Command Performance Newsletter

Triple Threat of February Events

2012-01-30T23:07:00.003-05:00

Isn't this cartoon amazing? Eric Stanton rocks!
So we are starting the month off with a bang. OK, more like the meaty slap of buttocks getting tanned:
It's Spankings Galore! It's this Saturday. It starts early (6pm!) so you will have all night to savor the red buns of your mate or yourself.
Then it's Ladies Only Kink and Cake, as the conversation gets steamy, smart and surprising and the estrogen meter hits 11! Plus let us not downgrade the importance of CAKE! I had a great time at this event last month and am anticipating the sequel with great eagerness.
Perhaps the jewel in the crown of CP events this month is the Lover's Day CFNM (Clothed Females and Naked Males) Party :
This is always a scintillating evening of males on display and women asserting their right to rule. Im dying to see how the Ladies do decking out the guys in Valentine's Day decor and also looking forward to emceeing the Bachelor Auction. BTW- gents, if there are any salient selling points you need me to mention, go ahead and message me, call me (954) 782 1778 or whisper them in my ear at the party. You definitely want to make your best impression!
So any questions?
As usual you can message me on Fet, email LadyRegina@commandperformance.net or call me.
Now go register for as many of these awesome nights as your # of Y chromosomes allows!

Sole Mates- yummy feet in your face! Thursday night

2012-01-17T11:08:00.004-05:00

Shae Fatale and I host The Sole Mates Foot Party at Command Performance this Thursday at 8pm. Come and show some love and devotion to our gorgeous Goddess tootsies!
Doors open at 7.
Call for more details.
(954)782 1778

Craft Night at the Dungeon

2012-01-05T14:39:00.006-05:00

I got so punchy from all the Holiday whirlwind..This is what happened. (Kudos to Lady Michelle who designed the reigndeer themed ones)

Who's been naughty?!?

2011-12-26T18:12:00.004-05:00

More Xmas Parties than a Gal can shake a riding crop at

2011-12-19T18:21:00.012-05:00

I'm just now catching my breath and finding the time to share the Holiday Madness that has had us in its spell all through the month of December.

I kicked off the festivites with the http://clubfemsoutheastflorida.com/">Club FEM Holiday party hostessed by the lovely Ladies CK and Michelle. I had volunteered to be Spanky Claus and had the pleasure of having one naughty boy after another positioned over my lap for Holiday punishment.

On Wednesday we christened the Rubber Room with a small private but fun-filled fete. The very next night was CFNM. It proved to be an interesting affair as we took this party on the road and experimented with an anything-goes type venue. I entertained myself decking out the nms with festive bells in the most embarrassing and attention getting area of their anatomy.

The following week saw the Newbie Night Holiday party with some human Christmas trees on display and a visit by Santa himself and the TNG holiday get-together featuring a restraint & bondage demo by Frank Albergo. Mistress Sarina was a lovely hostess and decorated some lovley female subbies in a very festive X-mas bondage complete with candy-cane gags and bows and bells on the nipple clamps.

Am I going to need a Fetish detox after all this kinky fun or will I make a resolution to be host even more deviant gatherings in 2012?

We've Got Company!

2011-12-14T14:05:00.005-05:00

Check out who's visitng CP for a short time only this week:

Lady Sahara

From Berlin comes your Black GERMAN Dominatrix!
I am excited to visit POMPANO BEACH’S COMMAND PERFORMANCE! Here, the discreet and mature gentleman may enjoy my presence while I indulge in my predilictions. By Appointment only.
December 15th and 16th

LIKES:

• Ball Busting
• Bastinado
• Belting
• Blindfolds
• Boot/Foot/Stocking Worship
• Candle Wax
• Caning
• Clothespins
• CBB/CBT
• Cross-dressing
• Electric Play
• Face Sitting
• Face Slapping
• GS & BS
• Humiliation
• Nipple Torment
• OTK
• Puppy Training
• Role Play
• Sensory Deprivation
• Smothering
• Spanking
• Spitting
• Strap On Training
• Tickling
• Trampling

No animals, no blood, no children, no needles, no sex, no vomit and no bull sh*t at all - so do NOT waste my time by requesting such!

LADY SAHARA

Email: theladysahara@gmail.com

Events A Go-Go at Cp this week!

2011-10-16T22:54:00.005-04:00

First of all, great big thank you to Master Oakman and diamond who did an amazing demo on Pony Play, complete with 2 and half costume changes, at the Newbie Night last Sunday.

Now, if you read this blog; you have been warned about this week. HERE IT COMES!!!:

1. Mistress Shae Fatale hosts a Foot and Fetish Night onTHURSDAY the 20th 7pm
There should be lots of lovely ladies in heels, boots and barefeet to bring you to your knees to worship their tantalizing toes.
2. TNG RETURNS! FRIDAY at 8pm. I am very excited that Mistress Sarina is bringing back this social/educational/play group for BDSM and fetish oriented folks 18-37 and those of that age group who are curious to find out more. It's got an event page, so without further ado- get over there and register! https://fetlife.com/events/71809
3. CFNM Halloween! is Saturday the 22nd. Ladies please feel free to debut your Halloween wickedness and gents, monster masks and makeup are strongly encouraged.
(Nothing like a hot, naked guy with full zombie makeup, maybe that's just me..) anyhow here's the event: https://fetlife.com/events/728

Now I can feel like a socialite without leaving the comfort of my own lair! See you there!

The Lovely Mistress Bella

2011-10-03T17:12:00.005-04:00

Yummy, yummy, yummy!

New pictures have been added to the webpage lovely Mistress Bella.

Pop over to the Command Performance site to check them out!

Wham-bam Reunion Blog

2011-10-02T21:37:00.026-04:00

I need to catch everybody up on what's been happening at Command Performance and with me and all of us at CP while I have been MIA for a month and all the exciting things that are coming up. There's a lot to tell and no time for foreplay so this is gonna possibly make your head spin a bit. Pay attention because it's all huge.
Here we go:
*So as of August I have been back in school full-time as a nursing student. Nobody Panic! I'm keeping CP and plan to for the foreseeable future. It's a both/and NOT either/or. Though I wont be using tricks I picked up as a proDomme on my patients, I can surely put my new medical skills to good use up at the Dungeon.
*Meanwhile, on the days I'm playing nursey-nurse; Lady Lotus will be holding the phones and cracking the whip here at Command Performance. Dont piss her off!
*Shae Fatale is taking over the Foot and Fetish Night, it's coming up on the 20th and it's going to be AMAZING!!
* The rubber room is coming along. Shiny,skintight and slippery latex everywhere you look. Can't wait.
* CFNM on the 22nd-HALLOWEEN PARTY. Ladies encouraged to dress in costume or Gothic finery and the males, though still required to be naked, will be wearing Halloween masks, hats, makeup ect.
* If you were at the party on 9/30: thanks for making it a night of debauchery I wont soon forget! If you weren't there, you need to hang out here more so we will invite you next time.

So now you have some idea of what's been going on and what's coming up.
We are getting more beautiful and more deadly than ever this fall.
Come in and fall to your knees before Our magnificence!

Hammer? Check. Nails? Check. Table Saw? Check!

2011-09-16T16:27:00.003-04:00

Scared? Well, good news... we're not talking about a scene, you silly cowards! The dungeon of Command Performance is getting an upgrade! Coming very soon, a full bathroom and a full rubber room. I can already hear the latex squeak!

7 days makes 1 weak

2011-07-29T12:31:00.006-04:00

Well, it makes me weak. In the knees that is.

I guess I haven't formally introduced myself to the blog readers, but I'm Aarkey. I have been the webservant for Command Performance for a few years now, and as of last October, and with my wife's support, I have been a submissive under a contract to Headmistress Lady Regina. Last April that dynamic changed a bit, and in the last month, we updated the contract again. One of the facets of the new contract, Lady Regina is the keyholder to my chastity belt. And to put it simply, I think she likes it. At least she seems to really like how absolutely messed in the head I get by it.

I have played with and studied various male chastity devices for the better part of 8 years now, and I have learned that experiences can vary dramatically. If anyone has ever experienced chastity that goes on for more than a day, the physical challenges are part of what's tough to over come, but once you find the right chastity device fit, lube, underwear, lifestyle, way to clean it, etc... the psychological challenges are a beautiful thing, beautiful in a BDSM kinda way.

The control, the discipline, the denial, the teasing, the symoblism... it's a wild ride. And for me, after 7 full days in chastity I'm sitting on the edge of a sort of sub-space pretty much all day. This particular ride started last week, when I told Lady Regina I was going to be out of town for a conference from Friday AM to Sunday late, I was instructed to report to Command Performance last Thursday night, to be locked up. The feeling I had putting the anklet and key on Mistress, was exciting. It's new for us. Before this last contract revision, my wife had held my key. And, though she gave it a noble effort, she was just a very sympathetic domme, if you get my drift.

And so far, Lady Regina simply is enjoying my suffering too much to give in because I've whined a bit... actually I think the whining encourages her enjoyment of it. I just hope that she doesn't decide that I should stay in it for too much longer. She said I should "ask for when to get out" and I asked for Saturday. Knowing her, she might prostate milk me and then leave me in. I think I would hate that almost as much as the briar patch! *dreamy sigh*

Ahhh, the wicked webs we jump into ;)

Who knows where it all goes...

A Patron Saint for My Profession

2011-07-19T22:22:00.010-04:00

So, a few years ago I was in this Dollar Store in Hollywood and saw these green candles for Santa Marta La Dominadora. As a Catholic girl gone bad, I was intrigued and, though I never found anything officially saying that she is the Patron Saint of Dominatrices,I did find lots testimony on blogs about santeria and the like which testify to her power at bringing wayward lovers and boyfriends to their knees.
This is her (totally ass-kicking) prayer:

Holy Virgin Saint Martha,
Who entered the mountain and tied
Up the beast with your ribbons,
I beg you to tie up and dominate [insert name of target].

Saint Martha,
Let him/her not sit in a chair,
Nor lie in a bed until he/she is at my feet.
Holy Martha, hear me,
Help Me for the love of God.

Holy Virgin Martha,
For the oil which you will consume today,
For the oil which nourishes this lamp,
For the wick which burns away all impurities,
I dedicate this Lamp to you,
So that you may relieve me
Of all my Miseries
And Help Me to Overcome all Difficulties.
As You dominated the beast at your feet,
Give me Health and Work
So that I may provide for my needs.

My Mother,
Grant me that [insert target's name]
May not live in Peace,
Until he/she comes to stand at my feet.
In this way my Mother,
For the Love of God
Grant my Petition and Eliminate My Misery.
Amen.

The feast day of Santa Marta Dominadora is July 29th. Celebrate by tying that special someone in your life up with ribbons not letting him "sit in a chair nor lie in a bed until he is at your feet" as suggested.

A summer schedule of events that grabs you by the balls and wont let go

2011-06-30T21:57:00.012-04:00

Ahem! Now that I have everyone's attention let's discuss what's new for July 2011 at CP:

We will be open Sunday nights until September. Anyone who has lamented the lack of options for Sunday night play can rejoice. And when they have finished rejoicing they can pack their toy bags and head for the Dungeon. Lady Monica (pictured) will be holding court and taking private sessions. If any single sub males have been curious about meeting her, this is the perfect time.

CFNM (clothed female naked male) on JULY 8th - This is a celebration of Female Dominance and the objectification of males. These parties have been a big hit and third time should be the best yet!
Check out the fetlife page or e-mail ladyregina@commandperformance.net for more details.

Newcomer's Night on July 10th - Ms. Claudia helps host this demo and play party with Master Matt and Pup from Off the Cuff bringing in amazing presenters who demo their specialty and answer questions and then its open playtime.

July 21st is Foot and Fetish party - a great time to sample short sessions from a variety of Dommes

Plus we are still offering a special deal on Double Domme sessions through the summer.

As for Open House schedule of Mistresses on Duty it is as follows:

Wednesday - Lady Lotus (and janet!)
Thursday - Mistress Bella
Friday - Lady Lotus
Saturday - Ms. Shae Fatale
Sunday - Lady Monica

and of course I, Lady Regina, am there overseeing all the madness and instigating and inciting people to new levels of depravity.

Looking lovely laced up!

2011-06-30T12:13:00.004-04:00

New pictures are coming soon for the indomitable, Mistress Bella!Check back soon, I'm sure with enough lube we'll be able to fit that update in soon :)

The CP Staff are the Baddest Bitches!

2011-06-04T15:59:00.007-04:00

Look at this picture that Carter Spade took of us at the Fetish Factory Anniversary Fetish Ball last Saturday. (left to right- Ms.Shae Fatale, Lady Monica, Lady Lotus, Lady Regina, Taylor Dawn aka janet, and Mistress Bella) See how brain meltingly hot we all are? You know you want us.

I have the most glamorous, gorgeous and interesting people in all the land working here and I love them!!!

CFNM II- Fait acompli. Some musings in the afterglow

2011-05-22T22:07:00.010-04:00

So much fun at CFNM II!
I can't believe almost a week has gone by since we had our second Clothed Female Naked Male Party here at Command Performance. I spent most of the night getting men out of their clothes, which is pretty entertaining in itself. Lots of great Dommes came out and scenes of powerful women having their way with various naked males were going on almost constantly throughout the night. Ms. V lead the cupcake licking contest again with great results from many of the slaves competing to show off their skills. Once again Ms. Maya Little was a superb co-hostess. Taylor Dawn( that's his porn-star name, he'll always be janet to me!) and boy micheal were terrific helper monkeys but it didn't stop either one of them from making themselves both attractive and useful to certain certain lovely kinkstresses who were attending a Fem Dom party at CP for the first time.
You can read more about this party on the Fetlife page

I'm really liking the CFNM parties. When I've spoken to other female friends about these parties they are always impressed at how many guys are excited about attending these parties (some visibly so- initials SB!) and how much cuter the men who come out for CFNM events tend to be vs. the other BDSM playparties. It obviously fills a need for more than a few men out there in our local scene. I have been thinking about what exactly explains the popularity of the CFNM fetish and particularly the CFNM FemDom party. Is it a need for exhibtionism? Is it just wanting some validation for all those hours spent in the gym or perhaps a more vulgar wish to get women to look at and admire the member that brings so much pride and pleasure to the male to which it is attached?
Dare I hope it is a true craving to be put in vulnerable and perhaps semi humiliating situations or to serve Superior Females before a roomful of people?
Could it be the much talked about but rarely seen " alpha male's deep seated craving to submit completely to a strong Domme Female" in search of a safe place to come out and play as it were?
I have a theory that lots of males in this culture at this time crave sexual objectification for a number of reasons. One is that after generations of using sex to sell- well, everything I believe that there is a natural tendency to equate sex appeal with units of worth in this culture. Hence ALL CITZENS are fascinated to some degree with becoming that sexy thing that = the value of anything worth having. Women(or anyone presenting as femme) have many more chances to try on this identity and bask in glow of acting out this pop culture persona and recieving all the attention that doing so brings- which is nothing to sneeze at. Men rarely have an opporuntiy and so have a reserviour of desrie to play this part which the CFNM taps into.
However, I think that this is the primary reason:
After a number of years chasing after girls and expending all of the effort involved in courtship and sexual congress as the active partner (the one who chases, who desires, who by implication, is missing something that only the object of his persuit can provide) a man must regard the other side of that equation with curiousity and a bit of envy. What must it be like to have someone want you, to lust after you and due to these lustful stirrings to be so motivated to chase you, to make you feel like a piece of meast, a piece of candy, a piece of ass, something to be hunted, taken..?

I originally arrived at this theory in mulling over the psychology of crossdressers who are not transgender but that's another entry for another time.
The CFNM fetish offers another paradigm of the sexually objectified male- one in which he does not give up his male identity or appearance or cover them with femme trappings in order to become a sex object.

It's interesting and, whatever the deep-seated or more shallowly seated yearning that make this fetish so popular, I'm a fan.
Viva CFNM!

It's Foot and Fetish Night again!

2011-05-18T15:20:00.004-04:00

The party is tomorrow night (Thursday May 19th) at 7pm. Meet the foot goddess of your dreams and grovel under Her boots all night long or sample a variety of lovely ladies who will be doing mini sessions of various fetishes.
Last month we had a really fun bunch of kinky women- both Dommes, including Goddess Evilena and Ms.Shae Fatale(pictured) and fetishists and Im sure this month will be awesome as well.
Contact Lady Regina with questions:
(954) 782 1778
ladyregina@commandperformance.net
or on Our fetlifegroup, Friends of Command Performance:

Shae Fatale - Mistress and Rubber Goddess

2011-05-17T10:20:00.019-04:00

Command Performance would like to formally introduce the latest member of our staff - Mistress and Rubber Goddess, Shae Fatale.

Beautiful, intelligent, the epitome of sophistication.

Just don't say that we didn't warn ya!

"One look into My eyes and you will fall hopelessly addicted. I will hijack your brain like a drug, leaving you desperate for another fix. You will succumb to my supremacy & you will exist only to please me.

Perhaps you are guilty of despicable acts. It will be My pleasure to watch you suffer. Perhaps you are in need of escape from the mundane reality of your life. Allow Me to introduce you to My world! Be warned, you may not want to return to yours."

Visit her web page to learn more about this fetish goddess and to schedule your session today!

The Lovely Latex and Leather Ladies of Command Performance

2011-05-06T12:45:00.010-04:00

Pictures! If you're a guy who's likes a beautiful dominant woman in her full regalia, than we've got a double treat for ya! New pictures are up of Lady Monica "The Brazilian Goddess."But wait... that's not all! Coming soon, more pictures of the lovely latex clad Ms. Shae Fatale! For now, just a teaser, because that's the way she rolls ;)

Famine Affair video is my softcore porn

2011-04-30T12:32:00.006-04:00

The video for "Famine Affair" by Of Montreal is sooo Fem-Dom disturbing! In a SPIN interview, the band's frontman explains:

"It's the story of a man living in a feminine empire. As a male, he is considered lower class. He is expected to abstain from any social interaction with members of the ruling class, and provide sperm for breeding rituals. Each household is provided by the State with one male, the housemale is not permitted to leave the grounds. The housemale must live in the estate he is assigned to until death or sexual impotence."

I like that it doesnt use stereotypical latex and chains imagery in creating a creepy female supremacist world.

It makes me want to round up a bunch of my best female friends, lounge around in lacy off-white sundresses and do awful things to the guy in this video.

CFNM II

2011-04-28T01:28:00.007-04:00

There's more Clothed Female Naked Male craziness at Command Performance on May 20th!

This time we are doing it a little differently and having the 1st part of the night for newbies and the latter part of the evening for those who are a bit more..adventurous. But as before - it's all about males being used and abused as sex objects/ eye candy/ whipping boys by the Ladies present. Read more about it on our Events page or the Fetlife group. You can RSVP on fetlife or contact Lady Regina ladyregina@commandperformance.net or (954) 782 1778 with any questions or to rsvp. Make sure you say whether you want to be in the beginner or advanced group.

Foot Party 4/21 at 7pm (that's tomorrow night, footboys!)

2011-04-20T15:52:00.011-04:00

Once again it is time for Foot and Fetish Night at Command Performance. It tends to be a fun event- lots of visiting ladies and mini sessions of light fetishes like spanking, smothering, shoe, boot and leg worship and of course..feet, feet, FEET!

Door is $40.

Call 954-782-1778 for questions, directions or more info.

The Brazilian Goddess - Lady Monica

2011-04-20T11:16:00.009-04:00

Lady Monica "The Brazilian Goddess," has recently become a full member of the Command Performance staff! In honor of this occasion we will be updating her webpage with some new pictures!Lady Monica is a beautiful, petite, raven haired, voluptuous mistress. She is a Brazilian Goddess who possesses a sharp wit and an even sharper mind!

Houseboy Wanted

2011-04-15T18:53:00.006-04:00

Of course we love janet but (strange, wonderful and multifacted as he is) he's just one sub and we need MORE HELP.

So, Command Performance is looking for someone who is service oriented, has a pleasant, submissive disposition and doesnt hurt our eyes to look at to be our houseslave/ housemaid.

The position involves doing various chores and errands, chauffering Lady Lotus to appointments, helping out at events and being everybody's bitch-even janet and jennifer. In exchange we will play with you and cherish you like a beloved family pet.

Call (954) 782 1778 or e-mail Lady Regina to arrange an interview/audition

BBWs, not so BBWs, Balloons, Beyond Leather and a Birthday

2011-04-13T17:22:00.009-04:00

The Voluptous Vixens party on Thursday was an interesting assortment of lovely Domme women of all shapes and sizes. I would say only about half were BBWs but the guys who came out for this event seemed equally enchanted by all and I dont think there was any guest who didnt get up to some sort of mischief. Lots of balloon popping went on and many of those balloons were placed on a male and then balloon and lucky man were squashed by one of the ladies.

Queen Michelle and Mistress Brittany( pictured) were superstarlets of the evening breaking hearts and balls in equal measure.

Mistress Bella and Shae Fatale disappered for quite some time with a certain voracious bottom/pain slut who shall remain nameless (but I suspect will read this - HI THERE!!)

Saturday I had a crazy day of juggling Beyond Leather and Commmand Performance stuff. I must've done 5 costume changes! BL was a well-oiled machine as always and I saw a great CBT presentation which gave me a couple new ideas to put on my shopping list and then apply to the naughtiest parts of the male sub physiology. I watched the ponyplay contest which was visually awesome. I'm not sure it'll ever be my personal kink but I sure have a new respect for it and Master Oakman and slave diamond were superhot. I finally dragged janet from his sickbed and got him out to the BL Dungeons just in time to meet up with Aarkey and Gritty Kitty for the interrogation theater (the super effects packed visceral thrill ride Summer Blockbuster of interrogation scenes!!). The evening ended with janet and I beating up julie (a fascinating creature with a seemingly endless tolerance for... well just about everything) then slipping off to catch a bit of Deiter's single tail scene.

I'm sure there was much much more but it all was wonderful.

Then Sunday I was back at CP with Miss Claudia for Newbie Night. Rafael (OpenandCurious on Fetlife gave a MOST interesting demo on electro-play. He's into the estim boxes rather than Violet Wand so it focused on pulse-y throbbing sensations that can drive a person crazy in all sorts of ways. Plus it was Kristine's birthday and that lovely pervette seemed to be having an extremely happy birthday in the red room with her sexy vampiric companion.

I can't imagine how next weekend can hold a candle to all this but keep an eye out for the next chapter..

CFNM- Miss Gwen Stefani said it Best when She said:

2011-04-06T00:26:00.023-04:00

(I couldnt resist starting my review of a naked male party with a banana reference!)

Truly mayhem and madness with a fem-dom flair but in a fun, crazy, sexy way.

Mistress Bella had this to say: "I came on into the dungeon that night and found a veritable candy store of nekid, eager, vulnerable men! The biggest problem? The darned place was SO busy, I hardly had any time to play in the first half of the night. Then, as the night got going, it seemed I was really honestly struggling with self-control."

There were more than a few scenes of powerful Dommes serving up some serious corporal scenes. A little bit of teasing and tickling was going on here and there to keep things interesting and keep the NMs in a state of aroused discomfort.

Maya Little, Ms. Bella and Miss Claudia ,who were fantastic making everyone feel welcome seemed to have no shortage of eager naked playpartners.

As for Me, the party was already well underway when I arrived from the lovely ClubFEM dinner and at first the high energy hit me like a tidal wave but in a short while I got into the spirit of things and found myself a couple of willing victims.

I hadnt been to a partyparty that was strictly Fem-Dom, male sub and it did remind me that I really do prefer the company of sub males - so many cute interesting (and naked, which helps!) guys and all of them happy to massage a lady's tired feet or run and get a drink and many willing to do much more with just a bit of feminine direction.

All of the Ladies were awesome too. Next time hope we can entice more of You strong take-charge Dommes to come out to play.

Voluptous Vixens This Thursday!

2011-04-06T00:11:00.011-04:00

Mistress Bella and I are getting our last minute preparations done for the Voluptous Vixens party on Thursday. Curvy pervy girls a go go!

We have Mistress Michelle the shoe Queen and Goddess Shawna (pictured) a professional hypnotist who will be offering hypnotism mini sessions.

Plus we will have balloon popping, trampling, smothering, foot worship, spanking and who knows what else on the menu.

The party starts on Thursday 4/7 at 8pm. call 954-782-1778 with any questions.

CFNM Party at Command Performance This Saturday April 2ND!!

2011-03-28T15:23:00.003-04:00

We are all really excited for this party. Big Thank You to Ms. Heather who will be holding this awesome event at CP!

You can see all necessary info HERE These are some general facts and FAQs about CFNM that Ms. Heather was kind enough to send over:

CFNM stands for "clothed female, naked male". It's a woman's party where all women are fully clothed and the male (usually just one, sometimes more) is completely naked. His job is to do whatever "any" woman at the party tells him to do. His primary role is to bring them drinks and wait on them, although it's guaranteed the women will be requesting him to perform other "duties" throughout the night. Although there is not much sexual contact between the man and the women, this is not a G-string party, the man will have no clothes at all. The women may sometimes grope or fondle him, but usually that is to make him hard or keep him hard in front of all the women. Often that is accomplished by rubbing his stomach and thighs but women can do whatever they want. It's "reversing the tables" where the women are usually viewed as sex objects, whether its strip clubs, dancing women, women in magazines, etc.... where the woman is always wearing little or no clothing and the men are all viewing. The CFNM parties give the women a sense of power, and a sense of domination over the male, as the male is completely naked while all women remain clothed the entire party. The male usually feels very embarassed and humiliated, some more then others depending upon the male. Don't be surprised if you make him blush a lot, it's all part of the party and the women love this. The men know the rules and know they will be naked, humiliated, embarrassed, and any other possible emotion you can think of, many men want to be able to say they experienced this at least once in their lifetime, as nothing in their life will ever allow them to know what this really feels like unless they are put in this situation with many clothed women. Being clothed when the opposite sex is naked helps to ensure a feeling of superiority and safeness.

Rules of CFNM party

1) All men must be totally naked.
2) All women must be clothed.
3) All men must be absolutely polite to all women.
4) Men may not touch the women, but women may touch the men.
5) Drunkenness is not allowed.
6) Women must be smartly dressed and men must be clean.
Here are some typical FAQ and answers
Isn’t it just a load of horny naked guys?
No. Men are only allowed to a CFNM party when it’s fully established that they are to adhere to the above rules.
Is it compulsory for all men to be entirely naked.
Yes.
As a woman I feel I might be uncomfortable amongst naked men.
Only for the first few minutes and then you’ll realize it’s just a normal party.
Can a woman be hassled by the guys?
Absolutely not in fact the whole point of CFNM parties is for women to be un-hassled and comfortable.
Are CFNM parties singles or couples?
Both
As a man I feel that men being naked when women are clothed is unfair.
Yes it is unfair. If you want things fair or male dominant there are other areas that cater for that but CFNM is not meant to be fair.
I’m a woman who likes the idea of fun and giggles at CFNM but not interested in dominance so can I still go to a CFNM party?
Yes.

I’m not a beautiful woman. Does it matter?
Not at all. Most women who attend CFNM are not models and many are over age 50.
What if a man gets an erection?
If it offends any women he will be asked to leave the room but this is rare as most women are unbothered by this so long as he remains acting casual.
Are all the men attractive?
Some are and some are not. Same ratio as a normal party.
Can a woman insult a man?
Yes but a man cannot insult a woman, not even in retaliation.
Can a woman touch a man?
Yes, she can touch or squeeze him wherever she wants as long as it isn’t total sex. A man though cannot touch a woman in any un-polite way.
Can a man object to being touched?
No. Any woman can touch any man anywhere she wants unless his female partner forbids it if he came with one, but a man cannot do this to a woman even if she wants it as it would be deemed disrespectful to women and also because one thing could lead to another.
Can I pop in and quickly view a CFNM party before fully attending one?
Women can but men cannot. Many women like to have a 2 minute look before turning up to attend a party fully.

Call (954) 782 1778 or email me ladyregina@commandperformance.net with any questions.

Canes, feet, BBWS.. so much to tell!

2011-03-15T16:18:00.008-04:00

It's a maelstrom of fetish and BDSM events! Hang on to your hats. Here we go:

First of all Thanks to Ms. Rae for Her caning demo this past Sunday at the OTC/Newbie Night at the Dungeon. I have seen this Dominant Woman wield a cane before as well as being given one of the canes She makes, and She knows Her stuff. Plus She's a warm and dynamic presenter so if you ever have the opportunity to see Her demo, don't miss it.

Thanks also to Master Matt, Pup and zilah(pronounced like Sheila with a Z) for promoting and organizing this group, consistanly offering quailty educational demos and keeping this thing going. Newbie Night is the 2nd Sunday of each month, and it's only $10! So mark your calendars.

Thursday we have the Foot and Fetish party. This is a great chance for guys out there who are curious about getting into exploring their fetishes but arent ready for anything extreme. It's lots of fun, friendly, fetish oriented girls doing short mini sessions so you can try a few different ladies and expirence different people's style. Spanking, tickling, light smothering, smoking are all on offer as well as foot, shoe and boot worship.

April 7, Command Performance will debut "Voluptous Vixens", a party for BBWs and thier admirers. We are very excited about this event and already have some awesome Curvy and Controlling guest Dommes who have RSVPed for this party! Go to the events page at CommandPerformance.net for more details.

In non CP event news: Had a great time at the FF medical Fetish party last saturday. The new venue is gorgeous and Lady Lotus and janet looked AMAZING. Mistress Bella was twisted and fantastic as well.

As they say in fabulous WM, I am TOTALLY HARD for this "CFNM party on April 8th. It's up on Fetlife. I love to stay in my Domme-chic while the men around me parade naked.

The next day it' s off to "Beyond Leather" where I will be immersed from the early morning (I think 1st workshop is at 9am!) till late at night.

I will be blogging more about those of these events still to come (which are PLENTY) so pay attention!

Happy Birthday to Lady Lotus!

2011-03-10T11:55:00.006-05:00

It's not too late to stop by and offer Birthday Wishes (or gifts) to this smart, sexy sadist or just let her give you a special Birthday Weekend Beating. She's up at CP Friday night.

Guest Dominants

2011-03-03T19:54:00.013-05:00

This is a busy month for new guests dominants at Command Performance.

First, we have Mistress Beatrice. An athletic and beautiful dominatrix from Montreal, visiting until early April. She speaks French and English, as well as paddle and cane!

She's also into:
Humiliation
CBT
Spanking
bondage
tease and denial
feet, legs, boots and shoes fetish
strap-on
fantasy wrestling
trampling
ball busting
Corporal punishment - from light to heavy
and more!

Next, we have Master Tony. A male leather dominant who very much enjoys taking a boy to his inner core by breaking through his physical, mental and emotional limitations and connecting with him.

Master Tony is very real and serious, a Master at:
Flogging/Spanking
Waxplay
Fireplay
Iceplay
CBT
TT
Bondage of course - restraints & simple rope bondage
Sounds
Some Electro
Some Sensory Deprivation
Anal play
and more...

Visit our website to find out more information about them and the other dominants - CommandPerformance.net

In which I rip My heart Open to help you understand Me

2011-02-17T21:14:00.020-05:00

I was recently having a conversation with a (gasp!) vanilla friend of mine and the topic turned to kink.

I explained a bit about what I do in sessions. Invetiably the follow up question was about whether I like doing "that stuff" in my "real" life too (I do!), what the difference is; (more input from me on what activities scene will include and also the possibility of sex, and perhaps a drink with one another after), and what I get out of it.

The underlying assumption behind that last question being that, apart from the joy of bossing another human being around, the sex life of the do-er is a pale shadow compared to that of the done-to.

So, I've been doing some thinking about Domme-ing (both in my pro and personal life) and what it is that I get out of it.

I hope you are sitting down, because what I say next may shock some folks: outside of scene, I dont really get that much of a charge out of controlling another person, making sure he feels less than me and knows I'm alpha. Not into powerstuggles and micro-management.

Dont get me wrong, I'm not into being ordered around and I will metaphorically break your balls till you give me my due respect. It just doesnt get my panties wet.

I'd much rather break your balls in a literal way, while you are securely bound, naked, nipples all sore from being abused but still hard anyway. So I guess the first thing I get out of it is a sadistic thrill- sexy FUN inflicting this intense, startling and at times almost unbearable sensations and watching the responses of the subject.

The desire/need of the willing, almost desperately eager subject( or "victim" for those times one wants to play with "forced" type scenarios) is electric and addictive. If there's a drop of Dominance or Top blood in a girl's veins, once she sees the look of pure worship and utter longing in her sub or bottom's eyes as he gives up control and waits to see what she is going to do next, she will need to play this way again and again.

Then there's the endless fun of improvising new tortures, deciding to push a scene in this or that direction. Pushing different buttons in a different order. Taking on the character of whatever archetypal disciplinarienne I am today and twisting his words until I have obtained a confession. Devising punishments that will be a pleasure to administer and ingeniously fit whatever 'crime' I am addressing in the context of the scene. It's creative and theatrical . Even with no roleplay a good scene has dramatic pacing, tension builds to a cathartic climax (double entendre unintended but unavoidable.)

It WAKES ME THE FUCK UP!

I'm alert, focused, fully present and tuned in to what I'm doing. it takes me out of myself and I'm beyond being crabby or mopey or anxious. I'm just RIGHT HERE doing this and trying to tune in on the current passing back and forth between us. That may be the most hippee-fied thing I've ever written but it's no joke, I feel energized after a good scene.

So: sadistic sexual thrills, druglike rush of adoration, kick-ass creative outlet and mood stabilizing energy source- not a bad deal for yours truly IMO. In fact, the best I've found.

A peek inside Lady Lotus's feverish mind

2011-02-10T20:46:00.009-05:00

Fetishes that should be popularized:

Host Clubs - The craze that pumps probably billions into Japans already bustling economy. Men and women are now becoming hosts in clubs that people pay for actually and literally their company. Hosts are organized into types like intelligent, excessively good looking, humorous, mysterious, etc. I would like to have good go at being a host girl. What do you think my type would be?

Stocking ripping - Popular in Asia. There is a scene in the movie “Lost in Translation” where Bill Murray is attacked by a stocking ripping prostitute. It’s pretty self explanatory, girl wears stocking, boy cuts or rips stockings, I’m sure ideally till they are non existent. This scenario could make for an interesting role reversal. Boy wears stockings, Girl rips/cuts them off till they are non existent. And to even get crazier Boy plays part of sex crazed stocking prostitute and attacks hapless girl playing part of Bill Murray.

Zombie Fucking - Something I happened across in my trailblazing of the inter webs. Though not as kitsch as stalking ripping, this newly blossoming avenue of porno already holds a special place in my heart, being a huge zombie fan as it is. Our kinky ancestors must be smiling to see such a healthy level of sexual debauchery, necrophilia meets apocalyptic pop culture halfway. A perfect balance of sex and death.

On the surface it has that real male-empowered-fuck-machine vibe (which of course, like anything, can be reversed) but, on the Freudian level, it gives you the notion that death isn’t as scary, you can still fuck afterwards, if your a zombie.

http://video.xnxx.com/video624936/zombie_porn_trina_michaels_anal

Now for questions you should ask... often.

What do you think the ratio of Male/Female dom to Male/Female sub ratio is? My money is that there are more male subs than anything else in the world, but that may be because thats what I see the most of.

Also, would you be perturbed if someone seriously wanted the word “banana phone” in a scene?

Do you sneeze when you cum?

Will you be my Valentine?

Do you think Janet wet dreams about cake?

Why haven’t you registered for my month of love matchmaking service.

Your humble ubiquitous infallible mistress,

LL

Now You're Playing with Fire!

2011-02-07T16:20:00.003-05:00

This Sunday, February 13th is Newbie Night at the Dungeon. Newbie Night has been growing by leaps and bounds and the energy is terrific. We are excited to welcome demonstator Laurence Fox who will be showcasing Fireplay.

This event starts at 730 and goes until 1130 or so. Door charge is $10.

Call Me (954) 782 1778 with questions or for directions.

Newbie Night is an excellent opportunity for those who are curious about getting more involved in the BDSM lifestyle to meet local kinksters. There is usually a healthy mix of the new and seasoned and those with questions will find that those with the cool toys and lots of expirience are more than happy to share their knowledge and offer advice.

This event is part of OTC which is a discussion group that meets to talk BDSM related topics at Denny's @Oakland and Powerline. If you are interested in the discussion group, it takes place just before the demo/playparty at 5pm.

You can contact Zilah's fetlife or call Pup at (954) 536-5414

Love Comes in Spurts

2011-01-24T08:58:00.001-05:00

Though it is only mid-January, we scheming day and night in order to come up with plans for February's events. Lady Lotus has decided that February 2011 will be the start of Command Performance's Month of Love, and I couldn't be happier about it.

Many nights we at Command Performance have listened to both male and female fetishists, D/s relationship seekers and kinksters of all stripes cry the blues about the lack of suitable mates out there in the big,bad world. These attractive and pleasant folks are horny and frustrated with both trying to broach the topic of kink on a vanilla date and the luck they are having making the rounds of Munches, parties and fetish events. It seemed a baffling state of affairs and also a shame that so many perfectly good perverts were going to waste.

No longer will the sorry stories of lonliness and heartache assualt our ears. Lady Lotus is playing matchmaker and will help any single person out there in the BDSM scene here in south Florida find a mate, a date, a playpartner or perhaps the Mistress or Master of his/her dreams. By clicking HERE and filling out this form, anyone interested can place themselves in her capable hands and be matched up with someone for a date. Contact Lady Regina or Lady Lotus: demonatrixlotuslain@gmail.com for more details.

As if that isn't enough; the month of Love continues with BDSM speed dating at Command Performance Friday, Feb 18th. ALL INTERESTED PARTIES MUST RSVP with Lady Regina by phone (954) 782 1778 or email : ladyregina@commandperformance.net

This should prove to be interesting and if Dom(me) and sub should meet and hit it off, the are already in a Dungeon. Convenient, no?

So dont moan with despair about your lonely nights when you could soon be filling them with moans of satisfaction. Sign up, come out, meet some interesting people and perhaps do wildly deviant and in appropriate things with them.

Match Maker, make me a match!

Who wants to see the hot new pics?

2011-01-20T22:28:00.002-05:00

Click HERE to see the new Pictures of the Mistresses of Command Performance.

Pantyboy Play Party: Last Chance, Bitches!

2011-01-09T19:08:00.005-05:00

On January 23rd Mistress Bella and I will be sending the Pantyboy Play Party out with a bang. It's a night of beauty and bondage at the salon for all our lovely ladyboys, sissies, maids and sluts in training. Lady Monica, a liscenced beautician, will be welcoming us to her salon in Pompano where she will be offering kinky salon treatments. We will have the place to ourselves so we can get as pervy as we please.
Services offered include:

Wig cutting and styling

Make Up Application

Waxing ( leg, bikini etc)

Mani/pedicures

Date: Sunday, January 23rd

Time: 8pm -till

Door: $30 ( if you plan to get any salon services, please bring some money to tip the stylist)

Place: Location when you RSVP

As usual we will have pink champagne, shirley temples and cupcakes for the gurls.

See you there, Gorgeous!

If you plan to attend this event, YOU MUST RSVP with Lady Regina (954) 782 1778 or ladyregina@commandperformance.net or Mistress Bella at tastytorment@gmail.com

Teaser

2011-01-05T15:28:00.011-05:00

Everyone loves a good tease, and that's all you'll get... for now.But check back soon, we should have a dozen or so new pictures on the Command Performance website in the next few days ;)

Pictures from the Tea Party

2010-12-09T10:02:00.006-05:00

Ladies Regina & Lotus, and switch janet's were in a really cool photo shoot recently (Lady Lotus mentioned wanting some prints for X-mas.)

Here are the smallish sized versions from the shoot it. To download print quality ones, use the links at the bottom - otherwise just click the thumbnails for a nice sized version. The print sized files are HUGE, so please don't waste our bandwidth or your time if you don't actually want to print them. Enjoy!

Print sized files: 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 - 6

All We Want for Xmas! Christmas Lists of the CP Mistresses ( and janet)

2010-12-01T16:05:00.028-05:00

LADY REGINA
1. a chauffeur/valet
2. Bardex nozzle in silicone (larger size if avail) link
3. or this fantastic one: (the sugar bum!) link
4. shock collar for training dogs
5. Silicone Dildos in pretty colors
6. New Strapon Harness
7. Fancy realistic Boobies for CD room link
8. These shoes in size 7: link
9. New tawse
10. Anything covered in rhinestones or fur (faux or real) preferably both!

LADY LOTUS
Dear Santa, I would like:
1. A print(s) of the tea party shoot. I want you (meaning the client) to pick the one you like the most. (see attachments, I want a small print or two of the objects and a largish one of the tea party itself)
2. Gift Card to I-tunes (for music to play in the dungeon)
3. A black latex bikini top. (I'm like a medium, a big B, 36"? ... I
have no idea.)
4. Twisted monk 6mm x 8m natural hemp (4-8 bundles) link
5. Steve Madden Booties, Style: Corrinna, black leather, size:7 link
6. Steampunk necklace link
7. And ring to match! link
8. and this. same measurements/material as the other. link

janet's list
1. Vac Bed
2. Latex Outfit
3. Chest Harness
4. Matching Floggers
5. Sleep Sack
6. Inflatable Hood with Gag

MISTRESS BELLA
I love beauty products and fragrances - the more exotic and organic, the better.

Anything from the L'Occitane. Green Tea with Jasmine or Ruban d'Orange perfumes particularly.

Reading! Gift Cards to bookstores.

Oh, and Ross and Simons! (store) - particular items 543473, 495751.

Thank you and happy holidays everyone!

Happy Gobble Gobble!

2010-11-25T11:11:00.003-05:00

As a little way of giving thanks, we wanted to share some pics from the dungeon; visit the Command Performance Galleries And don't eat too much turkey & stuffing or you'll never get back into that corset! :P

OTC and Newbie Night Holiday Party!

2010-11-21T17:43:00.004-05:00

date: Sunday, December 12, 2010
time: 07:30 PM to 11:30 PM
where: Command Performance
cost: $15, $10 if you contribute to the food table

Description: A holiday party aimed at the attendees of OTC and Newbie Night but open to all.

Christmas Tree/Hanukkah Bush Competition: We will be holding a competition for the best human holiday tree. Participants must be decked out at the party and at least clothespins and lights must be included in the decoration. Other adornments may include but are not limited to needles, rope, and tinsel. We will need some help with refreshments. Please watch the OTC group as the date approaches for a sign up list.

Thanks to Pup and zilah, this is going to be fun!

Spanksgiving- A fine old CP tradition..of exploiting the holidays to bare some butts and redden some cheeks

2010-11-10T13:23:00.008-05:00

On the night before Thanksgiving, spanking and old fashioned discipline enthusiasts gather at Command Performance to kick off the holiday season in our own special way. There are games, refreshments and of course hairbrushes, wooden spoons, belts, slippers, paddles and canes galore. Needless to say some of the attendees are sitting down to Thanksgiving dinner a bit carefully and squriming a bit as they recall the night's festivities..

Spanksgiving is Weds. November 24th from 8 to midnight.
Door is $10 per person
Call (954) 782 1778 with any questions or e-mail ladyregina@commandperformance.net

To witness such joy...

2010-10-27T14:00:00.009-04:00

Last Friday I had the lovely honor of taking some new pictures for use here on the blog and perhaps even some on the Command Performance website itself.

One of the great treats was watching Headmistress Lady Regina and Lady Lotus give Switch Janet a bit of attention on the inversion table. As anyone who's had a scene knows, these smiles speak volumes.More to come soon!

My favorite picture from Saturday!

2010-10-11T22:08:00.000-04:00

Thank you to Captian Midnight for taking this (and lots more) amazing pics.

He's on fetlife. Take a look at some of his stuff if you don't already know his work.

Extra Campy Gothed up Halloween Edition

2010-09-30T14:22:00.000-04:00

Heya all you sinners and heathens!

As any eccentric villaness who likes dressing up and scaring people will tell you, Halloween is the most wonderful season of the year! Now that season is upon us and it is time to deck the dungeon and make it even creepier and more sinister than usual. Of course the Mistresses here and their minions have been up to lots of beautiful wickedness since last I blogged.

Lady Lotus has some hot, brutal and shocking clips up on Clips for Sale so if you have ever been curious about how she likes to play when there are no limits check her out http://www.clips4sale.com/39180

We also have put in a fantastic new rigging area thanks to Deiter. Hey, rope sluts: he's available for sessions!

This weekend is Leather Pride and I may track down Sarah Humble and see about getting my story into the Womens Leather History Project. I think I have a unique perspective on what it means to be a woman into BDSM c and a proDomme and I'm excited to talk about it and see what other women have been saying.

This Sunday, the 10th of October, Command Performance hosts the Newbie Night at the Dungeon. Last month there were scenes going on in all corners of the Dungeon and so many great, skilled players and also some new faces. Pup has been so dedicated to this group, it's awesome to see it taking off and getting lots of support from the community. This month's topic is Vampire Scenes and Biting. So sink your teeth into that! Ms. Claudia will be there helping to host and she is known to get naughty and participate in the fun.

On October 21st we host the increasingly popular Foot and Fetish night. It's always a thrilling and surprising evening as visiting Mistresses and ladies take their first steps into exploring kink and getting some love for their tasty tootsies. It's a smorgasboard for the foot-lover who likes variety. $40 at the door.

Then Mistress Bella and I host a Halloween Ball I have decided to call: What's in the Witch's Britches? It's anybody's guess at this month's Pantyboy Play Party on Sunday October 24th, 8pm. Ooky spooky gender-bending good times!

I will be found at Grande Mistress Carla's Sanctuary on the 28th rifling through Her massive collection of academic works on what the squares like to call 'abnormal' or 'deviant' sexuality and She certainly can tell some stories from her own experiences that would curl anyone's hair.

On Halloween weekend CP will be open as usual on Friday and Saturday nights so come by and make the walls ring with the screams and moans of your subbies!

We are taking the Witch's Sabbath on Halloween this year to indulge our own diabolical rituals. Hope you all have a spinetingling time, whatever you get up to!

Yours from the bottom of my twisted black heart,

Lady Regina

PS. A couple of questions for you:

1. Any worker bees out there with a taste for housework out there? I know a bossy, fancy lady who needs a maid...

find out more -ladyregina@commandperformance.net

2. Someone approached me recently with an idea about a Mens Master/slave party. I'm not adverse but not sure CP is the right venue or sure if there's any interest out there. So any males who have an opinion on this please contact me ladyregina@commandperformance.net

Summer of Gimp

2010-06-22T22:01:00.000-04:00

So summer is back in town with a vengeance and the only people who are happy about it are the sweaty foot enthusiasts! Luckily there are no windows in the dungeon and we make sure the temp is cool enough to keep all victim's nipples perky and pinchable.

What I'm excited about this summer is the opportunity to include janet in sessions at Command Performance not merely as the publicity seeking sissy maid we've come to love (and love abusing) so well but in his/her more sinister incarnation as a fetish gimp! So if you are planning a session at CP anytime soon, consider supercharging your experience by adding a side order of GIMP!

Also Mistress Alexis has returned to our Dungeon and is once again available for those seeking transformations from a tranny.

AND MORE BIG NEWS- Long time friend of Command Performance and infamous local sadist and shibari superstar Deiter is now available for sessions! So sub ladies, couples who want to incorporate a male Dom into their play or anyone curious about watching this talented deviant tie and/or abuse one of the subs of CP or just any willing victim they happen to bring in- give Me a call (954) 782 1778 or email me ladyregina@commandperformance.net to set this up.

Meanwhile Lady Lotus, Mistress Bella, Miss Claudia and I are the the Four Mistresses of the Apocalypse at CP these days and this is more or less how it breaks down:
I'm the bitchy super villianess , Lady Lotus is the full on sadist with the lolita delivery, Mistress Bella is the evil sex siren, and Miss Claudia is equally cheerful as a stern taskmistress or naughty subbie.

The Newcomer's Nights have been heating up. We've been getting into edgier topics lately- cutting, cupping and needle play come to mind. Pup and MJ do a great job of moderating and, often as not acting as demonstrator and demo dolly as well. The next Newcomer's is Sunday the 11thof July at 7pm. Go ahead and call (954) 782 1778 or check out their FETLIFE group http://fetlife.com/groups/12024
Announcement- The Pantyboy Play Party is on Summer Hiatus but WILL BE BACK September 26th.
In other news: When the WOLFpack was at CP in June, Ms.Rae spoke to me about the Women's Leather History Project. This is a collection of interviews, artifacts and visual media that will tell the stories of women in the leather and fetish scenes. I'm excited about his because the people compiling this history want the stories of ALL women in kink not just lifestylers with impeccable Leather pedigrees. It got me thinking - "as a pro Domme is Leather History MY History? Or is it somehow related and tangential to but fundamentally different than the history of professional Dominatrices.." You can't tell the story of how BDSM evolved and exploded into public consciousness without including the story of the professional Dominatrix and vice versa. Anyone interested can read more about this project at
http://www.leatherarchives.org/wlhp/

So have a scandalous summer all you perverts and pervettes and hope to see you in the dungeon soon.

-Lady Regina

SLAP! You Didn't Say "Mother May I?"

2010-04-27T21:30:00.000-04:00

Hello all you perverts and pervettes out there in Kinkland. Here we are again to get caught up on what's happened, what's new and what random obessions are running through my head these days.
So let's get right to New Business, shall we?
Pup and the good folks from OTC Newcomer's Night have been doing an incredible job of presenting interesting topics and then getting down to some serious play, all the while making any newbies who show up feel very comfrotable and answering all questions.Miss Claudia helps host and she's terrific at getting everyone to feel included. If you are new to the area, new to BDSM or just want to meet some great new people who really know what they are talking about - stop by Command Performance on May 9th at 8 PM Door $10.
The last Foot Party was a wild night of foot worship and lots of fascinating visiting Mistresses and attractive ladies who are exploring their kinky side. The next one is May 20th at 7pm Door $40, and promises to be another awesome evening.
The Pantyboy Play Party is always full of surprises and the last one had the gurls letting their hair down and dancing for dollars and after that a few of them showed just how raunchy these girlyboys can get. Mistress Bella and Lady Regina host this night of genderbending madness. May 23rd at 7:30 pm Door $30
Also the night of Fetish Factory's Sunday party during Anniversary Weekend, any crossdresser's (or anybody really for that matter) who want to come to CP to get dressed before going over to that party are welcome to do so. We'll be here around 8 pm.
This month Recovery in the Lifestyle meets at 7 pm Wednesday May 12th and Thursday the 27th.

So while I was in Atlanta a potential sub contacted me and said he was drawn to me because it was always his fantasy to be given a thourough medical exam by an attractive, matronly woman. I was aghast that I could be placed in that category which to me is the antithesis of glamour.
However, I've lately been getting in touch with my own inner Bad Mommie and starting to enjoy the nurturing/destructive power of that role.
Lots of old fashioned scoldings, spankings over the knee, enemas and corner time. Maybe tears and then mama's gonna make it all better.
It's an interesting fantasy because it is so taboo but yet it's so obviously underlies so many submissive male fantasies.
These 5 Ladies are my favorite Bad Mommies in Pop culture: 1. Mother Firefly in House of 1000 Corpses
2. Morticia Addams
3. Lily Dillon from The Grifters
4. Big Bad Mama (pictured)
5. Babs Johnson in Pink Flamingos
(I'm leaving out Faye Dunaway as Joan Crawford in Mommie Dearest, awesome of course, but too easy)

It's Spring! Can you hear the Cuckolds Singing?

2010-03-23T17:10:00.000-04:00

Hello everyone and welcome back! I took quite a sabbatical from blogging for a few months there but now I' m blogging away again, so let's get caught up.
Here's going on at CP this month:
Lady Lotus and I are visiting Atlanta the last weekend in March and doing some sessions out of Spryte Sins' dungeon. Plus we are hanging out with a friend who makes fursuits and getting the dirt on what goes on behind closed doors with those naughty woodland critters at Furry Con. So : lots of Pics and stories when I get back.

Stop by and visit Mistress Bella and Miss Claudia who will be holding down the fort with the assistance of jennifer and janet.

Mistress Carla will be lecturing at Command Performance during the day on Saturday the 27th from 2-4pm.

Mistress Bella and slave girl kellen are knocking the fellas dead with their erotic and tantalizing two girl D/s show. Call to see this strict raven haired beauty take mischievous blonde schoolgirl kellen in hand (954) 782 1778

Those luscious foot fetish girls will be in on April 15th (doors at 6:30) for a special Foot& Fetish night and Auction. The last party on St. Pat's Day was lots of fun and very active so I expect that this one will be even more outrageous. Door $40. Short sessions available with some amazing visiting Fetishistas.

Pantyboy Playparty continues to be a night full of surprises. I would like to do a Singles Mixer for CDs and the Dommes(Doms) who love them in April. So if you are a member of a couple that includes a Crossdresser, you are a Girl who Digs Boys that look like Gurls or genderplay of some sort is in your top 5 Fetish activites email Lady Regina ladyregina@commandperformance.net or Mistress Bella tastytorment@gmail.com

Recovery in the Lifestyle now meets twice per month at CP - on the 2nd Weds. and 4th Thursday at 7pm. If you are working a 12 step program or need to deal with substance abuse or other types of addiction/abuse issues and want to share with people who understand your kinks and that BDSM can be part of a heathly recovery email Mistress Stormy Rose : info@recoveryinthelifestyle.org

You may not k now it (then again you may) but I have declared 2010 The YEAR OF THE CUCKOLD. This age old tradition with the good Middle English moniker seems more popular than ever judging from all the requests I'm getting lately. I'm kind of wondering if all you wanna-be cucks out in Pervertland know what good old fashioned cuckoldry is really all about.
Most requests are from guys who I suspect have been reading a lot of Forced Womanhood. However, most are requests for voyerism, forced bi or
small penis humiliation that miss the point and misunderstand the dynamic of the cuckold relationship.
To truly be cuckolded, a man must be married, his wife must be cheating with an alpha male and he chooses to stay with her because she is so sexually compelling and/or otherwise superior to him that he is in her thrall. Usually he is either in chastity or beta- servicing the other male and perhaps his wife. Also there is the public humiliation factor that traditionally the whole town knows about this.

If someone truly wants to be cuckolded by Yours Truly, I'm going to need to see an engagement ring and he is going to have to sign a pre-up that you wouldn't believe! But you never know, I may just have to get me one of these cuckold husbands and hop on the bandwagon because this trend shows no sign of cooling off any time soon.

So if you have any stories or favorite fantasies involving cuckoldry please write and share them with me ladyregina@commandperformance.net

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The summer's over, but the fun still continues....

2009-09-01T17:24:00.000-04:00

(Do you love this creepy Gilles Berquet art depicting foot fetish gone wrong? I do)

Anyway, Hi there!

Oh Me, Oh My. It certainly has been an adventurous and memorable summer at Command Performance, but we're not stopping with the good times just because the fall is on deck. Here's what is going on in September at CP and around town:

Wednesday, September 2nd – Recovery in the Lifestyle. Command Performance is the proud home of this important event for those in the BDSM community looking for help with addiction issues of any type. On the second Wednesday of every month starting at 7 p.m., this is the place to be if you’re looking for some 12-step help amongst people who you feel will understand you best. For more information, contact the amazing Mistress Stormy at lapo6050@bellsouth.net.

Saturday, September 12 - Post-Munch Party. The tradition continues. First check out the fabled South Florida Munch (you can learn more by visiting http://www.sfmunch.com/) and then stop on by CP for our monthly after-munch extravaganza. For $10, you can socialize with the creme-de-la-creme of the South Florida kink scene, or even get to a play a little if you're lucky. For more information, call 954-782-1778.

Sunday, September 13 - SPICE's Off The Cuff Newcomer's Night. Are you a kinky newcomer who'd like to learn a little about the lifestyle? Then you'll certainly want to circle this date on your calendar. The evening starts off with a 5 p.m. dinner and chat at the Denny's located at 3151 NW 9th Avenue in Fort Lauderdale, moderated by veteran kinkster Dr. Jay. Three hours later, the event swings over to CP for a lively discussion and demonstration of a selected popular kink topic. For more information, contact Pup - education@spicebdsm.net

Saturday, September 19 - Special Foot Fetish Party. Don't get shut out of this evening of decadent fun at CP. Starting at 8 p.m., you'll have your choice of a gaggle of lovely Mistresses ready to fulfill your desire for different part of body worship, as well as spanking, flogging, bondage and even tickling (giggle). The door charge for this sure-to-be-steamy event will be $50, but you can save $10 by registering for the night through PayPal.com to mstrsgia@aol.com. You can check out some of the lovely ladies expected to be on hand that night by visiting http://groups.yahoo.com/group/mistressheatherfla.

Sunday, September 20 - SPICE Special Event. My beloved mentor (and friend) Mistress Carla will be presenting a lecture and discussion on the topic - "Living on the Edge in an M/s relationship." Come on out to hear a local legend speak on a topic She knows much about. It should be an enlightening evening for all who attend, so don't miss it. For more information, check out http://www.spicebdsm.net/.

Sunday, September 27 - TNG: The Next Generation. The month ends with those rapscallions from TNG and their monthly party at CP. Month in and month out, this is a great event for young kinksters to learn a new skill and then try it out on each other in a fully equipped dungeon. For more information, contact TNG moderator Deiter at deiterpilam@yahoo.com.

Wow, if September is any proof, the fall will be just as hot as the summer. Now get out and play!

Mistress Countessa returns to CP & August Heats Up!

2009-08-08T10:10:00.000-04:00

The heat is on in August at Command Performance Please give me a moment while I catch my breath, but August has certainly gotten off to a sweltering start here at CP. This past weekend was marked by no one, not two but THREE incredible nights, and I'd like to personally thank everyone who came out to make them so special.On Friday, some very interesting Ladies and gentlemen from Club FEM(Women enslaving men) came to Command Performance after Club FEM's monthly Munch. It was truly a pleasure to have them here. Thanks to Ms. Divinity for sending them over.The next night was our monthly Post-Munch celebration, and once again thanks go out to the incredible Ally Waterfall for all her hard work to make these nights happen and for her support of CP and enthusiasm she brings to playing here.On Sunday it was SPICE's Newcomer Night. Deiter presented on the topic of Rope. Before the evening was over we had the chance to witness him fully suspend a lovely female.Now, having three hot events in one month might be enough for some places, but not CP. Before we turn the calendar to September, we have two more special nights planned that I certainly hope you'll mark on your kink calendar.This coming Friday the 14th, it's the latest installment of one of my favorite parties - it's the Hot & Sweaty Summer Smotherama! If you’re into foot fetish, body-worship, face-sitting, or any type of smother play, save your bucks because this is the event for you. For a $30 door charge, you’ll get to meet a wide variety of mistresses, ranging from big to small, younger to older, short and tall – trust me, we’ll have it all! Once you’ve decided which lady you’d like to experience your kink with, you’ll be able to privately negotiate a session with them for as brief or as long as you’d like. Or, if you’d like to have a BDSM buffet, you can play with as many ladies as you choose. Hey, if you’ve got the means, they’ve got the time. For more information, call us up at 954-782-1778 or drop me an e-mail at ladyregina@commandperformance.netAnd on Sunday the 23rd, it's time for TNG at CP! I love these parties for the energy and education, led by their incredible moderators Deiter and CP's own Lady Lotus. For more information, drop an e-mail to deiterpilam@yahoo.comAugust is always the hottest month of the year in South Florida, and that's no exception at Command Performance. Now come out and play!

Command Performance Welcomes Back Mistress Countessa

After a rather lengthy hiatus, the cruel and cunning Mistress Countessa has returned to Command Performance in full force! A natural Dominant, She has been playing in the scene since Her youth, learning the art of Domination from the very best, the Grande Matriarch Mistress Carla, Herself.

Her specialties include Humiliation (Verbal Assault/Role Play), Corporal Punishment and Forced Feminization. She is also quite fond of Foot slaves, Human Furniture and Boot worshippers. She also enjoys CBT, Nipple Torture, Edge Play, Mummification, Bondage, Teasing and Denial, Waxing, and many other scenarios which are just too many to mention here. Make no mistake - She loves to play creative games with fully enjoys the servitude of the male species.
So don't hesitate - call 954-782-1778 and set an appointment to meet this special Mistress today!

THESE ARE THE COMMAND PERFORMANCE HOURS oF OPERATION

WEDNESDAY, THURSDAY, FRIDAY AND SATURDAY NIGHT from 8 – MidnightDoor = $20/singles or $30 couples The dungeon is open for Public Play. Any couples or groups are welcome to get out their toy bags and come down to CP to use our equipment, enjoy the atmosphere and make as much noise as they want to away from nosy neighbors, kids and roommates.On these nights we are also open for walk-in sessions with a Mistress or female submissive. Half hour sessions are available during open night hours.

ATTENTION: Summer Rental Special- $50/hr. Rent private time in the Command Performance Dungeon. This is for Pro-dommes who need a dungeon location to bring their subs, Couples or small groups who want to use the space. Hours are noon- midnight. Advance notice (preferably 2 hours or more) is needed. Call (954) 782-1778 with any questions.

PRIVATE SESSIONS Mistresses and female switches are available 7 days a week between the hours of noon and midnight for Private Sessions. Click here to see who’s available. Call (954) 782 1778

Wanted: Male slave for the chance of a lifetime

2009-08-08T10:05:00.000-04:00

Change your life, live an adventure, and turn your fantasy into reality under the dominance and command of 2 true, dynamic, attractive, experienced, lifestyle Mistresses, and their female slave-girl. Escape into O/our stimulating “world of domination”! O/our cozy, private home (with a dungeon) in Pompano Beach has a select position for a mature, obedient, respectful, worthy submissive who will appreciate this rare, and exclusive opportunity. you must be sane, stable, sober, drug-free, non-smoker, self-employed, or retired, financially secure and very supportive. you must be eager to faithfully serve, and live by proper protocol. Serious inquiries. your clandestine journey will begin soon. An interview is mandatory with genuine proof of sincerity. Discretion assured / required.

Call: Grande Mistress Carla at 954-798-7959 (Mon-Fri. 12noon-2am)

Summer Events, New Mistresses and More

2009-07-09T23:35:00.000-04:00

Hello,
I hope everyone’s having an action-packed summer so far. If not there’s no excuse anymore since there are all kinds of trouble to get into this weekend alone!

This Saturday is the monthly post- Munch party here at Command Peformance. Door Opens at 8PM $10 for all Munch attendees, otherwise it’s $20 for singles, $30 for couples. Ms. Sarina and I, Lady Regina will be the Hostesses with the Mostesses.
It should be an intense evening with floggers and whips flying and screams of pleasure filling the air.

Also on Saturday night
Beyond Leather (must RSVP) and the Fetish Factory have parties going on. Make it a triathlon of kinky events if you think you have the stamina.

On Sunday is Off the Cuff at 5pm followed by Newcomer’s Night at Command Perforamance starting at 8pm. Door $10."Newcomer's Night” is the beginner's opportunity to experience a dungeon and the practical application of BDSM "playspace" protocols (discussed each time) and techniques (these vary, and many will include special demos). The evening will conclude with an opportunity for supervised light play. THIS MONTH’S TOPIC: Different Collars, Different Play and Using the Dungeon, its toys and tools…

Friday July 17th Command Performance is putting on a Sissy Dress Up Panty Party. We’ll have clothes for TVs, CDs, pantyboys and sissymaids to try on or buy, of course all attendees are welcome to come dressed or dress up in our CD Parlour. Glamour Makeovers by TS Ms. Alexis(in picture, far right) available. Hopefully this will be the first of many nights celebrating all things pink and silky.

On Saturday the 18th you’ve got WOLF at LAC for the Leatherwomen, Club FEM for female lead D/s couples and those who believe in female supremacy and Bunkergate for party animals. We are also open if you had a more cozy, intimate evening of beating and perversions in mind.

Sunday the 19th is SPICE

Then on the 26th it’s TNG at Command Performance
Doors open at 7pm $10
Lady Lotus says that THIS is the month we’ll be seeing CPT so it should be quite the interesting demo.
Must be 19-35 years old to attend this event or regular play partner of a TNG member

Coming in August – The Return of Smotherama – hot and sweaty summer edition!

Plus we’ve got new Mistresses, 4 nights of Open House each week to play in the Dungeon and great prices on Dungeon rentals. See you in here soon,
Lady Regina

THESE ARE THE COMMAND PERFORMANCE HOURS oF OPERATION

WEDNESDAY, THURSDAY, FRIDAY AND SATURDAY NIGHT from 8 – Midnight

Door = $20/singles or $30 couples

The dungeon is open for Public Play. Any couples or groups are welcome to get out their toy bags and come down to CP to use our equipment, enjoy the atmosphere and make as much noise as they want to away from nosy neighbors, kids and roommates.

On these nights we are also open for walk-in sessions with a Mistress or female submissive. Half hour sessions are available during open night hours.

ATTENTION: Summer Rental Special- $50/hr. Rent private time in the Command Performance Dungeon. This is for Pro-dommes who need a dungeon location to bring their subs, Couples or small groups who want to use the space. Hours are noon- midnight. Advance notice (preferably 2 hours or more) is needed. Call (954) 782-1778 with any questions.

PRIVATE SESSIONS
Mistresses and female switches are available 7 days a week between the hours of noon and midnight for Private Sessions. Click here to see who’s available. Call (954) 782 1778

June Events. The girl in the pic is Ms. Sarina

2009-06-04T00:42:00.000-04:00

Hello there,
Hopefully everyone made it through the craziness of May in one piece. Now begins another sticky, sultry summer of sin here in South Florida.

Let’s start with some basics.

In case any one was unsure of when we are open –

THESE ARE THE COMMAND PERFORMANCE HOURS oF OPERATION

WEDNESDAY, THURSDAY, FRIDAY AND SATURDAY NIGHT from 8 – Midnight

Door = $20/singles or $30 couples

The dungeon is open for Public Play. Any couples or groups are welcome to get out their toy bags and come down to CP to use our equipment, enjoy the atmosphere and make as much noise as they want to away from nosy neighbors, kids and roommates.

On these nights we are also open for walk-in sessions with a Mistress or female submissive. Half hour sessions are available during open night hours.

ATTENTION: Summer Rental Special- $50/hr. Rent private time in the Command Performance Dungeon. This is for Pro-dommes who need a dungeon location to bring their subs, Couples or small groups who want to use the space. Hours are noon- midnight. Advance notice (preferably 2 hours or more) is needed. Call (954) 782-1778 with any questions.

PRIVATE SESSIONS
Mistresses and female switches are available 7 days a week between the hours of noon and midnight for Private Sessions. Click here to see who’s available. Call (954) 782 1778

GROUPS, EVENTS and PARTIES at Command Performance this month

First Wednesday of each month is Recovery inthe Lifestyle @7 Pm. Contact stormy (lapo6050@bellsouth.net)

Tomorrow night Thursday June 4th is TNG social at Zoo Bar starting at 8PM.
2608 S. Federal Hwy.Fort Lauderdale, FL 33316No cover, all ages welcome If you are between the ages of 19 and 35 and want to meet other youthful pervs, have a drink and talk about whatever’s on your filthy and feverish mind contact Deiterpilam@yahoo.com

Saturday June 13th will be our post- Munch party. The May party had great energy and lots of play and I’m sure this month will be as intense. Party starts at 8PM. Door charge is $10 for anyone coming from the South Florida Munch.

If you want to learn more about the South Florida Munch itself or RSVP , go to sfmunch.com or email sfmunchwoman2@aol.com. This website has an incredible calendar or BDSM and fetish events from Palm Beach to Miami and beyond.

Sunday June 14th is Spice’s OTC Newcomer’s Night. 8PM-11PM. $10 door. This is a group for newbies of any age interested in learning about BDSM, it includes lecture and hands- on play. Experienced players are welcome to attend and share their expertise as well. Contact Bill Murray Dombydefault@aol.com

Learn more about SPICE, a pan-sexual, private membership organization whose purpose is to educate and promote B/D, DS, S/M, fetish, and kink in a positive manner in South Florida.

Friday June 19th is Ms. Sarina’s Birthday. (That's her pic at this top of the newsletter)This lovely and talented Domme is the newest Mistress on the CP Staff. She’s been terrific hosting open nights and helping out with parties so wish her a Happy Birthday on fetlife or come in and do it in person.

Finally, Sunday June 21st TNG is at Command Performance presenting CLIT and PUSSY TORTURE. Doors open at 7pm, $10 cover. All those who’ve waited patiently while one penis after another has been paraded in front of you in various agonizing situations can now stare into pink depths of a suffering, teased and tormented vagina. There! I made it through this announcement without using the phrase “meat curtains”. Er- almost. Contact Deiterpilam@yahoo.com

This summer is going to be hotter than hell! Watch for updates on amazing demos with special guests, and sizzling, sweaty summertime events and parties through July and August.

Lady Regina

You Kiss Your Mom with That Mouth?

2009-05-04T22:18:00.000-04:00

Hello and Happy Mother's Day in advance to all you tortured souls out in kinkdom,
Just as everyone's getting recovered from the wild weekend they had at Beyond Leather; here comes the month of May with a new round of interesting trouble to get into here in pervy South Florida.
First of all- Any kinksters between the ages of 19-35 come be part of the TNG social at Zoo Bar 8:00-11:00 p.m.
2608 S. Federal Hwy.
Fort Lauderdale, FL 33316
No cover, all ages welcome

It's a public humiliation show and tell so get creative and join in!
contact DeiterPilam@yahoo.com for details.

This week is packed with events here at Command Performance.

Wednesday May 6th is Recovery in the Lifestyle at 7-8pm. If you or someone in your life is dealing with issues related to substance abuse, physical or emotional abuse or addiction and need a support group that "gets" the importance BDSM/ D/s in your life, this is a terrific resource. Contact Stormy (lapo6050@bellsouth.net)

Thurs. and Friday we are open for play or walk-in sessions as usual.

Saturday May 9th is our Monthly post-Munch party starting at 8:30 PM and I am honored to have Miss Rae's pet chris, winner of the SouthEast Community Bootblack contest at Beyond Leather '09 in the Dungeon for bootblacking and leather care. Don't forget to tip, she deserves it! As always, admission is $10 for all Munch attendees.

The Munch itself is at Top China Buffet, 4026 W. Hillsboro Blvd., Deerfield Beach, FL 33442. On the southwest corner of W. Hillsboro Blvd. and Powerline Rd. next to Office Max. It's from 6:30 p.m. to 9 p.m. The Munches have been extremely well attended of late so please RSVP with ally if you plan to attend.
If' you'd like more info on the Munch dinner please contact ally Waterfall [allywaterfall6@gmail.com]

Finally on Sunday night Bill Murray of SPICE brings Off the Cuff to Denny's from 5pm to 7 PM
(Powerline Rd. north of Oakland Park Blvd.)
3151 NW 9th Avenue
Ft. Lauderdale, FL 33309
"Off the Cuff" is an open group for people to gather and discuss topics related to alternative lifestyle activities, but the emphasis will be on the newcomer.

After that the OTC folks come to Command Performance for Newcomer's Night. The topic this month is BDSM scene play furniture ..
the "invisible" dungeon (at home). After the lecture portion of the evening the Dungeon here is open for those who want to stay and play. Admission to this event is $10. Contact DomByDefault@aol.com for info about Off the Cuff or Newcomer's Night.

That's not all that's going on around town-

This Friday Club FEM Southeast Florida has a dinner at 7pm. This group is for those who embrace Female Power and loving Female-lead relationships. I attended the last dinner and found it to be a delightful bunch of people. I highly recommend anyone sincere about Fem-dom check out the website: ClubFemSootheastFlorida.com or contact Divinity~ [divinity@clubfemsoutheastflorida.com] for information.

L.A.C. has D.A.R.K. on Fridays

WOLF is at LAC on Saturday the 16th of May for women into the Leather Lifestyle

Contact- Director@lifestylealternatives.org for info on these events and all the other educational programs at L.A.C.

The Fetish Factory is having its Alter-Ego party this Saturday at Purgatory. Peel on some latex, shine up and check out the sexy creatures indulging in deviant behaviour. Go to thefetishparty.com for info

Legion and Sanctuary host Bunkergate Saturday May 9th. It's a hotbed of dark industrial music

and great play down in Miami and the price is right! Check it out- myspace.com/ bunkergate

DO NOT MISS the great webinars that Ava Durga and PowerPlay academy are offering. Imagine a virtual kink university with interactive BDSM e-learning courses, live webinars, and online workshops that you participate in from home...
A diverse faculty composed of leading independent kink educators, authors, and researchers dedicated to quality education in alternative sexuality...
Like-minded classmates who could be from anywhere in the world...
Guest lecturers, panel discussions, and free public service presentations...
A mission that includes supporting lifestyle nonprofits...
And requires no special equipment or software.

Registration for the awesome May program closes on May 7th!

Fem-Dom Chat on Sunday the 10th. Info at powerplay.org

Can you stand one more not to be missed event?

I hope so because Yours Truly is Presenting at SPICE on Sunday May 17th!

My topic will be Chastity Play and I'm not only discussing My fondness for this type of play but interviewing a panel of enthusiasts. If you like your goodies locked up and want to answer personal and probing questions about how, in what way and why contact Me ladyregina@commandperformance.net

I haven't even mentioned that it's getting to be time to start decking yourself out and packing the toyboxes for the Fetish Factory's Anniversary Weekend May 22nd- 24th which is practically a holy day(s) of obligation for freaks and fetishists of all stripes or the awesome workshops Domina Demanda and LAC are putting on. FetishFactory.com/anniversary

Is your head spinning yet? How can you fit in so much dirty fetish fun and still face your Mom on Sunday for Mother's Day. Oh well .. Maybe the guilt will add a certain frisson and anyhow half of us probably got our issues from Mommy, right? All I can say is 'TINA!!!! Bring me the axe!!!

Breast Bondage! Suspension Play! It's TNG at CP THIS SUNDAY!!!

2009-04-24T22:13:00.000-04:00

Time to get our your calendars. TNG has moved their monthly CP party to the fourth Sunday of the month, meaning this weekend is the weekend! TNG has brought some fun and insightful demos to CP over the past year, and this Sunday's edition promises to be no different as Breast Bondage and Suspensions by nationally renowned presenter Greydancer will be the order of the night. For those of you between the ages of 20-to-35 and would like to see this great demo, or simply meet other young'uns in the lifestyle, our doors will open at 7 and the entry fee is a mere $10. Call 954-782-1778 for more information or e-mail TNG moderator and CP friend Deiter at deiterpilam@yahoo.com.

Hope to see you there!

The weekend is here – what are YOU doing?

2009-04-10T16:18:00.000-04:00

First off, we at Command Performance want to wish everyone a happy and safe spring holiday season, whether you’re celebrating Passover, Easter, or - like me - John Waters’ birthday (it’s on the 22nd). But the weekend is here, and it’s about time to party. CP is up to the challenge with not one but two outstanding events this weekend.

For starters, Saturday night is the April installment of our Post-Munch Party. With that wascally wabbit about to hop on Sunday morning, spend the night before Easter at CP taking out your frustrations on all things spring with our Bunny Beaters Night! Yes, we’ll have willing slaves dressed and ready to go from cottontail to beatentail, just for your pleasure and amusement. Doors open at 8 p.m., and a full night’s entertainment can be all yours for the low price of $10. Some of our recent Saturday nights have been spectacular – including a visit and demonstration last weekend by legendary Grand Mistress Carla – and I’m sure that this weekend will be nothing less than stellar. If you’d like to go to the munch itself, click on http://www.sfmunch.com/ to learn more.

By time Sunday night comes, you’ll probably had your fill of family gatherings and fattening foods. So how about meeting some new friends at Command Performance? It’s the monthly SPICE Newcomer’s Night at Command Performance! For years, SPICE has been a vital organization to the South Florida BDSM community with lots of education and play for rookies and veterans alike. Now they’re topping off their monthly Off The Cuff events (click on http://www.spicebdsm.net/ to learn more) with a party at our dungeon. So whether you’ve been in the lifestyle for 20 years or 20 seconds, Newcomer’s Night is a great way to make new friends, discuss BDSM, or even get your naughty on by playing! Just like on Saturday, the doors open at 8 and $10 gets you in.

Okay, so now you have no excuse to sit home and do nothing this weekend. And, if I find out later that you did sit home and do nothing this weekend, I’ll cut christina’s nipples off with a tile knife. So, consider yourself warned…

Across the Community - April

2009-03-25T16:43:00.001-04:00

Yeah, there's a lot going on at CP in April, but we're not alone. There'll be a lot to see and do this coming month in the community, and here's just a taste of the naughtiness you can get yourself involved in:

Of course, the April event that EVERYONE is talking about is Beyond Leather 2009. I certainly can't wait to spend THREE DAYS learning, laughing and lashing starting on Friday, April 24th. Last year's event was incredible, and I am certain that the hard work of Sir Top, bonnie and their volunteer crew will result in another awesome time for all. For more information, click here.

If you'd like to learn more about TNG but don't want to wait until their next CP party, swing by Zoo Bar on Tuesday, April 7 for their low-key meet-and-greet night.

Electrolust at Club X-It makes its return on Saturday April 4th. You can get the lowdown on this event by clicking here.

They’re the parties that started it all, and still the gold standard for Great Leather Events in South Florida. Of course, we’re talking about the Fetish Factory bashes, taking place on the second Saturday of every month. On Saturday April 11th, Glenn and company are having their 6th Annual Exotique event, with a special tribute to the iconic Bettie Page. Tickets can be purchased here. Whether you want to play, or just play dress up, this is the place to see and be seen. For more info, click on http://www.fetishfactory.com/. Don't forget in May, FF is having their incredible Memorial Day weekend Anniversary Party, celebrating 14 breathtaking years in fetish!

Talk about an organization near and dear to my heart - Club FEM (Females Enslaving Males) has come to South Florida! For information about their April gathering, check out their website.

For many years, S.P.I.C.E. has been an instrumental group in bringing education and fun to people in the lifestyle of all ages and kinks. As always, they'll meet on the Third Sunday of the month (that's April 19th for those of you without a calendar handy) at Club 525. For more information, click on their website or attend their Off The Cuff meeting and party at CP on April 12th.

Want to spend a night on South Beach with a group of fellow kinksters? Then the Miami Munch is just for you. Keep April 30th in mind, and check out their MySpace page for updates on locations and times.

April Events at CP

2009-03-25T16:10:00.000-04:00

Where is this year going? It just seems like two minutes ago I was stapling holiday tinsel and ornaments to one of my slaves as a make-shift holiday tree (oh, wait...that was two minutes ago) and now you're telling me we're in the swing of Spring? Sheesh. Time flies when you're caning sissies. Alas, here's what we've got on our April calendar at Command Performance:

First off, April introduces the new night for Recovery In The Lifestyle. CP is a proud supporter of this organization that seeks to help people into BDSM deal with their addiction issues in a setting most comfortable to them. RIL will now take place on the first Wednesday of the month starting April 1. The 7 p.m. start time remains unchanged. For more information about this RIL meeting or others taking place across South Florida, click on to their website.

Save your energy for the second weekend in April, because we're going to have two events that you won't want to miss. On Saturday April 11th, it's our monthly post-munch extravaganza. First get your belly full at the South Florida Munch dinner (more information can be found here) and then come on by CP for a night of fun - all for the low price of $10! This month's theme will be "Bunny Beaters" as we celebrate the Easter weekend the only way we know how - by making a complete and total mockery of it.

Then, the very next night, Sunday April 12, we'll open our doors once again for SPICE's Off The Cuff meeting. After a discussion of BDSM thoughts and issues taking place at Denny's on Oakland Park Boulevard and Powerline Road starting at 5 p.m., come take what you've learned and put it to practice at CP starting at 8 p.m. If you're a seasoned Fet Vet looking to meet someone new, or a curious newbie wanting to find other people to talk BDSM with, this is a night you'll want to set aside. For more information, contact SPICE's OTC moderator Bill at DomByDefault@aol.com. Door price for this fun will also be $10.

Finally, TNG has moved their monthly CP meeting to the 4th Sunday of the month. Last month's electric play demo was shocking (ha!) and I'm sure the April 26th party will be just as charged (ha again!). For more information, contact TNG moderator Deiter at deiterpilam@yahoo.com.

And, of course, we are still open for play every night from Wednesday to Saturday starting at 8 p.m. So if you're looking for a place to publicly play, come on down to Command Performance.

Now get out there and make someone scream!

In Memory of Mistress Elizabeth

2009-03-25T16:07:00.000-04:00

Everyone at Command Performance was saddened by the recent passing of Mistress Elizabeth. Her dedication and contributions to our community could not possibly be understated, and we will all miss Her grace, beauty and humor as we move on to a world absent of Her guidance and love.

This Saturday evening March 28th, there will be a memorial service for this incredible woman, led by Lady Qitara and featuring a live musical performance. The service will be followed by a Beyond Leather play party. For more information for this special night, please call pup at 954-536-5414, or e-mail the sensational ally waterfall at allywaterfall6@gmail.com.

March 14th - Come celebrate St. Paddlington's Day

2009-03-06T22:59:00.000-05:00

It's a new month, so that means a new munch. For this month's Post-Munch gala, we're celebrating St. Paddlington’s Day! If you enjoy getting your hide turned as red as a bottle of Wild Irish Rose, you won’t need any Lucky Charms at CP on March 14th. One lucky attendee will even go home that night with a Pot O’ Gold, as well as a shillelagh to fend off any naughty leprechauns. For more information, you can contact me at ladyregina@commandperformance.net.

To find out about the South Florida Munch, click on http://www.sfmunch.com/.

OTC at CP - THIS SUNDAY!!!!!

2009-03-06T21:26:00.000-05:00

For many years, SPICE has been the gateway group to introducing new people into the lifestyle, as well as a fun group to learn and play with. Now we’re thrilled to announce that they’ve decided to bring Off The Cuff – their monthly discussion and play group for fetish rookies – to Command Performance. Starting this Sunday and continuing on the first Sunday on each and every month, OTC will meet at Command Performance at 8 p.m., following their discussion dinner for the low, low price of $10 per person.

Here's what one anonymous submissive had to say about the last OTC gathering -

Having fun - that’s what it’s all about, right? And that is exactly what I did at the S.P.I.C.E. 'Off the Cuff' (OTC) meeting held at Denny's last Sunday night. But I also learned a thing or two, as well.

Old timers and newcomers alike gathered around a table in a private back room of the restaurant and had an informative discussion about lifestyle terminology. We talked about the meanings of different terms used - direct meanings, interpreted meanings, as well as misinterpreted meanings of commonly used words and phrases. For instance, do you really know the difference between a kink and a fetish?

Bill M. and his lovely slave judi did a great job heading a seminar-style discussion that was both informative and fun. The meeting started out with a brief introduction of all parties attending. We gave our chosen names and explained how we identified ourselves in the lifestyle. There seemed to be a well- rounded division of both Dominants and submissives, as well as a fairly equal mix of experienced lifestylers and newcomers.

The discussion was excellent and moved along gracefully with time for questions and answers, as well as time for anyone that want to express an opinion to do so. I for one came out of the meeting having learned a few new things that I did not know, that I thought I did know. I really enjoyed the added input of all those attending. The atmosphere of the group was light and airy and I could see that everyone fully enjoyed himself or herself and is looking forward to next months meeting.

I hope to be able to bring at least one new person with me to the meeting every month because I believe that being educated and well informed makes the lifestyle that much more enjoyable. Unfortunately, I have seen too many people in this lifestyle who are totally unprepared and uninformed. Some of their problems could have been avoided had they been able to find a group discussion like OTC to answer some of their questions, and help them to learn and understand what they needed to know.

Touché to S.P.I.C.E for deciding to move in this direction for 2009 by going back to basics and having functions that will help teach and show about the exciting and creative aspects of our chosen lifestyle. In March, besides the regular OTC group discussion, community members will have the option of following up the discussion by heading over to a local dungeon, Command Performance, for ‘Newcomers’ Night’ (8:00pm to midnight), where they'll be instructed in the practical application of some of our typical lifestyle activities.

Newcomers' Night will be open to anyone to attend but will key on demos and Q & A for those newest to our lifestyle. The evenings will be topic driven and just like at OTC the older more experienced members will be asked to talk about, and maybe show, their skills. At each Newcomers' Night there will always be time for light play, moderated by the oldtimers.

There is no cost to attend Off the Cuff meetings, they are free, and the reduced fee of only $10.00 per person at the Command Performance dungeon for these Newcomers' Night special events following OTC will be well worth the price of admission.

Therefore, readers, I urge you to please spread the word that new and great things are happening at the S.P.I.C.E. Off The Cuff discussion groups this year. We really need more people to come and make it even better. If you are new to the lifestyle, come and try it out. Or, if you have been to the meetings in years past, please come back, bring a friend and enjoy the fun. Let's come together and support our community. Add your two cents to these discussions. It may not seem like a lot to you, but to someone else your helpful opinions, experiences and advice may be invaluable.

WELL SAID! To learn more about Off The Cuff, click on http://www.spicebdsm.net/ or e-mail moderator Bill M at DOMBYDEFAULT@aol.com. Come on out and play!

Pervy Priests and Naughty Nuns Night – February 25th

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Calling all Sinful Saints, Saintly Sinners or anyone with a fetish for faith – on February 25 Command Performance will be hosting Pervy Priests and Naughty Nuns Night! After going to your church of choice to wash your sins away, come and get a whole new fresh batch of ‘em at CP starting at 8 p.m. The door fee will be $20…unless you come dressed as your religious figure of choice. If you’re brave enough to do that, we’ll knock your charge down to $10. Call me at 954-782-1778 if you’d like to learn more.

OTC is now at CP!

2009-02-20T20:52:00.001-05:00

For many years, SPICE has been the gateway group to introducing new people into the lifestyle, as well as a fun group to learn and play with. Now we’re thrilled to announce that they’ve decided to bring Off The Cuff – their monthly discussion and play group for fetish rookies – to Command Performance. Starting on March 8 and continuing on the first Sunday on each and every month, OTC will meet at Command Performance at 8 p.m., following their discussion dinner. If you’re new to the scene and would like to know and grow with other newbies as well as a few kinky vets, then mark your calendars now. All this for the low, low price of $10 per person.

To learn more about Off The Cuff, click on http://www.spicebdsm.net/ or e-mail moderator Bill M at DOMBYDEFAULT@aol.com. Come on out and play!

What's going on in March? LOTS!

2009-02-19T22:19:00.000-05:00

There's always something going on....and March will be proof that. On top of some of our great events at Command Performance, there's lots to do around South Florida for the fetish-advantaged:

ElectroLust kicks off the month with another one of their great parties on March 7th at Club X-It in Hollywood. Purchase your tickets here.

They’re the parties that started it all, and still the gold standard for Great Leather Events in South Florida. Of course, we’re talking about the Fetish Factory bashes, taking place on March 14th. Whether you want to play, or just play dress up, this is the place to see and be seen. For more info, click on their website if you dare. This month's party will be have a Medical Fetish Play theme (paging Dr. Feelgood). And don't forget about their 14th Anniversary Bash coming up in late May.

S.P.I.C.E. has had two incredible demos in 2009, the last being a fascinating medical demo by two of CP's own darlings, Goddess Olga and christina. Kudos, girls! Their next gathering will be on March 15 at Club 525 in Pompano Beach, and on the third Sunday of every month. Check out their website to learn more about this group, attend one of their Off The Cuff gatherings at Command Performance!

And speaking of Club 525...are you looking to meet a Mistress? Looking to meet LOTS of Mistresses? Then check out Club 525 Mistress Night, taking place every Thursday at our neighbors joint down Sample Road. They're also going to have a Foot Fetish Party on Thursday, March 19. Pre-registration is required. For more info, visit their website or http://www.footnight.com/ to sign up.

There's always something interesting going on at the Domina DeManda's Lifestyle Alternatives Centre of Palm Beach, especially their DARK Fridays! Their Shibari South Florida event on March 7th sounds especially fascinating.

Want to spend a night on South Beach with a group of fellow kinksters? Then the Miami Munch is just for you. The March edition will take place on March 26th, and on the last Thursday of every month. For more information, check out their MySpace page.

And we're one month closer to BEYOND LEATHER!

Say you love CP and save money!

2009-02-19T22:07:00.001-05:00

What could be better than that?

Two of South Florida's best adult stores are running a special. Say that you heard about them from your friends at Command Performance, you'll receive 10% off your purchase! You can spread the love and spare your wallet at these locations:

Secrets in Sunrise
4509 Pine Island Rd
(on the corner of Pine Island Rd and NW 44th St)
954-742-6770

Adult Supermarket in Miami
7481 Bird Rd
(right off the Palmetto Expressway)
305-261-3922

THANKS to Mitch for making this possible!

A “BLEG” FROM COMMAND PERFORMANCE – ATTN: FEMALE SUBS

2009-02-19T22:02:00.001-05:00

We’re looking for a few good female subs. Maybe some bad ones too. In fact, the more of those the better. But if you’re a woman, enjoy being topped and would like to take part in an event for a worthy cause, please contact me at ladyregina@commandperformance.net. Information will be provided to those who apply.

March 14th Post-Munch Party – St. Paddlington’s Day

2009-02-19T22:00:00.000-05:00

First, I would like to thank all of you who came out to our February 14th Not-Really-A-Post-Munch-Party Party. It was quite a fun night and I am dearly thankful for those who attended. Now marching on towards March – for the Post-Munch Party next month we’re going to celebrate St. Paddlington’s Day! If you enjoy getting your hide turned as red as a bottle of Wild Irish Rose, you won’t need any Lucky Charms at CP on March 14th. One lucky attendee will even go home that night with a Pot O’ Gold, as well as a shillelagh to fend off any naughty leprechauns. For more information, you can contact me at ladyregina@commandperformance.net. To find out about the South Florida Munch, click on http://www.sfmunch.com/.

FOUR great events this week at CP and beyond!

2009-01-17T22:04:00.001-05:00

Wow! Talk about a full calendar! This week, there are not one but TWO days featuring not one but TWO incredible events each day! Try to keep your calendar open this Wednesday and Saturday for FOUR exciting events.

First, let’s talk about next Saturday, January 24. With the return of Smotherama at Command Performance and Spur 'Em & Spank 'Em PonyFEST at the Lifestyles Alternative Centre of Palm Beach, it promises to be a full day of educational fun and funical education.

(ooh, now I can add ‘word creator’ to my list of skills)

First, Smotherama II – The Return! As you may remember, late last year we debuted the Smotherama party at Command Performance. The response to this event was so overwhelming that we’ve decided to make it a semi-regular party. If you’re into foot fetish, body-worship, face-sitting, or any type of smother play, save your bucks because this is the event for you. For a $30 door charge, you’ll get to meet a wide variety of mistresses, ranging from big to small, younger to older, short and tall – trust me, we’ll have it all! Once you’ve decided which lady you’d like to experience your kink with, you’ll be able to privately negotiate a session with them for as brief or as long as you’d like. Or, if you’d like to have a BDSM buffet, you can play with as many ladies as you choose. Hey, if you’ve got the means, they’ve got the time. For more information, call us up at 954-782-1778 or drop me an e-mail at ladyregina@commandperformance.net

Earlier in the day, there will be lots of horsing around up at the LAC in Palm Beach. It starts off at 11:30 a.m. with a five-hour Special Kinky PonyFEST School featuring Trigger, The Human Equine. Here’s just a brief bio:

He's spent weeks as a horse 24/7 totally immersed in the role, and totally treated as a horse. Trigger has presented workshops on pony play all across the U.S.A for many groups and organizations including Black Rose, Vegas Women of Leather, QSM, MichChatOhs, & Leather Retreat to name a few. He was filmed for the documentary “Born in A Barn” and has been in several videos for Magic Pony Productions. He has done the Tyra Banks show, as well as on a VH1 special, HBO’s Real Sex, Playboy’s Sexcetera, and Sky One’s Yanky Panky. He has been in publications such as Playgirl, Forum Variations, Taboo, Démonia (French), and in a published book by Suzie Parker called “Sex in the South”.

That's some resume. But if that’s not enough for you, come check out Pete the Human Floor – the man with a pain tolerance that you must see to believe!

At night, it’s Double DARK at LAC starting at 7:30. The evening will close with Show Ponies at the amazing Fetish Factory Saint Saturday at Purgatory in Fort Lauderdale.

For more information on this event, be sure to visit http://www.lacpb.org/

But that’s Saturday – you might be asking what about this Wednesday business,
Mistress?

First off, it’s our monthly meeting of TNG – The Next Generation! If you’re between the ages of 21 to 35 and looking for a night to meet up with people your age who share your BDSM interests, then this is the night for you! This week’s demo will be Scene Basics: Etiquette, Negotiation, After Care, Follow Up and Critique. 2008 Command Performance Talent Show Winner Deiter is the leader of this great group, and he’ll be more than happy to tell you all you need to know about TNG by contacting him at deiterpilam@yahoo.com

Wednesday night is also the debut of Miami Beach Cinematheque's “Cine-Kink” night, a new semi-monthly tribute to the artistic side of kinky subjects. This month opens with a compilation of short films by the bad boy of underground film: Richard Kern. Mr. Kern, a photographer, filmmaker, and general mood enhancer, depending on your mood to be enhanced, became famous in the Ronald Reagan 1980’s for his explicit but artistic visions of S&M, gothic romps, and related rough around the edges topics. His films are occupied by characters such as Lung Leg and Lydia Lunch, the prolific recording and spoken word artist, who he made an acting legend of the NYC underground scene with this collection of short films starring her. Warning: these are experimental, alternative, explicit creations, and not for sissies. Coming soon: Kinky classics, with surprise shorts! You must be 18 or older to be admitted. The MBC is located at 512 Española Way. For tickets and more info, click http://www.mbcinema.com/

Also, your MBC Ticket is good for 25% off wine tasting at CAVAS Wines, located across the street at 437 Española Way.

It certainly looks like it’s going to be one outstanding week, so get out and play!

CINE-KINK on SOUTH BEACH

2009-01-02T22:58:00.000-05:00

At this time, we'd like to turn the floor over to a true friend of the Command Performance Dungeon, the beautifully amazing and amazingly beautiful Ms. Kiki Veronica, for a special announcement. Take it away, Keeks!

Hi all! Mark your calendars for Wednesday, January 21st for the debut of Miami Beach Cinematheque's “Cine-Kink” night, a new semi-monthly tribute to the artistic side of kinky subjects. This month opens with a compilation of short films by the bad boy of underground film: Richard Kern. Mr. Kern, a photographer, filmmaker, and general mood enhancer, depending on your mood to be enhanced, became famous in the Ronald Reagan 1980’s for his explicit but artistic visions of S&M, gothic romps, and related rough around the edges topics. His films are occupied by characters such as Lung Leg and Lydia Lunch, the prolific recording and spoken word artist, who he made an acting legend of the NYC underground scene with this collection of short films starring her. Warning: these are experimental, alternative, explicit creations, and not for sissies. Coming soon: Kinky classics, with surprise shorts! You must be 18 or older to be admitted. The MBC is located at 512 Española Way. For tickets and more info, click http://www.mbcinema.com/

Also, your MBC Ticket is good for 25% off wine tasting at CAVAS Wines, located across the street at 437 Española Way.

Hope to see all of you there!

January Events at Command Performance

2009-01-02T22:51:00.000-05:00

First off, let me wish all of you a Happy and Healthy New Year. I certainly hope your holiday season was a wonderful one.

But now the holidays are over, but that doesn’t mean the good times are going to stop anytime soon. In the month of January alone, Command Performance will be the home to FIVE events that offer a little something for everyone. Aaaaaand…..just because we’re big fans of doing things slightly different around here, we’re going to list these events in reverse order. Why? Just because! Besides, everyone else would do it in order, right? Of course! And who decreed that it must be that way? Some vanilla person I bet. So screw that! Here is what’s up in January at Command Performance:

Saturday, January 31st – WOLF Open House
Saturday, January 24th – The return of SMOTHERAMA!
Wednesday, January 21st – TNG – The Next Generation
Wednesday, January 14th – Recovery in the Lifestyle
Saturday, January 10th – South Florida Munchers Party

And don’t forget – we’re still open for play four nights a week, from Wednesday through Saturday starting at 8 p.m.!

Show, show, show, here we go…..

1/31 – WOLF (Women of Leather Florida) Open House: We’re happy to announce this first-time Command Performance event. The evening’s festivities will be broken down into two parts – the first part of the evening, beginning at 6 p.m., will be exclusively for females. Sorry guys and wanna-be girls, but this is a chance for the ladies of WOLF and those who’d like to become one to come on out and get to know more about this incredible organization. However, at 9 p.m. at that evening, we’ll throw open our doors to all genders for a pansexual get-together. The play promises to be diverse and intense, so mark your calendars now. Entrance fee for this event will be $10.

1/24 – Smotherama. We had so much fun with this event late last year that we’re doing it again! For all you foot fetishists, BBW lovers, body worshippers and other assorted skin freaks, we’ll have all the women on hand that you could possibly want to make your personal fantasy come true. Entrance fee for this event will be $30. For more information, e-mail me at ladyregina@commandperformance.net or call 954-782-1778.

1/21 – TNG – The Next Generation. If you’re between the ages of 21 to 35 and looking for a night to meet up with people your age who share your BDSM interests, then this is the night for you! 2008 Command Performance Talent Show Winner Deiter is the leader of this great group, and he’ll be more than happy to tell you all you need to know about TNG by contacting him at deiterpilam@yahoo.com.

1/14 – Recovery in the Lifestyle. Command Performance is the proud home of this important event for those in the BDSM community looking for help with addiction issues of any type. On the second Wednesday of every month starting at 7 p.m., this is the place to be if you’re looking for help amongst people who you feel will understand you best. For more information, contact the amazing stormy at lapo6050@bellsouth.net.

1/10 – South Florida Munchers Party. Our monthly relationship with the South Florida Munch continues with another great party. Since we’ll be counting down the final days of the tremendously successful administration of George W. Bush, come on out that night to take out your frustrations on Dubya! That’s right, we’ll have a fake Dubya on hand that night for you to spank, cane, flog, CBT, whatever you wish! (By the way, how do you know it’s not the real Bush? This one knew Iraq had nothing to do with 9/11, didn’t sit on his ass while New Orleans drowned, nor deregulate the entire financial industry) Lost all of your 401K in the stock market? Whack! Is your mortgage balance greater than the value of your home? Whack! Still don’t have health insurance? WHACK WHACK WHACK! The door won’t hit Dubya in the ass on his way out, but you’re more than welcome to at our dungeon next Saturday!

Happy Holidays from Command Performance!

2008-12-10T22:16:00.001-05:00

From the entire Command Performance family, we would like to wish everyone in the lifestyle community a Happy and Healthy Holiday Season. Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukkah, Happy New Year, Happy Festivus, whatever your celebration of choice is this month, we hope that you find it with nothing but good times and great friends.

Happy Holidays!

December Events at Command Performance!

2008-12-10T22:09:00.000-05:00

Welcome Back Everyone! December is going to be another great month at Command Performance, and we have so much to share.....

But, before we do, the entire Command Performance family wants to wish a Happy Birthday to the amazing Domina DeManda! Your contributions to the local BDSM are known and appreciated by all, and we are happy to call you a friend in the community. Keep up the excellent work at the Lifestyle Alternatives Centre of Palm Beach, and here’s to many, many more years of joy and happiness for you.

Now, on to business….

Once again, we are open FOUR NIGHTS PER WEEK for play. Make our dungeon your home for kinky play from Wednesday through Saturday nights. Our doors open at 8 p.m., and you can get your freak on for the low price of $20 for singles and $30 for couples.

On Saturday, December 13th, Command Performance will be having their First Annual Christmas Cavalcade of Abuse! This month’s post munch party will be a tribute to the old, really-campy-but-oh-so-good holiday variety specials. And you’ll certainly see a lot of variety at CP that night, like our evil parade, the Bad Santa Spanking Game, and an Egg Nog Enema (don’t forget your cinnamon sticks!). Oh, and speaking of the South Florida Munch, we would be remiss if not to mention that you can get all your munch info from the sensational ally by e-mailing her at allywaterfall6@gmail.com.

Holidays are hard on submissives. Not that I really care, but they just are. We ask a lot of them during the other eleven months of the year, but the demand of the holidays makes their roles even more difficult. So, we’re going to give something back. On Friday, December 26th, Command Performance is proud to present Submissive’s Night. In the tradition of Boxing Day (oh, just go Google it) our staff will treat the “lower members of society” like the kings and queens they never wanted to be. Food will be served, foot messages will be provided and perhaps we’ll even show a subbie or two how to wield a flogger. Just don’t let it get to your head, wormbarf.

One of the highlights of 2008 has to have been creating our wonderful friendship with TNG. Their monthly parties have been educational and fun, and we expect that nothing will change in the coming year. Their next gathering will be on Wednesday, December 17th. If you’re between the ages of 21 to 35 and looking to meet new faces, this is the event for you. Contact Deiter (who we’d like to publicly congratulate for winning the presidency of SPICE last month) at deiterpilam@yahoo.com for more information about any and all TNG events.

And KEEP CHECKING HERE FOR OUR NEXT BIG ANNOUNCEMENT. Yes, myself and that annoying ho bag christina have been working on what should be a great pansexual event to kick off 2009, and we look forward to making a formal announcement soon.

Now get out and play!

Thus far, a November to Remember

2008-11-19T21:38:00.000-05:00

All I can say is WOW! November has been one incredible month at Command Performance. Just this past weekend we had the incredible Smotherama party. All night long, foot loving subbies were stepped on, trampled and smothered as they took to the care of every member of my dungeon family, as well as visiting ladies Amazon Amanda and Mistress Ingrid. The response to this event was so overwhelming that I can assuredly say we will be having a return engagement in the near future.

The weekend before that was our monthly post-South Florida munch extravaganza, and I want to thank everybody for coming out to Command Performance that Saturday night. The evening was highlighted by a nine-person, three hour birthday-butt-beating of heidi and my worthless little sissy slut, christina elaine (yes, that's the 'ristina's ass, a few days later) I will never again underestimate the local lifestyle community’s desire to spank my annoying ass of a house slave's annoying ass. Brava!

The month’s not even over yet, either. On the eve of Thanksgiving, we’re going to celebrate Spanksgiving! Before you get your fill of turkey and stuffing, get your butterball battered and blistered by one of our staff or a play partner of your choosing. The doors open at 8 p.m., with $15 for singles and $20 for couples. Nothing says lovin' like feeling your ass has been in an oven.

Don’t forget – we’re now open for play FOUR nights a week! From Wednesday through Saturday evenings, our doors are wide open from 8 p.m. to anyone needing a full-service dungeon to bring a date for a night of BDSM, or just wanting a night out to see freaks in action.

Say hello to Lady Lotus

2008-11-06T07:42:00.001-05:00

Command Performance is proud to introduce the newest member to our burgeoning family - Lady Lotus. This angel-faced switch showed up at our doorstep one night, and it didn't take long for us to discover that she would be a perfect fit inside our dungeon. She has a wide array of interests, but most enjoys spanking, flogging and pegging her submissives until they scream. If you'd like to schedule a session with her, please call 954-782-1778.

November - Upcoming Events& New Open Nights

2008-11-01T23:20:00.000-04:00

Greetings my fellow freaks and fetishists. Well, it’s November now, and 2008 is quickly coming to a close. Looking back on the year, I must say it’s been quite eventful here at Command Performance. We’ve seen a bevy of outstanding parties, and already are booking more and more events by the day. On top of our monthly munch parties and the addition of TNG –The Next Generation events to our little enclave on Sample Road, we’ve had a rather outstanding Fetish Talent Show which was a veritable feast for the eyes. This month, we’re having two events – Smotherama and Spanksgiving – that promise to satisfy the filthiest of fetishists. And we’re already in the laboratory working on an absolutely huuuuge event in January 2009 – but you’ll have to come back later to hear more about that one. As always, give us a call at 954-782-1778 or e-mail me at ladyregina@commandperformance.net for more information about these events, or the just the dungeon in general.

First however, let’s talk about what’s coming up in November at Command Performance –

Saturday, November 8th: The Munch Party – our monthly tradition here at Command Performance. First get your meal on with the fabulous Ally as the South Florida Munch meets at Top China Buffet located at 4026 W. Hillsboro Blvd in Deerfield Beach. Afterwards, head on over to Command Performance for our party – only $10 at the door.And this month’s munch party is also our little house slut christina’s birthday weekend, so come on out and give that whore the birthday spanks she really needs. For more information about the munch party, e-mail Ally at sfmunchwoman2@aol.com or go to http://www.sfmunch.com/.

Wednesday, November 12th: Recovery In The Lifestyle. Command Performance is a proud supporter of RIL. Held the second Wednesday of the month at our dungeon and elsewhere across South Florida the rest of the month, this event is geared towards those in fetish who are dealing with addiction issues. If you need help, and would feel more comfortable discussing your problems with those who understand the role of BDSM in your life, click on http://www.recoveryinthelifestyle.com/

Saturday, November 15th: Smotherama – Have a foot fetish? Love to suck on a woman’s toes or worship her shapely bottom? This is the event for you. The Command Performance staff and other lovely women from across South Florida’s fetish community will be on hand to help you work out your kink. Simply come on out, find the domme who you like, then pretend you’re Monty Hall and play Let’s Make A Deal. Advance tickets are $25, those without them will have to pay $30 at the door.

Wednesday November 19th: TNG - The Next Generation – This party just keeps getting better and better, with exciting and informative demos followed by wild, all-out play. Deiter and his crew of young lifestylers take over CP on the third Wednesday of the month for this event that’s perfect for the young BDSM newbie looking to meet people and learn more about the fetish life. Email Deiter at deiterpilam@yahoo.com for more information.

Wednesday November 26th: Spanksgiving – Another one of our special traditions here at Command Performance. Hey, it’s going to be uncomfortable enough sitting at that dinner table with your relatives, so why not do it with a sore bottom? My staff and I will be here with paddles, canes and, yes, even our bare hands to make your behind that shade of crimson we know you’ll love. Door fee will be $15 for singles and $20 for couples, and the butts start getting blistered at 8 p.m.

Starting in November, Command Performance will be open to the public for play or walk in sessions Wednesday through Saturday nights from 8 pm to midnight so stop in and see what kind of bizarre antics we are up to.

Is that enough for you? No, I didn’t think so. So here’s what else is going on across our fine community.

Remember the good old days at Club Kink? Well, times have changed – but maybe now for the better! On Friday, November 7th the very same location just down the block from us on Sample Road re-opens its doors as Club 525! The prices are $25 for single guys, $10 for single ladies and $30 for couples for BDSM nights on Thursdays and Fridays. For more information, check out their brand new website at http://www.club525sample.com/

South Florida lifestylers don’t agree munch (no, really, they don’t) but one thing that everyone knows is that the best party to see and be seen at is the famed monthly Fetish Factory extravaganzas. Their Halloween Bash was so incredible that they’re going to have a Halloween Hangover party on November 8th at Purgatory in Fort Lauderdale, and don’t forget to mark December 13th for their final Fetish Factory party of 2008 which will also be held at Purgatory.

Big credit goes to Master Arkady and his crew of perverts down in Dade County for doing such a great job with the Miami Munch! The next event will take place on November 20th at 7 p.m. at the Nexxt Cafe, located at 700 Lincoln Road on South Beach. Great time, great food, great location. Who could ask for more?

The more I hear about Azazel’s Fetish Legion parties…the more I want to go! The next wild Legion bash will be on Friday, November 21 at Forbidden Room at Club Discotekka at 950 NE 2nd Ave in Miami. Go to http://www.azazelsfetish.com/ for more information.

Registration for Beyond Leather 2009 is now open! Taking place in late April, BL2009 should soon become the premiere pansexual event in all of the Southeast United States, thanks to Sir Top, slave bonnie and their excellent, hard-working staff. Go to http://www.beyondleather.net/ for more information.

Interested in a little....trampling?

2008-10-18T00:04:00.000-04:00

Do you have a trample fetish?

Does the idea of a woman lowering her beautiful silky feet, either bare or adorned in heels, upon you make you cringe with delight?

Do you dream of being in a room full of pedicured females, just waiting to step all over you in a whole new way?

Would you like to make that fantasy a reality?

If so, drop me an e-mail at ladyregina@commandperformance.net. And get ready to have some fun this fall......

Upcoming Events

2008-10-17T22:41:00.000-04:00

Doms, subs, tops, bottoms, switches or those just beginning the journey --

It has been a memorable few months at Command Performance and in the local lifestyle community. I was just remarking to one of my slaves (while torturing him, of course) the other day that there seems to be more events going on in South Florida than even before. On top of the excellent play parties going on at our little slice of hell over on Sample Road, every weekend is filled with lots of chances to go out and get to know yourself.

The rest of 2008 looks incredibly exciting too! Command Performance is exited to throw open our doors for:

Open House on Halloween

South Florida Muncher's Party

TNG - The Next Generation

First off, All Hallow's Eve falls on a Friday this year. So if your holiday plans included a little more than just fright to your night, then come on down and get your tricks and treats here! Our doors will open at 8 p.m. and the rest is up to you. If you have more questions, call us at 954-782-1778.

Coming November 8th is the next edition of the South Florida Munch Party open to all players! For the special low price of $10, you can meet, greet and beat people all night long. We'll also be celebrating christina's birthday, so come out and give that worthless toe-sucking whore the birthday spankings she needs. The turnout at the past two munches have been absolutely INCREDIBLE thanks to the hard work of ally waterfall. For more information about the party, either call us or e-mail ally at sfmunchwoman2@aol.com

The great folks at The Next Generation have put on some brain-feeding yet mind-fucking demos over the past few months during their monthly get-togethers at our dungeon. At their most recent party, Master Arkady's flogger discussion turned into a floor-wide free-for-all that had many screaming with delight until the closing hours. Open for those between the ages 21 to 35, TNG is quickly becoming our favorite monthly blowout. The next party will be held on November 19th, starting at 7 p.m. For more information, contact Deiter at deiterpilam@yahoo.com.

Command Performance is a proud supporter of Recovery In The Lifestyle. Held the second Wednesday of every month, this event is geared towards those in fetish who are dealing with addiction issues. If you need help, and feel more comfortable discussing your problems who understand the importance of BDSM in your life, the next meeting will be held on November 12th at 7 p.m. To find out more, click on http://www.recoveryinthelifestyle.com/

And as they say on those tacky infomericals that run at 3:30 in the morning....there's more!

It's certainly true that great leather events never near success until community kinksters style. And no where is style more out in force than at the famous monthly Fetish Factory parties. If you get sick with desire at their legendary Halloween bash on October 31 at Club Cinema in Pompano Beach, they'll give out the cure at Halloween Hangover on November 8th at Purgatory in Fort Lauderdale. For more information, check out http://www.fetishfactory.com/.

ElectroLust returns to Club X-IT in Hollywood on Saturday, November 1st. Halloween may be past on the calendar, but on that night will still have a spooky feel with a Vampire Fetish Rave that'll shake whatever's left of your soul from 9 p.m. until close to sunrise (and back to your caskets). Check out them out on the web at www.myspace.com/electrolusthollywood

Looking to bring out your best in bondage play? Want to know how best to fling that flogger? Then LeatherWerks should be your destination. Through the middle of November, the store that makes Fort Leatherdale famous will be giving classes on many different forms of play, taught by some of the local lifestyle's most knowledgable denizens. Drop an e-mail to leatherwerks@leatherwerks.com to find out more.

Now don't just sit there - get out and play!

More Play Nights at Command Performance!

2008-10-17T22:20:00.000-04:00

What could make this winter better than ever? More sin, more play and more fun! That's why Command Performance will be open more nights than ever before in the coming months. Soon, we'll be open for all players in all flavors FOUR NIGHTS A WEEK! That's right, soon we'll be open on Wednesday through Saturday evenings for open play for anyone who wants to use a great setting at a lower price in order to find release for their darker inclinations. Stay tuned for the official announcement, but in the meantime you're more than welcome to come on down on our current open house Wednesday and Friday evenings. Call us at 954-782-1778 for more information, or e-mail me at ladyregina@commandperformance.net.

Events Calendar for September and Beyond!

2008-09-20T14:32:00.001-04:00

The summer is over, but that doesn’t mean the fun is coming to an end at Command Performance. Every month it seems like we’re making more friends and booking more parties, and the local BDSM scene is exploding lately with one great event after another. Coming up here at the dungeon, we’ve got:

• The Return of the Munch Parties, on October 11th.

• TNG on October 15

• Open House Every Wednesday and Friday night!

First off, Command Performance is open for all every Wednesday and Friday night! So, if you’re looking for a fun place to go that won’t make your wallet feel like a pain slut, our doors swing open at 8 p.m. Drop Me an e-mail at ladyregina@commandperformance.net or buzz Me at 954-782-1778 to find out more about our open house nights.

After taking September off to celebrate the anniversary of our friends at Lifestyles Alternative Center, the Command Performance Munch Party will be back in force in the fall. The sensational ally has all your munch information at sfmunchwoman2@aol.com. We’re having our Halloween Bash on Saturday, October 11th and we’ll be giving away prizes to attendees. November’s Post-Munch celebration on the November 8th should be an awesome blast too – it’s that annoying ho-bag christina’s birthday weekend, so come on out and give that slut her b-day spanks!

I must say that I am so very pleased with our burgeoning relationship with Deiter and his pals from TNG! We’ve had some outstanding demos and I am sure that the best is yet to come. If you’re under 35 and would like to take part in the fun, be sure to book these dates – October 15 and November 19 – for the upcoming parties. For more information, contact Deiter at deiterpilam@yahoo.com.

Command Performance is the proud home and supporter of Recovery In The Lifestyle, an important support group for lifestylers dealing with addiction. The meetings take place on the second Wednesday of every month at 7 p.m. For more information, drop an e-mail to the beautiful and amazing stormy at lapo6050@bellsouth.net. The next meeting will be on October 8th.

Also, there are plenty of events going on around town, such as:

Scaryokee at Johnny Fuci-fino’s is quickly becoming the place to be on Wednesday nights (after a visit to Command Performance, of course!). Where else can you see a submissive being belted in one corner, and belting out a Morrissey tune in another? Check out http://www.fuci-finos.com/ for more information, or give them a call at 954-733-1985.

Electrolust made a successful debut at Club XIT in Hollywood last month, and returns on October 4th at the same venue. Call 954-822-6350 for more information.

Registration for Beyond Leather 2009 is open once again! I went to this event this past April and can’t wait until next year’s extravaganza. With lots of great speakers and lectures, as well as the leadership of Sir Top and slave bonnie, I fully expect that Beyond Leather will become the must-go-to yearly event in Florida, if not all of the Southeast United States. For more information, go to http://www.beyondleather.net/

Our pals Arkady and kiki have been doing a fabulous job with the Miami Munch, and who doesn’t need a good excuse to have dinner on South Beach? Bring your appetites – sexual and culinary – to the NEXXT CAFÉ at 700 Lincoln Rd, starting at 7 p.m. on September 25th. You can get more information by e-mailing kiki at kikiveronica@gmail.com or visit their MySpace page.

What are you waiting for? Go out and play!

Upcoming Events!

2008-08-06T23:08:00.000-04:00

Hey there fellow freaks and fetishists! August is typically the hottest month in South Florida temperature-wise, and this month will be no exception when it comes to unbelievable events and happenings all around the fetish community, including:

* Another hot South Florida Munch Party on August 9th

* TNG - The Next Generation on August 20

* Open House Every Wednesday and Friday Nights!

Read on, and join in!

First off, if you’re just looking for an inexpensive night of fun (and really who isn’t these days?) don’t forget that Command Performance is open to all every Wednesday and Friday evening! If you’d like more information, please contact our amazing dungeon mistress at LadyRegina@commandperformance.net or give us a call at 954-782-1778.

On Saturday, August 9th we’ll have the next South Florida Munch starting at 6:30 p.m., at CC’s Fish Camp Restaurant (301 W. Oakland Park Blvd - 954-358-5620). And don’t forget that Munch Night is also Open House Night at Command Performance! Men, women, couples, whatever you consider yourself – you’re welcome to come on down. Please RSVP at allywaterfall6@gmail.com for the dinner, then contact us for more information about the dungeon party. The munches seem to keep getting hotter, thanks to a great turnout and lots of amazing scenes.

Note to all Munchers - we will temporarily suspend the post-munch party next month to honor the anniversary gathering of the Lifestyles Alternative Center in Lake Worth, taking place on Saturday, September 13. Don't fret - we'll be back and in force in the month of October. Contact director@lifestylealternatives.org for more information.

Command Performance is a proud supporter of Recovery In The Lifestyle. This important event will next take place at CP on Wednesday, August 13th. For more information, check out http://www.recoveryinthelifestyle.com/.

The incredible and amazing Lochai has a photography exhibit going on at the World Erotic Art Museum, located at 1205 Washington Ave on South Beach. Call 866-969-WEAM for more details.

A few weeks back, Lady Regina, Lady Lucretia and the annoying ho-bag christina went to Scary-oke at Johnny's Fuci-Finos at 2500 West Oakland Park Blvd and had a great time. If you'd like to see what the buzz is about, it's happening each and every Wednesday evening starting at 9 p.m.

Command Performance is proud to welcome The Next Generation! This monthly event is designed for younger lifestylers (age 21-35) looking to meet people their age and learn more about BDSM. The next TNG event will be at Command Performance on Wednesday, August 20 at 7 p.m. Call the dungeon or e-mail DEITER at deiterpilam@yahoo.com for more details.

For all you note heads (like me) on , September 26th, Techno Sluts will take place at Voodoo Lounge, located at 111 SW 2nd Ave in Fort Lauderdale. On top of an incredible night of dance music highlighted by performances by Exzakt, Infiniti, and Jackal and Hyde, you can also catch a few fetish scenes put on by Rebecca’s Rubber Room. The Electrosluts will also be there.

The Fetish Factory is invading Tampa! On top of their awesome monthly events in Broward, they’re having a blowout weekend on Florida’s west coast with parties on Friday August 15th and Saturday the 16th. Go to http://www.fetishfactory.com/ for details.

Finally, if you have any events you'd like for us to promote here at the Command Performance Newsletter, just drop us a line and we'll be happy to plug it - and the event too!

Until next time, everyone - go have fun!!!!

You Gotta Sin to Win - It's the Command Performance Talent Show!

2008-08-06T22:02:00.000-04:00

Hear ye, hear ye! Command Performance will host a TALENT SHOW! You read that correctly, by fellow freaks - we're putting on a talent show and if you, your top, your bottom or even all three of you think you've got what it takes you can win one of many fabulous prizes, including the grand-prize - a three-day pass to Beyond Leather 2009!

No matter what your fetish talent is - using a flogger to turn a backside cherry red, transforming a slave into a rope-covered mummy in seconds flat, signing O Come All Ye Faithful while juggling a pair of flaming dildos, or even doing all of that at the same time - and you're brave enough to get up on stage for a chance to win big, this is your night!

And if you're more of a watcher, don't let that hold you back. For the $10 entry fee, you can still come out to have a good time and help us decide who'll walk away with the grand prize through your applause.

So mark your calendars for SATURDAY NIGHT, SEPTEMBER 27th for this incredible event! Call us at 954-782-1778 for more information.

See ya then!

A Message from from Lady Regina

2008-07-10T00:14:00.000-04:00

Hello,
Ah summer... the scorching days, the long sultry nights - what better time to slip out of the sun and into the Dungeon?
Here's what's coming up:

Saturday July 12th- Post Munch Party( doors open at 9pm) Open to the public, Much discount still applies

Wednesday July 16th, TNG( or as I like to call them the young S&M-ers-that means 35 or under- if that's YOU read on, Christina's got contact info in here for ya)

Wednesday August 13th- Recovery in the Lifestyle @ 7pm.

As always open for play or walk in sessions on Weds. and Fri. after 8

Let me take one moment to say how happy I am with My little family of perverts and disciplinariennes- there's some overlap, true...

christina is doing a great job as my PR slut and girl Friday. Mistress Brittany is kicking ass on FRIDAY NIGHTS. Come up and visit Her after 9 PM.
Of course Mistress Anglina is still the high maintance glamour but don't let the pretty package fool you- She'll do some damage.
Nikita as always is the best of both worlds bi and a switch!
And Lady Lucretia well I'll let Her speak for Herself in a no holds barred interview conducted by the lovely christina.

Hope you are having a summer of sin, but if you aren't, it's not too late- stop by and let your inner demons out to play!

Upcoming Fetish Events!

2008-07-09T23:01:00.001-04:00

Hey there fellow freaks and fetishists, it's christina da house slut here to let you know what's coming up in the local scene for you!

First off, if you’re just looking for an inexpensive night of fun out (and really who isn’t these days?) don’t forget that Command Performance is open to all every Wednesday and Friday evening! If you’d like more information, please contact our amazing dungeon mistress at LadyRegina@commandperformance.net or give us a call at 954-782-1778.

Of course, this coming Saturday night July 12th is the South Florida Munch! The evening gets started at 6:30 p.m. at CC’s Fish Camp Restaurant (301 W. Oakland Park Blvd - 954-358-5620). And don’t forget that Munch Night is also Open House Night at Command Performance! Men, women, couples, whatever you consider yourself – you’re welcome to come on down. Please RSVP at allywaterfall6@gmail.com for the dinner, then contact us for more information about the dungeon party. The munches seem to keep getting hotter and hotter, so come on down and check out all the fun!

On Wednesday, July 16th is the next TNG at Command Performance! Last month's TNG gathering was the first ever at our dungeon, and the evening was highlighted by an informative rope-tying session by TNG chief Deiter, followed by lots of playing. For more information or to RSVP, drop a line to Deiter at deiterpilam@yahoo.com or janice at janice@kirinawa.com.

20 Lashes with Lady Lucretia

2008-07-09T22:49:00.000-04:00

It’s the last Wednesday evening of what has been an exhausting month, but the howls and screams of pure pleasure are reverberating off the walls at Command Performance. A giant play party earlier is now winding down, and a few committed players are still going at it on the floor. Lady Regina sits in a large, death-penalty type chair, quietly observing her dungeon acting as a dreamland for the remaining fetishists. A small, contented grin appears on her face, exposing the magnetic smile that has won her many admirers in the local fetish scene.

Above the sounds of whips cracking and submissives yelping rings the front door bell, surging like an electric shock through the air. The noise is an appropriate one for what’s to come, as moments later in strolls Lady Lucretia. The harshness of the buzzing could almost be a calling card for the fierce, intimidating domme. Collapsing down on a couch, she stares over at the interviewee with a mix of curiosity and disdain. But once the questions begin to flow, Lady Lucretia shows a seriousness and straight-forward nature to the topic at hand. Usually firm and sure with her flogger, now she’s doing so with her words.

So why did you decide to become a Mistress?

“I always felt that I had the personality for it. I started going to goth parties back in 1993, and from there started going to fetish events. Once I did, I figured ‘Why not me?’ I command intensity when I walk into a room. People tend to notice, like I have a royal bearing about me. Friends believe that I was royalty in a past life.”

What is your favorite form of play?

“Heavy corporal pain – dishing out punishment. I love the sound of a flogger whipping in the wind. When I was a kid, I would take twigs I would find and wave them in the air. The sound would thrill me. Knowing what I know now, I wish I had started doing this earlier.”

It seems like you enjoy the feel and sound of floggers in your hand.

“Yes, and I always have. They’ve always felt right, comfortable when I hold them. In my college years, I was involved in equestrian sports and there I gained an admiration for riding crops. Often, out of boredom, I’d go up and hit teammates with it. I also like canes, because it’s easier to wave it close to the submissive’s ear and then they can hear the pain that awaits them.”

Why did you decide to come to Command Performance?

“Because they didn’t seem like all the rest of the dungeons you see. Every other dungeon I saw ads for practically made their staff look like ‘hookers with whips.’ I didn’t want that at all. I wanted to work for a place that I’d be proud to associate myself with, and this place was it. It was a good choice, I think.”

A submissive has made a huge mistake in your presence. What would you do to punish them, and what can they do to regain your favor?

“Follow my orders exactly without question. I would probably make them to lie on the floor, belly down. Then I would make them beg for forgiveness, and then crawl over to my cross. There would be no mercy awaiting them there! He would definitely leave with marks, that’s for sure. Also, I would likely have to give him some type of royal mindfuck, so he would remember not to disobey me ever again. I might also make him clean the floor with his tongue. I saw Lady Regina do that once, and thought immediately that I would have to add that to my repertoire.”

How do you prefer your male subs – in rubber/latex, sissified, or naked?

“Depends on what they look like obviously. Bare is best, because I want them to feel the full force of my whip across their skin. Collars are nice too, because then they are like my little kittens.”

What do you think is the biggest misconception about people in the BDSM/fetish lifestyle?

“That they’re freaks, weirdos, unnatural, dirty, whatever adjective they get labeled with by most of society. We’re the brave ones. We all have desires, but we’re the ones brave enough to do something about it.”

In your opinion, which humiliation is darker – one in front of 200 people where the sub doesn’t know anyone in the room, or in front of five people where the sub personally knows everyone who is watching?

“The latter, but let’s make it like 10 or 13, and make it like family members or people the sub works with. To have your darkest fantasy exposed to people who had no idea that that is what you are in to? That is total humiliation.”

Is there an act of play that you’d like to do on a sub but the opportunity hasn’t presented itself?

“Yeah, but that’s for me to know and someone else to find out.”

Name one historical figure who you think would’ve made a great domme.

“Elizabeth Bathory. I don’t admire her, but she would’ve made a great domme. She wanted to stay young, so she would bathe in the blood of her murder victims.”

Do you think that men who submit to you are weak because they’re submissive, or strong because they aren’t afraid to give themselves to you?

“Submissives are weak – period.”

If you could dominate anyone, who would it be?

“I know of three male dominants that I admire greatly for their talents and knowledge. It would be a challenge because they are so very good at what they do. I’d want to see if I could really do it up to their levels of expectation.”

Lastly, why should someone request a session with you?

“Because I am strong, beautiful, powerful and wild. It would be an experience they would not soon forget. They would leave here with a life-long impression.”

Say Hello to Sabine!

2008-06-18T22:48:00.000-04:00

Command Performance is happy to introduce to newest member of our family, the lovely Sabine!

This Eastern European knockout is new to the area but not to the lifestyle. She's currently available for daytime sub/switch sessions, and we're sure that you'll love her style. If you'd like to set up an appointment with this smoldering blonde, give us a call at 954-782-1778.

Seen around Command Performance

2008-06-18T22:30:00.000-04:00

Lady Regina and Mistress Brittany, one pleased, one not so much.

The first meeting of the christina lookalike contest didn't go as well as planned.

Mark Your Calendars - TNG at CP, Wednesday June 25th

2008-06-18T21:21:00.000-04:00

Command Performance is proud to announce that we are the new host of TNG - The Next Generation! This monthly event for younger lifestylers is growing in popularity and we're thrilled that they've decided to call our dungeon home. Below is a missive from the organizers and CP regulars janice and DEITER about the event, coming up next Wednesday night. Hope to see you there!

Hosted By: janice & DEITER

When: Wednesday, June 25, 7:00 PM

Where: Command Performance
901 E. Sample Rd. Pompano Beach

Well, the time has come, once again, to gather for a meeting of the South Florida TNG! This is a group for people between 20 and 35 years of age who are interested in exploring the B/D, D/s, SM, and/or fetish lifestyle in South Florida. TNG stands for "The Next Generation".

This month we will be meeting at Command Performance in Pompano Beach for socializing, demo, and PLAY! Lady Regina has graciously opened her facility for our use. Command Performance is a fully equipped dungeon with many racks, benches, and delightful treats for your kinky enjoyment.

Deiter will be presenting a demonstration on "Basic Rope Bondage" focusing on cuffs and harnesses. Please bring 2 pieces of 25-30 foot rope (1/4" thickness is recommended) to follow along with hands-on practice. Following the demo, the facility will be open for play. Light snacks and refreshments will be provided.

Please RSVP to this invite or to deiterpilam@yahoo.com or janice@kirinawa.com so that we can coordinate logistics. You can join our online discussion group by emailing southfloridaTNG-subscribe@yahoogroups.com. And we encourage you to pass this invitation on to all your friends.South Florida TNG is a private membership nonprofit B/D, D/s, SM, Leather, and Fetish support and education group.

Here are the rules for membership.
1) Your age must be stated in your profile.
2) You must be between 20-35 years old.
3) The State in your profile must be Florida.
4) To help maintain a safe and supportive environment, all potential members of this list must have attended a TNG event where they showed proof of age.

We hope to see you there!

Janice & DEITER South Florida TNG Moderators*

If you would like to be taken off our invitation list, please contact Deiter at deiterpilam@yahoo.com.

Post-Munch Wrap-Up

2008-06-16T07:22:00.000-04:00

This past Saturday night was the monthly South Florida Munch and we'd like to thank everyone who turned out to make it such a special event. Special thanks go out to Lady Jayme and brandigirl for putting this month's event together while the our fave munchwoman Ally was off at Southeast Leatherfest (you'd better have some interesting stories for the next munch there, Ally!). Also, mucho special thanks to Daddy M for coming out and shooting the event at Command Performance. As soon as we have the pictures, we'll post them here for everyone to peruse.

Don't forget that the next munch is Saturday, July 12. The past two munches have been some of the hottest ever at Command Performance - and it's all thanks to you!

Events and Other Stuff

2008-06-16T07:15:00.000-04:00

Hey there fellow freaks and fetishists! Want to know what’s coming up for what promises to be another HOT summer in South Florida (in more ways than one)? Read on, and join in!

First off, if you’re just looking for an inexpensive night of fun out (and really who isn’t these days?) don’t forget that Command Performance is open to all every Wednesday and Friday evening! If you’d like more information, please contact our amazing dungeon mistress at LadyRegina@commandperformance.net or give us a call at 954-782-1778.

On Saturday, July 12th we’ll have the next South Florida Munch starting at 6:30 p.m., at CC’s Fish Camp Restaurant (301 W. Oakland Park Blvd - 954-358-5620). And don’t forget that Munch Night is also Open House Night at Command Performance! Men, women, couples, whatever you consider yourself – you’re welcome to come on down. Please RSVP at allywaterfall6@gmail.com for the dinner, then contact us for more information about the dungeon party. The munches seem to keep getting hotter, thanks to a great turnout and lots of amazing scenes. As the summer temperature rises, so should the heat inside Command Performance for this incredible monthly event.

For all you note heads (like me) this coming Friday, June 20th, Techno Sluts 2 will take place at Voodoo Lounge, located at 111 SW 2nd Ave in Fort Lauderdale. On top of an incredible night of dance music highlighted by performances by Exzakt, Debonaire, and Ghosts In The Machine, you can also catch a few fetish scenes put on by Rebecca’s Rubber Room. The Electrosluts will also be there to dance the night away.

Command Performance is proud to announce that we are the new host of The Next Generation! This monthly event is designed for younger lifestylers (age 21-35) looking to meet people their age and learn more about BDSM. The first TNG event will be at Command Performance on Wednesday, March 25 at 7 p.m. Call the dungeon or e-mail DEITER at deiterpilam@yahoo.com for more details.

Feeling like it’s time for a road trip? Then circle Saturday June 28th on your calendar to attend the Orlando Munch and party at the infamous club The Woodshed afterwards. Please contact the beautiful and amazing stormy at Lap6050@bellsouth.net if you are interested in joining in the fun.

If gas prices got you down and you decide to stay in town instead that weekend, you can go check out Saint Saturday at Purgatory, located at 1000 W. State Road 84 in Fort Leatherdale.

Looking ahead, Swingfest ‘08 is taking place from July 31 to August 3 at the Westin Diplomat in Hollywood. Click over to www.swingfest.com for more information.

The Fetish Factory is invading Tampa! On top of their awesome monthly events in Broward, they’re having a blowout weekend on Florida’s west coast with parties on Friday August 15th and Saturday the 16th. Go to www.fetishfactory.com for details.

Finally, if you have any events you'd like for us to promote here at the Command Performance Newsletter, just drop us a line and we'll be happy to plug it - and the event too!

Until next time, everyone - go have fun!!!!

Worst Submissive In The World - June

2008-06-16T07:13:00.000-04:00

It’s that time of the month again. No not yet, or at least i hope not. It’s time to unveil the June winner of Command Performance’s WORST SUBMISSIVE IN THE WORLD, where we expose the (huh huh) shortcomings of some unfortunate sub while trying to teach something to the unenlightened. Which maybe you are, maybe you aren’t, we’re not judging. It happens sometimes, even to those with the best of intentions, really. It does, Some people don’t understand. Right, Lady Regina?

“You mean like when not knowing to shut the fuck up, christina?”

Yes, Mistress.

“Exactly. So anyway, recently I had this male submissive come down to the dungeon with the wish of becoming one of our house slaves. He loved servicing a strict mistress, or so he said. Once I began telling him what my expectations of any house slave are, he began to sound like Amy Winehouse, singing ‘No, no, no.’ It seemed like he wanted to be my slave except for the small part of actually doing slave-type work! He didn’t even want to help clean the dungeon, which is at the minimum of requirements, along with following my every instruction without question, assisting all dungeon mistresses in their basic needs and…and…and not playing with a box of dildos when I asked you twenty minutes ago to go wipe down the spanking horse, christina!

Sorry Mistress. I’ll put my toys away now and get to work.

“Yes, go do it now. Look, if someone wants to be a house slave, I am willing to train them in the ways and means of such a role. But you had better be ready to serve! If not, then being a house slave is not for you. Maybe some other role within the lifestyle is well suited for them and obviously I hope they find that role and the joy in it. However, the role of house slave means you are exactly that. You belong to the house, and you will perform some slave labor.”

This is definitely true. It’s too bad that this sub understand, because he could have been rewarded with the wonderful strict attention of the dungeon mistresses. As it is, the only reward he’ll get is being named this month’s Command Performance WORST SUBMISSIVE IN THE WORLD!

Now, where did I put those wipes?

INTRODUCING 20 Lashes - Mistress Brittany

2008-05-09T22:55:00.000-04:00

Hey all, it’s christina da house slut, here for the first ever episode of 20 Lashes, where we get into the mind (and other interesting parts) of fellow fetishists. Today, we’re talking with one of my personal heroes and the woman i want to be when i grow up, Mistress Brittany.

1) For all the readers who don’t know you, tell us something about yourself.

“I’m an experienced domme, with knowledge and experience in many forms of domination and pain. There’s very little I haven’t done – or done better. I have the abilities that only come with loving what you do. That’s why I like being at Command Performance. To be a part of this dungeon, you’d better be amongst the best otherwise you won’t be here very long.”

2) Is that what drew you to coming to Command Performance?

“Absolutely. I’ve known Lady Regina for a long time and her passion and drive in the dark arts match mine very well. Think about it, no one wants to be with a mistress who isn’t sure of herself or her love for the feel of a flogger in her hands.”

3) Hmmm, flogging. Is that something you enjoy doing a great deal?

“Oh yes, I love the power that it gives me, extending my strength past my hand and on to my subject’s body. It’s a lot of fun, but it still ranks behind a good over-the-knee spanking on my personal list of favorite practices.”

4) OTK spankings are hot. What tools do you like to use for that?

“Paddles and hairbrushes work pretty well, but from my experiences, nothing beats a good, bare hand. I mean, I’ve had my ass made red a few times recently and the sting from skin-on-skin is like nothing else."

5) Wait, you like to be paddled? So you’re a switch?

“Yes, as much I love giving out the pain, I don’t mind getting it at times either. But the person had better have a clue as to what they’re doing. I won’t let just anyone take me over.”

6) Gee, could i do that some day?

“Next question, Christina.”

7) Oh well, it was worth asking. What is something that a submissive can do to gain your favor?

“Be attentive and take my time seriously. My abilities are not something to be ignored or treated like common rubbish. If you are attentive, then I promise that you an experience like no other, but it’s nothing something I just give away.”

8) What should they avoid doing, or else lose your favor?

“Ask me for my time and then treat it half-heartedly. I don’t mind novices, we were all ones once and we’re all always learning new things. If you have the right attitude, then I’ll work you through your growing pains. But if you act like you don’t care and don’t do what I ask of you, then I’ll cast you aside. Banks don’t give away cash, jewelers don’t pass out free gold, and I don’t do handouts either.”

9) Name one practice that you’ve changed your opinion on.

“Water sports. At first, I was like, ‘Ick, no way, uh-uh, not happening.’ Forget the sanitary issues for a second, it’s just messy! But I had this one submissive who wanted to drink my golden stream, and he had really done everything I’d asked of him up to that point, gone above and beyond what many submissives offer. So I figured, for this person, I would do it. I gotta admit, it was really hot! I’ve always been into dishing out humiliation, but having him at his most vulnerable and me demonstrating my ‘disgust’ for him in that way was just unreal.”

10) So you would do it again?

“Sure. Why, are you thirsty Christina?”

11) Maybe later, but i’ll stick with my Diet Pepsi for now. Okay, now for some off the wall questions. Who is your personal hero?

“Bettie Page. She was hot, sexy and ahead of her time. Every domme and diva owes her a huge debt of gratitude.”

12) Leather or lace?

“Leather for me, lace for my submissives. I love a man who looks like a woman.”

13) Dogs or cats?

“Dogs. My chow Cheaslie is the love of my life.”

14) Broward or Palm Beach?

“Love them both, but I’m rather well known in some of the gay bars in Boynton and Delray for being a fun-loving gal and an excellent paddler of bare asses. So I’ll say Palm Beach.”

15) Younger or older?

“Age doesn’t matter to me, attitude does. Some young guys are attentive and want to learn, while others think because they’ve got a hard body they don’t have to try as hard. Older guys, even with a pair of love-handles or some wrinkles, can be just as good as any 20ish male.”

16) Who would you most like to dominate – Hillary, Obama or McCain?

“I’d love to dominate any one of them frankly. They’re all in positions of power – one of them to be the next leader of the free world – and to have any of them lick my boots or kiss my whip would be amazing. But, if given the choice, I’ll go with Hillary, because I don’t get to dominate women as much. Maybe I could make her and Cindy McCain submit to me at the same time, that would be hot.”

17) Maybe, but i’m not going to think about that too long lest i do irreparable damage to my libido.

“Probably a good idea.”

18) Are there any new fetish practices that you want to introduce?

“Yes! I’ve recently been toying with the idea of RAT PLAY!”

19) ‘Rat Play’? i’m simultaneously excited and afraid to ask, what exactly is that?

Well, I recently had this submissive who came in for a session and he had this really bad, hair and all-gnarly-like mole on his body, I won’t say where. Anyway, I told him how gross looking it appeared and that I should have a rat chew it off. He wanted me to do it! He wanted me to get a rat and smear like Smucker’s on the mole and have a rat gnaw it off! When I told this guy friend of mine about it, he said that the idea sounded interesting to him and might like to have it done. I decided long ago not to have any hang-ups about what ever gets people off, and if someone wants to feel like a giant block of cheese and that makes them excited, who am I to judge? Now I just need to get a rat.”

20) Well, i hear that there are plenty in Fort Lauderdale – available with either two or four legs. Is there anything you’d like to say in closing?

“To all the freaks and fetishists out there – I’m here and I’m waiting. The next move is all yours….”

INTRODUCING - The Worst Submissive In The World!

2008-05-09T20:44:00.000-04:00

Hey All, it’s christina da house slut here to introduce you to a new feature on the Command Performance Newsletter – it’s time to unveil this month’s WORST….SUBMISSIVE…IN THE WORLD!!!!!
Yes, the purpose of this feature is to point out the failings of some poor sub who really, really didn’t have a clue as to what they were doing, as well as make you laugh and perhaps teach you something in the process. So, let’s turn it over to CP’s A#1, Lady Regina.

“Last month, we had a gentleman come in for a private session. His interest in exploring the lifestyle seemed sincere and honest, and he might’ve developed into usable pain slut in time with the proper skill reinforcement. However, it probably came to a crashing halt for him about twenty minutes into my introductory interview.”

Hmmm….i’m always a fan of hearing about someone crashing and burning. What happened, Lady Regina?

“At the end of the interview, I asked him if he had a safe word picked out. He said that he did, and I asked him what it was. He said he wanted it to be ‘Please Mistress.’ I was actually speechless for a minute. ‘Please Mistress?’ How in the hell I am supposed to tell if I’m hurting someone if the safe-word or phrase they use is something I expect them to say in the course of conversation? I know the difference between giving a submissive ‘good-pain’ and ‘bad-pain’. But I can’t tell what they’re personally experiencing if they say something that only encourages me to bring it harder. I mean, you have a proper safe-word, don’t you christina?”

Um, yeah, i do. i can’t recall what it is right now because i don’t really use it.

“That doesn’t surprise me. Well, anyway, when I actually regained the ability to speak, I told him under no uncertain terms that that was the absolutely worst safe word I’d ever heard and he’d have to pick out a new one. He seemed taken aback by this, but if he wasn’t ready for a strict reprimand from me, than he had really no clue what he was getting himself into.”

So, what’s the lesson here, Lady Regina?

“Put some thought into your safe word! Lots of people use ‘red,’ the color of a traffic ‘STOP’ sign. Other people will use a word or phrase that never would come up in the course of a pain scene - like ‘banana’ or ‘pencil’ or ‘Eliot Spitzer’ - something so out of place to the moment that it’s very introduction indicates that something is wrong. Either way, have one prepared and agreed upon before starting any type of session or scene. It’s necessary…and not exactly rocket science.”

Unfortunately, our unnamed, unknown and since-that-day unheard from submissive didn’t know that. He may have lost Lady Regina’s interest that night, but today he’s a winner – he’s this month’s official Command Performance….WORST….SUBMISSIVE…..IN THE WORLD!

COMMAND PERFORMANCE SUMMER UPDATES

2008-05-08T14:35:00.000-04:00

Hello,
It's been a while since I've put out a proper newsletter. I thank you all for your patience.
We're adding two new features to the newsletter this month: 20 Lashes and The Worst Submissive In The World !

First, for 20 Lashes - it's a twenty question interview segment where the Mistresses and slaves interview each other (and hopefully, members of the local scene or interesting private perverts who would be interested in answering some questions about what makes them tick). So if anyone reading this would like to be interviewed or wants to interview one of us and have it posted in the newsletter email me: LadyRegina@CommandPerformance.net
This month our loyal Sissy Housemaid christina takes control of 20 Lashes with an interview of the beautiful, demanding and mysterious Mistress Brittany. Later, WSITW covers one sub's unfortunate (okay, totally freaking stupid) choice for a safe word.

But before we get the road on the show, here's our May updates:

RECOVERY IN THE LIFESTYLE is now the 2nd Wednesday of the Month!
Next meeting: May 14th @ 7PM at CommandPerformance
For info. on other meeting places and times go to: recoveryinthelifestyle.com

Command Performance's Monthly Play Party In Association with the South Florida Munch
will be Saturday, May 10th
Doors open at 9pm

singles-$20
couples-$30

Special pricing for Munch Attendees still appies

Summer Schedule

Open House for Playtime or Walk-in Sessions

Wednesday: 8pm-midnight

Friday (hosted by Mistress Brittany & christina) 9pm- 2am

Saturdays- 2nd Saturday of each month is the party, other Saturdays are by appointment for couples private rentals, event rentals, or private sessions

Private sessions available 7days a week

CALL (954) 782- 1778 for more info.