, I'm a fan.
Viva CFNM!

It's Foot and Fetish Night again!

The party is tomorrow night (Thursday May 19th) at 7pm. Meet the foot goddess of your dreams and grovel under Her boots all night long or sample a variety of lovely ladies who will be doing mini sessions of various fetishes.
Last month we had a really fun bunch of kinky women- both Dommes, including Goddess Evilena and Ms.Shae Fatale(pictured) and fetishists and Im sure this month will be awesome as well.
Contact Lady Regina with questions:
(954) 782 1778
ladyregina@commandperformance.net
or on Our fetlifegroup, Friends of Command Performance:

Shae Fatale - Mistress and Rubber Goddess

Command Performance would like to formally introduce the latest member of our staff - Mistress and Rubber Goddess, Shae Fatale.

Beautiful, intelligent, the epitome of sophistication.

Just don't say that we didn't warn ya!

"One look into My eyes and you will fall hopelessly addicted. I will hijack your brain like a drug, leaving you desperate for another fix. You will succumb to my supremacy & you will exist only to please me.

Perhaps you are guilty of despicable acts. It will be My pleasure to watch you suffer. Perhaps you are in need of escape from the mundane reality of your life. Allow Me to introduce you to My world! Be warned, you may not want to return to yours."

Visit her web page to learn more about this fetish goddess and to schedule your session today!

The Lovely Latex and Leather Ladies of Command Performance

Pictures! If you're a guy who's likes a beautiful dominant woman in her full regalia, than we've got a double treat for ya! New pictures are up of Lady Monica "The Brazilian Goddess."But wait... that's not all! Coming soon, more pictures of the lovely latex clad Ms. Shae Fatale! For now, just a teaser, because that's the way she rolls ;)

Famine Affair video is my softcore porn

The video for "Famine Affair" by Of Montreal is sooo Fem-Dom disturbing! In a SPIN interview, the band's frontman explains:

"It's the story of a man living in a feminine empire. As a male, he is considered lower class. He is expected to abstain from any social interaction with members of the ruling class, and provide sperm for breeding rituals. Each household is provided by the State with one male, the housemale is not permitted to leave the grounds. The housemale must live in the estate he is assigned to until death or sexual impotence."

I like that it doesnt use stereotypical latex and chains imagery in creating a creepy female supremacist world.

It makes me want to round up a bunch of my best female friends, lounge around in lacy off-white sundresses and do awful things to the guy in this video.

CFNM II

There's more Clothed Female Naked Male craziness at Command Performance on May 20th!

This time we are doing it a little differently and having the 1st part of the night for newbies and the latter part of the evening for those who are a bit more..adventurous. But as before - it's all about males being used and abused as sex objects/ eye candy/ whipping boys by the Ladies present. Read more about it on our Events page or the Fetlife group. You can RSVP on fetlife or contact Lady Regina ladyregina@commandperformance.net or (954) 782 1778 with any questions or to rsvp. Make sure you say whether you want to be in the beginner or advanced group.

Foot Party 4/21 at 7pm (that's tomorrow night, footboys!)

Once again it is time for Foot and Fetish Night at Command Performance. It tends to be a fun event- lots of visiting ladies and mini sessions of light fetishes like spanking, smothering, shoe, boot and leg worship and of course..feet, feet, FEET!

Door is $40.

Call 954-782-1778 for questions, directions or more info.

The Brazilian Goddess - Lady Monica

Lady Monica "The Brazilian Goddess," has recently become a full member of the Command Performance staff! In honor of this occasion we will be updating her webpage with some new pictures!Lady Monica is a beautiful, petite, raven haired, voluptuous mistress. She is a Brazilian Goddess who possesses a sharp wit and an even sharper mind!

Houseboy Wanted

Of course we love janet but (strange, wonderful and multifacted as he is) he's just one sub and we need MORE HELP.

So, Command Performance is looking for someone who is service oriented, has a pleasant, submissive disposition and doesnt hurt our eyes to look at to be our houseslave/ housemaid.

The position involves doing various chores and errands, chauffering Lady Lotus to appointments, helping out at events and being everybody's bitch-even janet and jennifer. In exchange we will play with you and cherish you like a beloved family pet.

Call (954) 782 1778 or e-mail Lady Regina to arrange an interview/audition

BBWs, not so BBWs, Balloons, Beyond Leather and a Birthday

The Voluptous Vixens party on Thursday was an interesting assortment of lovely Domme women of all shapes and sizes. I would say only about half were BBWs but the guys who came out for this event seemed equally enchanted by all and I dont think there was any guest who didnt get up to some sort of mischief. Lots of balloon popping went on and many of those balloons were placed on a male and then balloon and lucky man were squashed by one of the ladies.

Queen Michelle and Mistress Brittany( pictured) were superstarlets of the evening breaking hearts and balls in equal measure.

Mistress Bella and Shae Fatale disappered for quite some time with a certain voracious bottom/pain slut who shall remain nameless (but I suspect will read this - HI THERE!!)

Saturday I had a crazy day of juggling Beyond Leather and Commmand Performance stuff. I must've done 5 costume changes! BL was a well-oiled machine as always and I saw a great CBT presentation which gave me a couple new ideas to put on my shopping list and then apply to the naughtiest parts of the male sub physiology. I watched the ponyplay contest which was visually awesome. I'm not sure it'll ever be my personal kink but I sure have a new respect for it and Master Oakman and slave diamond were superhot. I finally dragged janet from his sickbed and got him out to the BL Dungeons just in time to meet up with Aarkey and Gritty Kitty for the interrogation theater (the super effects packed visceral thrill ride Summer Blockbuster of interrogation scenes!!). The evening ended with janet and I beating up julie (a fascinating creature with a seemingly endless tolerance for... well just about everything) then slipping off to catch a bit of Deiter's single tail scene.

I'm sure there was much much more but it all was wonderful.

Then Sunday I was back at CP with Miss Claudia for Newbie Night. Rafael (OpenandCurious on Fetlife gave a MOST interesting demo on electro-play. He's into the estim boxes rather than Violet Wand so it focused on pulse-y throbbing sensations that can drive a person crazy in all sorts of ways. Plus it was Kristine's birthday and that lovely pervette seemed to be having an extremely happy birthday in the red room with her sexy vampiric companion.

I can't imagine how next weekend can hold a candle to all this but keep an eye out for the next chapter..

CFNM- Miss Gwen Stefani said it Best when She said:

(I couldnt resist starting my review of a naked male party with a banana reference!)

Truly mayhem and madness with a fem-dom flair but in a fun, crazy, sexy way.

Mistress Bella had this to say: "I came on into the dungeon that night and found a veritable candy store of nekid, eager, vulnerable men! The biggest problem? The darned place was SO busy, I hardly had any time to play in the first half of the night. Then, as the night got going, it seemed I was really honestly struggling with self-control."

There were more than a few scenes of powerful Dommes serving up some serious corporal scenes. A little bit of teasing and tickling was going on here and there to keep things interesting and keep the NMs in a state of aroused discomfort.

Maya Little, Ms. Bella and Miss Claudia ,who were fantastic making everyone feel welcome seemed to have no shortage of eager naked playpartners.

As for Me, the party was already well underway when I arrived from the lovely ClubFEM dinner and at first the high energy hit me like a tidal wave but in a short while I got into the spirit of things and found myself a couple of willing victims.

I hadnt been to a partyparty that was strictly Fem-Dom, male sub and it did remind me that I really do prefer the company of sub males - so many cute interesting (and naked, which helps!) guys and all of them happy to massage a lady's tired feet or run and get a drink and many willing to do much more with just a bit of feminine direction.

All of the Ladies were awesome too. Next time hope we can entice more of You strong take-charge Dommes to come out to play.

Voluptous Vixens This Thursday!

Mistress Bella and I are getting our last minute preparations done for the Voluptous Vixens party on Thursday. Curvy pervy girls a go go!

We have Mistress Michelle the shoe Queen and Goddess Shawna (pictured) a professional hypnotist who will be offering hypnotism mini sessions.

Plus we will have balloon popping, trampling, smothering, foot worship, spanking and who knows what else on the menu.

The party starts on Thursday 4/7 at 8pm. call 954-782-1778 with any questions.

CFNM Party at Command Performance This Saturday April 2ND!!

We are all really excited for this party. Big Thank You to Ms. Heather who will be holding this awesome event at CP!

You can see all necessary info HERE These are some general facts and FAQs about CFNM that Ms. Heather was kind enough to send over:

CFNM stands for "clothed female, naked male". It's a woman's party where all women are fully clothed and the male (usually just one, sometimes more) is completely naked. His job is to do whatever "any" woman at the party tells him to do. His primary role is to bring them drinks and wait on them, although it's guaranteed the women will be requesting him to perform other "duties" throughout the night. Although there is not much sexual contact between the man and the women, this is not a G-string party, the man will have no clothes at all. The women may sometimes grope or fondle him, but usually that is to make him hard or keep him hard in front of all the women. Often that is accomplished by rubbing his stomach and thighs but women can do whatever they want. It's "reversing the tables" where the women are usually viewed as sex objects, whether its strip clubs, dancing women, women in magazines, etc.... where the woman is always wearing little or no clothing and the men are all viewing. The CFNM parties give the women a sense of power, and a sense of domination over the male, as the male is completely naked while all women remain clothed the entire party. The male usually feels very embarassed and humiliated, some more then others depending upon the male. Don't be surprised if you make him blush a lot, it's all part of the party and the women love this. The men know the rules and know they will be naked, humiliated, embarrassed, and any other possible emotion you can think of, many men want to be able to say they experienced this at least once in their lifetime, as nothing in their life will ever allow them to know what this really feels like unless they are put in this situation with many clothed women. Being clothed when the opposite sex is naked helps to ensure a feeling of superiority and safeness.

Rules of CFNM party


1) All men must be totally naked.
2) All women must be clothed.
3) All men must be absolutely polite to all women.
4) Men may not touch the women, but women may touch the men.
5) Drunkenness is not allowed.
6) Women must be smartly dressed and men must be clean.
Here are some typical FAQ and answers
Isn’t it just a load of horny naked guys?
No. Men are only allowed to a CFNM party when it’s fully established that they are to adhere to the above rules.
Is it compulsory for all men to be entirely naked.
Yes.
As a woman I feel I might be uncomfortable amongst naked men.
Only for the first few minutes and then you’ll realize it’s just a normal party.
Can a woman be hassled by the guys?
Absolutely not in fact the whole point of CFNM parties is for women to be un-hassled and comfortable.
Are CFNM parties singles or couples?
Both
As a man I feel that men being naked when women are clothed is unfair.
Yes it is unfair. If you want things fair or male dominant there are other areas that cater for that but CFNM is not meant to be fair.
I’m a woman who likes the idea of fun and giggles at CFNM but not interested in dominance so can I still go to a CFNM party?
Yes.

I’m not a beautiful woman. Does it matter?
Not at all. Most women who attend CFNM are not models and many are over age 50.
What if a man gets an erection?
If it offends any women he will be asked to leave the room but this is rare as most women are unbothered by this so long as he remains acting casual.
Are all the men attractive?
Some are and some are not. Same ratio as a normal party.
Can a woman insult a man?
Yes but a man cannot insult a woman, not even in retaliation.
Can a woman touch a man?
Yes, she can touch or squeeze him wherever she wants as long as it isn’t total sex. A man though cannot touch a woman in any un-polite way.
Can a man object to being touched?
No. Any woman can touch any man anywhere she wants unless his female partner forbids it if he came with one, but a man cannot do this to a woman even if she wants it as it would be deemed disrespectful to women and also because one thing could lead to another.
Can I pop in and quickly view a CFNM party before fully attending one?
Women can but men cannot. Many women like to have a 2 minute look before turning up to attend a party fully.

Call (954) 782 1778 or email me ladyregina@commandperformance.net with any questions.

Canes, feet, BBWS.. so much to tell!

It's a maelstrom of fetish and BDSM events! Hang on to your hats. Here we go:

First of all Thanks to Ms. Rae for Her caning demo this past Sunday at the OTC/Newbie Night at the Dungeon. I have seen this Dominant Woman wield a cane before as well as being given one of the canes She makes, and She knows Her stuff. Plus She's a warm and dynamic presenter so if you ever have the opportunity to see Her demo, don't miss it.

Thanks also to Master Matt, Pup and zilah(pronounced like Sheila with a Z) for promoting and organizing this group, consistanly offering quailty educational demos and keeping this thing going. Newbie Night is the 2nd Sunday of each month, and it's only $10! So mark your calendars.

Thursday we have the Foot and Fetish party. This is a great chance for guys out there who are curious about getting into exploring their fetishes but arent ready for anything extreme. It's lots of fun, friendly, fetish oriented girls doing short mini sessions so you can try a few different ladies and expirence different people's style. Spanking, tickling, light smothering, smoking are all on offer as well as foot, shoe and boot worship.

April 7, Command Performance will debut "Voluptous Vixens", a party for BBWs and thier admirers. We are very excited about this event and already have some awesome Curvy and Controlling guest Dommes who have RSVPed for this party! Go to the events page at CommandPerformance.net for more details.

In non CP event news: Had a great time at the FF medical Fetish party last saturday. The new venue is gorgeous and Lady Lotus and janet looked AMAZING. Mistress Bella was twisted and fantastic as well.

As they say in fabulous WM, I am TOTALLY HARD for this "CFNM party on April 8th. It's up on Fetlife. I love to stay in my Domme-chic while the men around me parade naked.

The next day it' s off to "Beyond Leather" where I will be immersed from the early morning (I think 1st workshop is at 9am!) till late at night.

I will be blogging more about those of these events still to come (which are PLENTY) so pay attention!

Happy Birthday to Lady Lotus!

It's not too late to stop by and offer Birthday Wishes (or gifts) to this smart, sexy sadist or just let her give you a special Birthday Weekend Beating. She's up at CP Friday night.

Guest Dominants

This is a busy month for new guests dominants at Command Performance.

First, we have Mistress Beatrice. An athletic and beautiful dominatrix from Montreal, visiting until early April. She speaks French and English, as well as paddle and cane!

She's also into:
Humiliation
CBT
Spanking
bondage
tease and denial
feet, legs, boots and shoes fetish
strap-on
fantasy wrestling
trampling
ball busting
Corporal punishment - from light to heavy
and more!

Next, we have Master Tony. A male leather dominant who very much enjoys taking a boy to his inner core by breaking through his physical, mental and emotional limitations and connecting with him.

Master Tony is very real and serious, a Master at:
Flogging/Spanking
Waxplay
Fireplay
Iceplay
CBT
TT
Bondage of course - restraints & simple rope bondage
Sounds
Some Electro
Some Sensory Deprivation
Anal play
and more...

Visit our website to find out more information about them and the other dominants - CommandPerformance.net

In which I rip My heart Open to help you understand Me

I was recently having a conversation with a (gasp!) vanilla friend of mine and the topic turned to kink.


I explained a bit about what I do in sessions. Invetiably the follow up question was about whether I like doing "that stuff" in my "real" life too (I do!), what the difference is; (more input from me on what activities scene will include and also the possibility of sex, and perhaps a drink with one another after), and what I get out of it.


The underlying assumption behind that last question being that, apart from the joy of bossing another human being around, the sex life of the do-er is a pale shadow compared to that of the done-to.


So, I've been doing some thinking about Domme-ing (both in my pro and personal life) and what it is that I get out of it.


I hope you are sitting down, because what I say next may shock some folks: outside of scene, I dont really get that much of a charge out of controlling another person, making sure he feels less than me and knows I'm alpha. Not into powerstuggles and micro-management.


Dont get me wrong, I'm not into being ordered around and I will metaphorically break your balls till you give me my due respect. It just doesnt get my panties wet.


I'd much rather break your balls in a literal way, while you are securely bound, naked, nipples all sore from being abused but still hard anyway. So I guess the first thing I get out of it is a sadistic thrill- sexy FUN inflicting this intense, startling and at times almost unbearable sensations and watching the responses of the subject.


The desire/need of the willing, almost desperately eager subject( or "victim" for those times one wants to play with "forced" type scenarios) is electric and addictive. If there's a drop of Dominance or Top blood in a girl's veins, once she sees the look of pure worship and utter longing in her sub or bottom's eyes as he gives up control and waits to see what she is going to do next, she will need to play this way again and again.


Then there's the endless fun of improvising new tortures, deciding to push a scene in this or that direction. Pushing different buttons in a different order. Taking on the character of whatever archetypal disciplinarienne I am today and twisting his words until I have obtained a confession. Devising punishments that will be a pleasure to administer and ingeniously fit whatever 'crime' I am addressing in the context of the scene. It's creative and theatrical . Even with no roleplay a good scene has dramatic pacing, tension builds to a cathartic climax (double entendre unintended but unavoidable.)


It WAKES ME THE FUCK UP!


I'm alert, focused, fully present and tuned in to what I'm doing. it takes me out of myself and I'm beyond being crabby or mopey or anxious. I'm just RIGHT HERE doing this and trying to tune in on the current passing back and forth between us. That may be the most hippee-fied thing I've ever written but it's no joke, I feel energized after a good scene.


So: sadistic sexual thrills, druglike rush of adoration, kick-ass creative outlet and mood stabilizing energy source- not a bad deal for yours truly IMO. In fact, the best I've found.

A peek inside Lady Lotus's feverish mind

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Now You're Playing with Fire!

This Sunday, February 13th is Newbie Night at the Dungeon. Newbie Night has been growing by leaps and bounds and the energy is terrific. We are excited to welcome demonstator Laurence Fox who will be showcasing Fireplay.

This event starts at 730 and goes until 1130 or so. Door charge is $10.

Call Me (954) 782 1778 with questions or for directions.

Newbie Night is an excellent opportunity for those who are curious about getting more involved in the BDSM lifestyle to meet local kinksters. There is usually a healthy mix of the new and seasoned and those with questions will find that those with the cool toys and lots of expirience are more than happy to share their knowledge and offer advice.

This event is part of OTC which is a discussion group that meets to talk BDSM related topics at Denny's @Oakland and Powerline. If you are interested in the discussion group, it takes place just before the demo/playparty at 5pm.

You can contact Zilah's fetlife or call Pup at (954) 536-5414

Love Comes in Spurts

Though it is only mid-January, we scheming day and night in order to come up with plans for February's events. Lady Lotus has decided that February 2011 will be the start of Command Performance's Month of Love, and I couldn't be happier about it.

Many nights we at Command Performance have listened to both male and female fetishists, D/s relationship seekers and kinksters of all stripes cry the blues about the lack of suitable mates out there in the big,bad world. These attractive and pleasant folks are horny and frustrated with both trying to broach the topic of kink on a vanilla date and the luck they are having making the rounds of Munches, parties and fetish events. It seemed a baffling state of affairs and also a shame that so many perfectly good perverts were going to waste.

No longer will the sorry stories of lonliness and heartache assualt our ears. Lady Lotus is playing matchmaker and will help any single person out there in the BDSM scene here in south Florida find a mate, a date, a playpartner or perhaps the Mistress or Master of his/her dreams. By clicking HERE and filling out this form, anyone interested can place themselves in her capable hands and be matched up with someone for a date. Contact Lady Regina or Lady Lotus: demonatrixlotuslain@gmail.com for more details.

As if that isn't enough; the month of Love continues with BDSM speed dating at Command Performance Friday, Feb 18th. ALL INTERESTED PARTIES MUST RSVP with Lady Regina by phone (954) 782 1778 or email : ladyregina@commandperformance.net

This should prove to be interesting and if Dom(me) and sub should meet and hit it off, the are already in a Dungeon. Convenient, no?

So dont moan with despair about your lonely nights when you could soon be filling them with moans of satisfaction. Sign up, come out, meet some interesting people and perhaps do wildly deviant and in appropriate things with them.

Match Maker, make me a match!

Who wants to see the hot new pics?

Click HERE to see the new Pictures of the Mistresses of Command Performance.

Pantyboy Play Party: Last Chance, Bitches!

On January 23rd Mistress Bella and I will be sending the Pantyboy Play Party out with a bang. It's a night of beauty and bondage at the salon for all our lovely ladyboys, sissies, maids and sluts in training. Lady Monica, a liscenced beautician, will be welcoming us to her salon in Pompano where she will be offering kinky salon treatments. We will have the place to ourselves so we can get as pervy as we please.
Services offered include:

• Wig cutting and styling


• Make Up Application


• Waxing ( leg, bikini etc)


• Mani/pedicures

Date: Sunday, January 23rd

Time: 8pm -till

Door: $30 ( if you plan to get any salon services, please bring some money to tip the stylist)

Place: Location when you RSVP

As usual we will have pink champagne, shirley temples and cupcakes for the gurls.

See you there, Gorgeous!

If you plan to attend this event, YOU MUST RSVP with Lady Regina (954) 782 1778 or ladyregina@commandperformance.net or Mistress Bella at tastytorment@gmail.com

Teaser

Everyone loves a good tease, and that's all you'll get... for now.But check back soon, we should have a dozen or so new pictures on the Command Performance website in the next few days ;)